This is an interesting thread. I don't like women but I know a lot of dancers who do. Dancing turns a lot of women off to men. It has made me wonder if there are any men in the world who aren't actively seeking to cheat on their wives, but that is another story.
I drink but I don't stay out late or do drugs. It is very hard to date a dancer though, just because you know that even if she works at a non extras club, she is still grinding on, and chatting up tens of guys a day. Makes you paranoid I think. I have yet to find a man who can handle it psychologically. They are ok with you dancing until they really fall in love, then they flip out that your customer of three years has your phone number, or some shit like that. Best to commit to being single until you are ready to quit dancing, in my opinion.
Sorry that happened. You are very lucky that the cameras caught her. There are a lot of thieving girls. I have heard of cell phones, shoes, all kinds of shit getting stolen from the dressing room. I am lucky I have never had anything taken. I don't ever leave even one dollar out and unattended. And at the end of the shift when changing, I immediately put my cash in my pants pocket and put my pants on. I have seen girls get their money stolen by sitting it down while changing and turning their back for one minute.
Be careful!
Could have been someone who knew she was a dancer and kept a lot of cash at her house. I know quite a few girls who were robbed by roommates or friends of friends because they were foolish enough to leave their cash in their place and tell people where it was.
I agree. Go in and see her at work. Buy a good number of dances or just tip her a few big bills on stage. (200). This will show your appreciation but not make her feel that she is being paid directly for her time outside. If she wanted to be paid she would have asked. Did she drop any hints about her bills or expenses? She may just not have wanted to ask for money directly.
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