I can't believe I'm going to do this
Clackport
Washington
So I've been with a lot of strippers and civilians, but there's this stripper I've known for 3 years at a local club I frequent that I can't get out of my mind. If there was ever a time to say I've fallen in love with a stripper, this would be it.
Obviously I love her face and body, but her mind and personality is what stands out compared to other strippers I've known (and other civilians quite frankly). She is pretty much my perfect girl. I've been a semi-regular of hers, if I go to that club 5 times I get dances from her one of those times. There is definitely mutual attraction between us.
I was thinking of getting with her a year ago, but her friend told me she had a boyfriend at the time so I didn't. I don't know what her situation is now, but I don't care. I need to get her off my mind one way or the other.
I'm going to go to her club tonight, and basically tell her that I can't get her off my mind and that she's the only one I want to be with. I don't fear rejection, but this situation could get very awkward and embarrassing. I'm prepared to never go back to that club after tonight if things don't go the way I hope. I'm 80% sure I will be let down, but that's ok, at least I will know she doesn't want me and hopefully I can get her off my mind.
I seriously can't believe I'm going to do this.
Obviously I love her face and body, but her mind and personality is what stands out compared to other strippers I've known (and other civilians quite frankly). She is pretty much my perfect girl. I've been a semi-regular of hers, if I go to that club 5 times I get dances from her one of those times. There is definitely mutual attraction between us.
I was thinking of getting with her a year ago, but her friend told me she had a boyfriend at the time so I didn't. I don't know what her situation is now, but I don't care. I need to get her off my mind one way or the other.
I'm going to go to her club tonight, and basically tell her that I can't get her off my mind and that she's the only one I want to be with. I don't fear rejection, but this situation could get very awkward and embarrassing. I'm prepared to never go back to that club after tonight if things don't go the way I hope. I'm 80% sure I will be let down, but that's ok, at least I will know she doesn't want me and hopefully I can get her off my mind.
I seriously can't believe I'm going to do this.
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If she agrees, and there is "mutual' attraction", you can take it from there.
"6.
hopeless romantic
a person who allows feelings of love to override common sense
Was I being a hopeless romantic when I offered her an extra fifty if she could convince me that she wasn't doing it just for the money?"
Good luck.
Thought you were just a "semi-regular of hers" who gets dances 1 time out of 5 visits?
Get your story straight, man. Sheesh!
And yes I've taken her to dinner once, and drinks a few times.
How does this equal not keeping my story straight? Maybe you just didn't understand everything I was saying?
Or do you just want to fuck her for free?
BTW when I say OTC I'm just talking about dinner and drinks. I haven't fucked her, but yeah fucking her for free would obviously be nice lol.
Also for anyone that doesn't know, I'm the same age as her (25).
"Lloyd: What do you think the chances are of a guy like you and a girl like me... ending up together?
Mary: Well, Lloyd, that's difficult to say. I mean, we don't really...
Lloyd: Hit me with it! Just give it to me straight! I came a long way just to see you, Mary. The least you can do is level with me. What are my chances?
Mary: Not good.
Lloyd: You mean, not good like one out of a hundred?
Mary: I'd say more like one out of a million.
[pause]
Lloyd: So you're telling me there's a chance... YEAH!"
"Lloyd: What do you think the chances are of a guy like you and a girl like me... ending up together?
Mary: Well, Lloyd, that's difficult to say. I mean, we don't really...
Lloyd: Hit me with it! Just give it to me straight! I came a long way just to see you, Mary. The least you can do is level with me. What are my chances?
Mary: Not good.
Lloyd: You mean, not good like one out of a hundred?
Mary: I'd say more like one out of a million.
[pause]
Lloyd: So you're telling me there's a chance... YEAH!"
More evidence that 30 should be the minimum age for strip club patrons, lol
I used to go to strip clubs when I was in my 20's, then I got married, had kids, career, mortgage, etc. and didn't set foot in a strip club again until I was in my 50's.
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I actually did what you going to execute. Ended up one big mess she got pissed at me. After three weeks she texted back saying she needs me for a dance---money. It is all good now like we are to where we were before the mess.
Having a major crush on her still, I just went back to 'friend' mode, like we had been. The fact we survived this first crisis actually made our relationship better. Then about a year later she asked about OTC again and I said that since it really didn't work out so well the first time that I didn't want to. She responded that she'd worked through her issues and wanted me to take her out. So that's where we're at now.
So yes, it IS possible to cultivate relationships with dancers, but 99% of the time it ends badly. If she just wants money you have to take it at face value. I don't know where mine is going to end up, it's a fun ride. Just don't forget that even if she likes you it's still all about the money.
So I wasn't completely humiliated, but I definitely won't be back to this club again, it would just be too awkward. Regardless of what she says, I think I messed it up by continually getting dances from her. I've dated my fair share of strippers, and I know if you wanna get with them, you have to keep the dances to a minimum. I guess you can't get everything you want.
Speaking of dating strippers I have a article called "how to bag a stripper part 2" that should be posted any day now, I wrote it on February 14th and it's still under review. The article will no doubt be a little controversial. There is a lot of humor in the article, so just take it for what its worth, remember TUSCL is entertainment, look out for the article.
Duke1- I'm the same way, usually when I can't get a girl off my mind, I fuck a different girl. However, this girl is the hottest girl I've ever met, so any girl I fuck will be a little less attractive than her.
rh48hr- The problem is she works damn near everyday lol.
I think I should be able to get her off my mind now.
But at least you got your answer, if you never asked you would be kicking yourself.
From her point of view, regulars/customers who want more from her than the business arrangement are just trouble. She doesn't need 100 "boyfriends". She needs guys who will pay her and then stay out of her life.
I wouldn’t be so sure; in my personal opinion.
From a guy’s POV; that is no big deal – but women are a lot more picky/finicky when it comes to choosing a mate (BF; dating; etc) – women in general IMO often notice the small things/details a lot more than most of us dudes – for many women; one can say/act the right thing 99% of the time when “courting†them and one can say (or act) one small wrong thing and it’s over
I asked her why she got pissed, she said having a BF means responsibility and she didn't want any of it. Now that she knows how I feel, she will keep a note of it and probably come back to me in the future when she's done doing wild things.
She also said we can go out and do it for money.
It's definitely money and her lifestyle of wild (abandon) things.
Now you can move on.
Now onto the next one! One sir closes and another will open.
DAMN phone always correcting things that don't need correcting.