Dating dancers
BoRick
When I was younger my first girlfriend as it turned out was a dancer. I was only 18 and she was 21. I had no idea as she kept it pretty secret and I only saw her occasionally. My uncle (who is my age) was seeing her sister occasionally. After we had broken up he found out that she was dancing. This freaked me out and explained the end of our relationship (she move to california). 6 months later she returned and tried to pick up where we had left off. By that time, I had gotten rid of my pager so she called my home. My mother answered and told her to take a hike. Anyways, the reason why I'm writing this is because in all my life I had never dated someone so stable as she was (we were together for 14 months, my longest relationship). Later I would meet girls who danced and they had totally different personalities. For example, I met a girl at the gym and she turned out to be a dancer. She was all over the place and a flake. Never went out more than twice and after a month the whole thing was over. She partied a lot and may have been indulging in drugs. Yet somehow in the back of my mind, I assume there are girls out there who dance and could be real potential girlfriends. A nurse I met where I used to work was a dancer and she was very stable and intelligent. She did have a drug addiction when she was younger but now was a responsible mother. What do you guys think about that? Did i meet an anomaly?
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Try and find a girl with a regular job, who shares your interests in whatever you like to do, will be a great mom for your kids and doesn't have sex with other men for money.
A pager? How long ago was this?
I remember when I had a company issued pager. I'd get a page while on the road and have to pull over to find a pay-phone (!!). Seems like the dark ages. We were over joyed when we finally got cell phones - even if they were the size & weight of a small brick, lol
Totally not doing it again.
Maybe I would do it again if a dancer can convince me.
Yes I do
For fifty bucks
I get a screw
It's funny,it took me about a year to see the little girl behind what she exudes on stage.When it comes down to it,I wouldn't trade her for anything that comes out of the stripper mills of today.I guess you could say I got lucky.
If she is not into these WILD things that is so abundant around her you have a keeper.
Admittedly, I tried to be Captsin Save A Hoe which never works. I've had to ask myself why I date strippers in the first place. Between the lies, mind fucks, and a host of other issues, nothing worked beyond 6 months at best. The sad part about it for them is that they can't keep a stable relationship with any man. Ultimately after Id stop dating one, 90 percent will end up calling me back to try to get back together within 3 months or less.
I could write a book about my past experiences. It's been a tiring game, but if you do date strippers, just know that the clock starts ticking towards the end of your relationship the second you start going out. If you can find a diamond in the rough, you have defied the odds!
That's interesting.
I wonder why that is. Anyone out there care to share some additional thoughts?
I drink but I don't stay out late or do drugs. It is very hard to date a dancer though, just because you know that even if she works at a non extras club, she is still grinding on, and chatting up tens of guys a day. Makes you paranoid I think. I have yet to find a man who can handle it psychologically. They are ok with you dancing until they really fall in love, then they flip out that your customer of three years has your phone number, or some shit like that. Best to commit to being single until you are ready to quit dancing, in my opinion.
That's really not saying much