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Bi sexual

shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Thursday, September 11, 2014 6:09 AM
Seems like this term pops up quite a bit on here and it's always about females being "BI". I'm sure that there must be Bi males as well but you never hear about them. Do bi females out number bi males by a large margin? or are bi males still mostly in the closet?

26 comments

  • rockstar666
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    10 years ago
    I think women by their nature are more relaxed sexually around other women than men are around other men, but I think there are the same % of bi females as bi males. If two women kiss as friends, they're not necessarily bi, but men won't kiss men unless they are.
  • Clubber
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    10 years ago
    rock, You must not be around many Italians. Granted, they are not lip to lip kisses. :)
  • crsm27
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    10 years ago
    Reminds me of the joke..... or the punch line... You suck one cock and you are labeled a "cock sucker" for life. So if a man is Bi... he typically is identified as "gay". Where women....were "experimenting".....LOL. The old double standard.
  • skibum609
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    10 years ago
    Our perception is that bisexual females are fundamentally heterosexual and bisexual males are fundamentally homosexual.
  • jackslash
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    10 years ago
    I've often seen bisexual used with regard to men. The author Gore Vidal identified himself as a bisexual. Oscar Wilde is now called gay, but I think he should be called a bisexual because he also had a wife and children.
  • SlickSpic
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    10 years ago
    I once saw a bisexual wearing bifocals riding a bicycle while bisecting the street as a biplane piloted by a biracial bilingual looked down with binoculars.
  • 216OJ614
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    10 years ago
    Bisexual male = homosexual male
  • georgmicrodong
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    10 years ago
    I'm buy-sexual.
  • mikeya02
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    10 years ago
    Bullwinkle says he likes lesbians with dicks.??????????? What does that make him?
  • steve229
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    10 years ago
    "I once saw a bisexual wearing bifocals riding a bicycle while bisecting the street as a biplane piloted by a biracial bilingual looked down with binoculars." I hear that happens biweekly.
  • shadowcat
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    10 years ago
    I think some that post on here are experiencing asexuality,
  • gawker
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    10 years ago
    My ATF had fantasies about double penetration - one dick in her pussy and another up her ass. It's got to be difficult for the two men to get in position without a lot of contact and I just never could get my head around doing that. It's likely that our heterosexual tendencies are frequently accompanied by some degree of fear of homosexuality. Bi-sexual men have overcome that.
  • Douqster
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    10 years ago
    Does my unrequited man love for Rick Dugan mean I'm Bi? Discuss.
  • motorhead
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    10 years ago
    Bi-Bi to this thread
  • sharkhunter
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    10 years ago
    asexual definition - the way you feel after seeing some fat ass stripper in a strip club and you think eewwww, how can she possibly have a job stripping?
  • lopaw
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    10 years ago
    "Our perception is that bisexual females are fundamentally heterosexual and bisexual males are fundamentally homosexual" Don't know where you dug that out from but..........nope.
  • jerikson40
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    10 years ago
    Mr. Spic sea: "I once saw a bisexual wearing bifocals riding a bicycle while bisecting the street as a biplane piloted by a biracial bilingual looked down with binoculars." Dude, you should do standup...you've got some seriously funny shit. skibum sez: "Our perception is that bisexual females are fundamentally heterosexual and bisexual males are fundamentally homosexual" I think there's some truth to that perception, in the straight community at least. I think a lot of people, for whatever reason, see women who have an interest in both women and men as inherently straight, but just kind of playing around with an interest in other women. But I think most men feel that sex with another guy is so totally outside the realm of what they'd consider that in order to even consider doing it you'd have to have crossed a big line that can only be crossed by someone who is inherently homosexual. Maybe my explanation isn't real clear, but I think guys will understand.
  • SlickSpic
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    10 years ago
    According to many Taoists, the Yin is female while the Yang is male. Certain foods, polarity, and elements are associated with the Yin&Yang. Sexually speaking, there isn't much that can go wrong with a little too much Yin but a lot can go wrong with too much Yang. It's one of the reasons why the ancient Chinese saw that few health problems arose from lesbian sexual activity but homosexual activity has many.
  • jerikson40
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    10 years ago
    "Sexually speaking, there isn't much that can go wrong with a little too much Yin but a lot can go wrong with too much Yang" Slick you're fucking hilarious. I shouldn't eat and read TUSCL at the same time....
  • DandyDan
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    10 years ago
    I had a boss in one of my previous jobs who was a bi male. In fact, one of his other jobs during the time I was at that job was as a DJ in a gay bar. But he was also married with a wife and at least 1 kid (there may have been more, but I remember the daughter showing up at work one night just to talk to him at work once). But the fact remains, he is the only openly bi male I have met so far.
  • rockstar666
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    10 years ago
    @DandyDon: I know gay men and heterosexual men, but come to think of it I don't know any bi men either. I know a few bi women, and several of my past g/f's have had sex with a woman at least once but they didn't consider themselves bi. I agree with skibum though that there's a perception that if a guy has sex with a guy even once he's at least bi, while if a woman has a same sex encounter she was just ":fooling around". I'm not saying this is true or not, but it's a popular perception among men at least. As I posted earlier, women seem less homophobic than men as a group, and more open to same sex experimentation.
  • pensionking
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    10 years ago
    I agree with the "crossing the line" comments above. I think it is because a dude having sex with a dude commonly creates the perception that one or the other are, in some way, feminine. Fair or unfair, the stereotypical gay male is portraited as flamboyantly feminine. However, a woman having sex with a woman doesn't result in the perception that one or the other women are overly masculine (yes, I know there are bull dykes, but that is not the first or only image that comes to mind). Here's another way of saying it -- for me anyway -- two dudes together (even just kissing) is a major noodle buster. No bueno. However, two women together is very arousing (for me). I wonder -- ask the average hetero woman -- would she say that seeing two women together is a turn-off? Would she say that seeing two men going at it is a turn-on? When watching porn with my SO over the years, I would say she would be more ok with watching girl-girl than boy-boy. I don't know why, just is.
  • ATACdawg
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    10 years ago
    Robert Heinlein wrote a sci-fi novel back in the 70s (I think) in which the hero, or maybe protagonist, was a bi male. That society had a lot of seriously kinky sex going on!
  • DandyDan
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    10 years ago
    I think the problem everyone has with gay or bi men is that they always assume they are the bottom, as opposed to the top, to use porn terminology. With lesbian or bi females, that doesn't happen.
  • jerikson40
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    10 years ago
    DandyDan sez: "I think the problem everyone has with gay or bi men is that they always assume they are the bottom, as opposed to the top, to use porn terminology. With lesbian or bi females, that doesn't happen." WTF ????
  • georgmicrodong
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    10 years ago
    @ATACdawg: Heinlein wrote a *lot* of stuff where everybody fucked everybody.
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