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Civilian Women and their Preferences

steve229
Civilian Women

Regarding the recent discussions involving "civies:"

Admittedly my experience may be skewed, but over the last couple of years I have had the occasion to meet over dinner and drinks with a not inconsiderable number of attractive, young civilian women, mostly in their mid-twenties, and all of them have said without fail they had no interest in dating the broke, knucklehead guys their own age, and that instead they were interested in dating a generous, respectful older man.

46 comments

  • GoVikings
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    10 years ago
    Yeah, who knows.

    While everyone is different, I always thought MOST people liked/preferred dating someone who is in their own age-range. So if that many mid-twenties females actually prefer older men, I'd be surprised.

    I could be wrong though, that's just the impression I've always been under.
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    Lol! Still having trouble accepting your age Stevie-girl? Maybe if you moved beyond $40k/y bureaucratic lifer it would get easier. But, damn it! You won't get their if you just obsess over celebrity gossip all the time and have no skills beyond song lyric quoter.

    So hate on people who aren't old farts. Maybe you can get a big ol' circle jerk of others here who are older than they wish to be agree with you that's it's actually great and everyone can feel good about it.

  • sclvr5005
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    10 years ago
    Translation- they will "date" old guys for the money and they will fuck their 20 something guy friends when Pops is napping or having the 4pm senior dinner special at Denny's.
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    Stevie really doesn't have much built in skepticism when he hears something he wishes was true. Can't think critically. Just wants the cognitive dissonance gone!
  • motorhead
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    10 years ago
    "4pm senior dinner special at Denny's"

    Ooh, that's the best. Turkey Manhsttan with mashed potatoes and green beans with bacon.
  • lopaw
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    10 years ago
    I think that's wishful thinking, steve.
  • GACA
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    10 years ago
    Fact. Wen a girl in her mid twenties says older, she means up to mid thirties. Some may stretch that number to late thirties early 40's but only if you are super paid, and super young acting. If you ask this MIT nerd about buying down the age gap hes got some data behind how much more money it takes to get girls by diffence in age (SJG provided the link earlier)
    http://www.askbrandonwade.com/dating-stu…
  • Experimental
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    10 years ago
    Those aren't civilian women, they are sugar babies looking for a daddy.
  • GACA
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    10 years ago
    Don't get me wrong @steve229 no-dot, there are outliers. Sure some girls have major granddaddy issues. I new a 24 year old who would only date guys in their 50's and older. But she was a major outlier not to mention a fckn headcase. But seems like the older I get the less effected I get by them, so it's a blast to play with them for a while. Somebody advised me against dating strippers, but shot I feel like I've been dating close to strippers for a very long time. Just want to see what an actual stripper has in store. Can't be much worse.
  • GACA
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    10 years ago
    @experimental most civilian women are looking for a sugar daddy, maybe not quite as actively as in that site...but a hell of a lot of them want to be with someone financially secure and maybe even affluent.
  • steve229
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    10 years ago
    I don't think it's wishful thinking, I get 2-3 messages daily from civilian women asking if I want to get together for coffee or meet for drinks

    And just for the record, Denny's is suddenly "cool" again.

    http://www.businessinsider.com/dennys-is…
  • JohnSmith69
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    10 years ago
    There's clearly some truth to what Steve no dot says. Women place great importance in a man with maturity, money, and security, and older guys usually have those things more than younger guys. Just to cite one example, my ATF's last serious boyfriend (they dated for over a year before he broke up with her) was 20 years older than her.
  • GACA
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    10 years ago
    @johnsmith69 was your ATF over 30? And do you live in the South? I've noticed a lot of girls out here feel old at 27. Old. LA has 38 year old ladies having their fist kid. So to this civie question, could be a regional answer not so much a universal one
  • PhantomGeek
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    10 years ago
    "generous, respectful older man." Wow, that sounds like it was written by any number of advertisers in the Body Rub and Escort sections of Backpage.
  • SlickSpic
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    10 years ago
    @GACAclub-When dealing with Los Angeles, you must factor in the Latino factor. We can have kids way past being 38. Latinos in general and Mexicans specifically have great reproductive genes. At 38, we're just getting started, even if our first child was at 15.
  • GACA
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    10 years ago
    @slick. Yes that's true, but in LA I'm sure you have Jewish friends. And they don't start having kids till their 30's either.
  • zipman68
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    10 years ago
    ^^^
    I'm sorry to say, but Denny's will not be cool until they all get a liquor (or beer and wine) license and start serving PBR. And hire topless waitresses.

    I want to have my Grand Slam delivered by a hot topless chick, sit back, and drink me some PBR.
  • JohnSmith69
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    10 years ago
    ATF was 29 when relationship ended I think. Not from the South.
  • steve229
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    10 years ago
    "Women place great importance in a man with maturity, money, and security,"

    True, John, but of course that may all be changing with the economic boom. Just the other day I was chatting with a young woman who was cocktail waitressing part time while she went to nursing school, while also working on her real estate license.
  • sclvr5005
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    10 years ago
    Delusional old man Steve. You just keep believing what you need to believe.
  • mjx01
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    10 years ago
    sclvr5005's first post sums it up nicely.
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    Lol! steve229's a bit of an idiot.
  • shailynn
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    10 years ago
    Do you see younger women hanging with broke older guys? No all the older guys always have money or are lying their asses off making the girls think they have money.

    Keep that in mind and now everyone can understand why the younger girl is with the older man.
  • alabegonz
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    10 years ago
    I'm not going into this conversation regarding regular women and their preferences. A woman is basically a moving target, not sure if what I said a while ago still applies.
  • farmerart
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    10 years ago
    steve229, this sugar baby thing has warped your world view.

    Please come back to the planet that I inhabit.
  • skibum609
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    10 years ago
    I feel bad for women of today since their choices are age inappropriate older men, or the total losers we cal young men, who seem to be emotional lightweights, more like women than men.
  • san_jose_guy
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    10 years ago
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    Maybe we are being too harsh on steve229. After all, he sure can quote song lyrics like a motherfucker!
  • crazyjoe
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    10 years ago
    s: http://youtu.be/YxGgsZMYGCo

    This is the type they like
  • SlickSpic
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    10 years ago
    After 39 years on this planet, raised with lots of chicks, dated lots of chicks, and had my share of break ups, I still have no clue what women want. But I got a list of what they don't want. And it's long. The list.
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    Lol! That steve229 is sure a dumbfuck!
  • Clackport
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    10 years ago
    It seems to me Steve is joking around, some of you need to get a sense of humor
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    ^^^ nah, he's expressed similar beliefs in the past. He's just a dumbfuck.
  • steve229
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    10 years ago
    @ranukam - 2 things:

    1. I thought you were "done"?

    2. Everything posted here has to be taken literally. It's called the "Clubber Rule"
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    Ok, so steve229 didn't say it in this thread, but today he admits that his definition of "civies" includes "sugar babies" who have sex for money. Keeping that in mind it is amusing to go back and reread his original post. (And, yes, some here realized it all along. Today is different because he finally admitted it. Guy is just a bit deceptive, even if not very clever, no?)
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    *** SLAM DUNKING THAT FAGGOT STEVIE-GIRL ON EVERY FRONT TODAY ***
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    Lol!
  • gawker
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    10 years ago
    My ATF at age 29 is 40 years younger than I. Many times in our hours of ruminations, she has told me how hard it is to fuck an old guy. She says she loves me, but not like she loves someone nearer her own age. Another dancer who I've met OTC many times over the last five years is 26. I recently was trying to diffuse her stated ardor for me by saying, " you don't belong with an old fuck like me. You should be out with hot young guys who are closer in age." Her reply: I've had my fill of "hot young guys". They lack the sophistication of an older man. They're immature, self centered, and interested in their own pleasure, not in pleasing me the way you do.
    Both were sincere, both speaking their mind. Like us, their tastes vary, their interests change, and generalities usually bite us in the ass.
  • steve229
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    10 years ago
    I'm only making an observation based on the many emails I receive. Here are a couple examples I received just today:

    22yo: "I'd like to 'date' an older gentlemen because you can teach me the ways of the world and be sort of a mentor to me. I am looking for more than a physical connection."

    23 yo: "This isn't just about money for me though. I've always been attracted to powerful older men. Being in the presence of a powerful alpha male is a major turn on for me, and older men have the confidence and wisdom which boys my age lack."
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    Lol! Well I sure will hey are being completely honest, Stevie-girl. They are "civies" after all.
  • GACA
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    10 years ago
    Umm...how is Douggie the only one making sense here. A 22/ 23 year old fucking a guy over 30 is looking for a free ride. Period. And that's ok. But don't get married she'll be blowing the pool boy right after the honeymoon :(
  • PhantomGeek
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    10 years ago
    Steve, those sound like boiler-plate quotes from personal ads on sites like Seeking Arrangements.
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago

    Lol!
  • Dougster
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    10 years ago
    Experimental: " Those aren't civilian women, they are sugar babies looking for a daddy."
  • steve229
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    10 years ago
    @phantonGeek - purely coincidental
  • PhantomGeek
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    10 years ago
    Steve -- yeah, uh-huh.
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