Asking an ATF to take STD test
Whatever789
Pennsylvania
Been a lurker here paying $5 monthly fee to benefit from the massive collective experience of fellow pervs- and thankful for that. So have this ATF with whom i had CFS but the c broke once and slipped another time with me blissfully unaware. I believe she is an injection drug user(injection trails on back of her palms) and is also very casual about condoms. I worry about STD esp HIV. I am thinking of having her take a home based oral HIV test - how will that go ? will it freak her out ? anyone has any exp with that and tips on how to broach this with her ? The alternate is taking some HIV preventive medicine for 28 days with massive side effects or just hoping nothing will happen.
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I'm not a condom user as a rule, but I also don't have unprotected sex with sex workers, let alone IV drug users.
Knowing that HIV can be present for long periods of time, she gets tested every 6 months, doesn't fuck this dude any more, and uses condoms far more frequently. She recently told me that it came out that this guy has known of his status for years but kept having sex unprotected with lots of women and still does. One would think that would be a crime (assault with a deadly weapon?) in my case it would be assault with a dead weapon, but what the Hell?
I am happy I misread your, "My ATF once SAT on me". I read a "C" between the S and A. :)
IMO – the main reason she might get upset is if she *was* actually positive and did not want you to know in order not to lose your business.
If she gets upset about this; then this is someone you should not be w/ and you should move on – she should actually be glad you are concerned about STDs (for her sake and yours)
That was good stuff. Seriously. ;)
You really think that a girl with track marks on her arms, and who has a reputation for giving it up bareback, is really a responsible forward thinker? Do you think that girls like the ones that psycho tuscl member bareback patronizes really want to hear anything about STD testing? LOL. I think he is going to be told to fuck off.
By the way Whatever, I don't believe for a second that the condom broke. I think it far more likely that you got caught up and just stuck it in. Further, the only reason I can see for asking her to get tested, as opposed to just worrying about yourself, is that you want to keep fucking her bareback. You do realize, however, that she is routinely engaging in high risk activities and could catch something tomorrow even if she has nothing today, no?
I like the idea of testing together as suggested by some. if she declines i may end the relation or atleast keep sex out of it.