Tempted to give advice
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
During a recent visit to a crowded SC, I sat bored and unimpressed with the talent. I soon noticed a stunning exotic looking Latin honey working the floor for LD's. Tatted, pierced with hair extensions I assumed she was an experienced dancer.
As the honey hustled the PL's for dances, I was surprised that she was constantly turned down or was one and done with the custie's. Regardless, I waited in eager anticipation for my turn with the stunner.
She finally approached and, as expected, she was every bit the exotic stunner I expected. Naively, I asked for three dances before she even began her first.
Her first LD was the worst LD I ever had in a club. Awkward, mechanical, painful. I bravely endured the second dance but actually asked her to stop for the third. Of course I paid her for all three and was very gracious as I sent her away.
I'm smart enough to know not to attempt it, but I was tempted to give this doll some tactful/gentle advice on how to greatly improve her revenue stream. This baby doll has the looks to make bank every song but instead was constantly being turned down due to her horrible LD's.
Of course there are many variations of this. Have you ever given a dancer advice on how to improve her game and how did it go over?
As the honey hustled the PL's for dances, I was surprised that she was constantly turned down or was one and done with the custie's. Regardless, I waited in eager anticipation for my turn with the stunner.
She finally approached and, as expected, she was every bit the exotic stunner I expected. Naively, I asked for three dances before she even began her first.
Her first LD was the worst LD I ever had in a club. Awkward, mechanical, painful. I bravely endured the second dance but actually asked her to stop for the third. Of course I paid her for all three and was very gracious as I sent her away.
I'm smart enough to know not to attempt it, but I was tempted to give this doll some tactful/gentle advice on how to greatly improve her revenue stream. This baby doll has the looks to make bank every song but instead was constantly being turned down due to her horrible LD's.
Of course there are many variations of this. Have you ever given a dancer advice on how to improve her game and how did it go over?
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In general, giving advice to a girl you don't know well and who didn't ask for it, goes over spectacularly badly. I've given advice to girls who I know VERY well, either who asked for it, or if they didn't ask for it, in the form of a compliment as far as what works for me personally ("when you do your lapdances slow like that, you're the sexiest girl in the club", she'll infer she shouldn't dance fast for me, without me having to say it.)
And, yea, anytime I've ever even touched the border of giving advice it was a complete and total disaster.
Dancers can be stubborn to accept advice.
Whether it’s dancers or anyone else; some folks may be receptive to advice and others take it as criticism – depends on the person’s temperament/personality.
I have given advice to a few dancers and don’t recall getting back negative feedback. Like Bull said – it is often in the delivery – I don’t’ say something like “your dances suck …â€.
It also helps that they often see me spending a good deal of $$$ in the SCs and getting a lot of LDs (they may assume I may know what I’m talking about?).
Certain folks in business would like to receive advice in how to increase their profits; some don’t care for it – dancers may be along the same lines.
The one time I can remember, the Dancer got serious and told me she had been dancing for ten years and knew what the fuck she was doing before walking off in a huff. I call that a disaster.
Learned my lesson to keep my mouth shut.
Tell her you noticed she is not getting much repeat business and that maybe you could help her figure it out? If she turns you down no loss. If she takes you up on your offer it could turn into great dividends for both of you.
Needless to say, the best dances are when they tell YOU what to do! My #2 did that when we first met, and believe me, the payoff for following her advice paid off then and now.
What you should have done was at the least took the lap dances no matter how bad they were (I know how it pains a man to sit there and take bad lap dances to the face) and paid for the dances. Afterwards, have her sit on your lap (or next to you) and give her some compliments, even something like asking her why everyone was turning her down (pretend like you don't know) and just lead a conversation into lap dances, in a nice gentle way. If you don't have the speech skills to do that, then this isn't for you. This can be applied to general things in life bro (with tweakage per situation of course). If you can't do that, you have to work on your conversation skills. Or maybe I'm too much of a social butterfly.us
Damn man, I should have read your entire post above. I liked your approach and thought I'd try it. I sat beside my boss and complimented him on some good things he was doing, etc. Then when I asked about his lap dance skills, I got fired.
I should have read the "(with tweakage per situation of course)" part! :)
I was appreciative of her advice and followed it; and also believed she knew what she was talking about and was more experienced than me in the SC game.