Bi sexual
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Seems like this term pops up quite a bit on here and it's always about females being "BI". I'm sure that there must be Bi males as well but you never hear about them. Do bi females out number bi males by a large margin? or are bi males still mostly in the closet?
26 comments
You must not be around many Italians. Granted, they are not lip to lip kisses. :)
You suck one cock and you are labeled a "cock sucker" for life. So if a man is Bi... he typically is identified as "gay". Where women....were "experimenting".....LOL. The old double standard.
I hear that happens biweekly.
Discuss.
Don't know where you dug that out from but..........nope.
Dude, you should do standup...you've got some seriously funny shit.
skibum sez: "Our perception is that bisexual females are fundamentally heterosexual and bisexual males are fundamentally homosexual"
I think there's some truth to that perception, in the straight community at least. I think a lot of people, for whatever reason, see women who have an interest in both women and men as inherently straight, but just kind of playing around with an interest in other women.
But I think most men feel that sex with another guy is so totally outside the realm of what they'd consider that in order to even consider doing it you'd have to have crossed a big line that can only be crossed by someone who is inherently homosexual.
Maybe my explanation isn't real clear, but I think guys will understand.
Slick you're fucking hilarious. I shouldn't eat and read TUSCL at the same time....
I agree with skibum though that there's a perception that if a guy has sex with a guy even once he's at least bi, while if a woman has a same sex encounter she was just ":fooling around". I'm not saying this is true or not, but it's a popular perception among men at least. As I posted earlier, women seem less homophobic than men as a group, and more open to same sex experimentation.
Here's another way of saying it -- for me anyway -- two dudes together (even just kissing) is a major noodle buster. No bueno. However, two women together is very arousing (for me).
I wonder -- ask the average hetero woman -- would she say that seeing two women together is a turn-off? Would she say that seeing two men going at it is a turn-on? When watching porn with my SO over the years, I would say she would be more ok with watching girl-girl than boy-boy. I don't know why, just is.
WTF ????