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Hey gents. Recently married and I've been bouncing back n forth between an ASP or frequenting SCs & hoping to find an ATF of sorts. I figure I break even either way ($200+ on ASP vs multiple trips to SC & lappies). Just curious if anyone else has found a happy medium between the two.

30 comments

  • Papi_Chulo
    11 years ago
    Damn – recently married and are asking about ASP and SCs? I guess the honeymoon didn’t last for long :)

    I guess some guys just have too much love to give for just one woman :)
  • gawker
    11 years ago
    ASP = snake
    What else?
  • jabthehut
    11 years ago
    Exactly! WTF is an ASP other than a snake?
  • Papi_Chulo
    11 years ago
    Perhaps he meant “Asian Massage Parlor” and got the abbreviation wrong?

    Perhaps he is going w/ ASP = Asian Parlor
  • jester214
    11 years ago
    ASP = Adult Service Provider = Escort = Prostitute
  • ilbbaicnl
    11 years ago
    Did you really think including the "recently married" part was not going to overshadow your supposed actual question? If you're not a real troll, you must play one on TV.
  • Alucard
    11 years ago
    "Hey gents. Recently married"

    WHY did you get married??? I feel VERY sorry for your BETRAYED wife!!
  • jester214
    11 years ago
    How do you feel about the betrayed husbands of the women you pay to fuck you Alucard?
  • tumblingdice
    11 years ago
    God Ole Mighty,Aluturd.It must suck being you.
  • BagBoyJames
    11 years ago
    Welcome to the dark side fellow hound dawg
  • dalex
    11 years ago
    I'm comfortable with my SO right now, maybe because I know she also cheats?

  • motorhead
    11 years ago
    My God, if getting married "recently" has already fiorced you to turn to escorts and strippers, she mist be one ugly wife
  • Uxiiux
    11 years ago
    BagBoy - thanks lol.
    Everyone else - I'm unsure how anyone could "troll" a site such as this but okay. If/when you get married, you'll see what I mean.

    If, by chance, you struggled w the meaning of ASP then you may want to re-evaluate your experience in The Life.

    Anyway, I'm not jumping right in with an ASP. I'll feel my way around til I find I reliable ATF.
  • zipman68
    11 years ago
    UxiDude...there is no happy medium. Spend every dollar you have on both. Fuck the escort in the ass then go out for some ITC in the club. Be sure to avoid using condoms, so your wife will have something to complain about during the divorce proceedings. Supplement your income by searching for aluminum cans to recycle. And...most importantly...smoke lots of crack.

    Seriously though...the part that folks are reacting to is the "recently married", not the "married". One thing to start hound doggin' after 10-15 years (especially with limits that might be a little more restrained than those discussed here). But the "recently married" part sounds a bit like "I wanna say somethin' that'll freak these dudes out...lesse...should I go with 'I killed a hobo just to get an erection' or 'I hired an escort on my wedding night'?" Both of those things are considered socially unacceptable by some.
  • BagBoyJames
    11 years ago
    LOL...zip
  • rockstar666
    11 years ago
    Getting an ATF is easy: just get dances from her lots and spend lots of money on her. If you want OTC be sure she'll do that up front because she's not going to change her ways just for you (unless you're a whale). If you want sex, don't drop a ton of cash on a girl that's not a sure bet.

    ASP's are the sure bet for sex, but they have a lot more sex on average than most OTC dancers. I stay away from them in general although I've had a few over the years when the need arose.
  • sclvr5005
    11 years ago
    What a tool.
  • crazyjoe
    11 years ago
    Someone shit the bed on this one
  • crazyjoe
    11 years ago
    What the hell is the pointbof getting married
  • motorhead
    11 years ago
    +1 Joe
  • BagBoyJames
    11 years ago
    Crazy Ass sloppy Joe
  • Papi_Chulo
    11 years ago
    This is a site for strip club enthusiasts and thus I would think most on here would prefer the stripper route.

    The escort vs. dancer thing has been discussed before.

    Some will sometimes post they are fed-up/burned-out with the SC scene and are planning to go the escort route.

    But for the most part; it seems most here prefer the dancer route b/c:

    + many just like being in a SC and like the SC vibe w/ all the naked women; bright lights; pumping music; alcohol; etc.

    + more than one dancer/provider to choose from @ any one time if one so desires

    + you get a chance to not only see the provider (dancer) in person before you set anything up; but you also get a chance to interact w/ her for a while and gage her personality and even take her for a test-drive via some lap dances


    In the end – it’s up to the individual to see what works best for them – and some may actually equally partake in both although at least on this site it seems most prefer the dancer route.
  • BagBoyJames
    11 years ago
    Well said papi
  • jabthehut
    11 years ago
    Interesting that the new guy (Eunuch or whatever) praises the troll (bagboy) and comes down hard on those who don't understand his shorthand. May this PL get his next BBBJFSDATY from an HIV positive, syphilitic ASP.
  • motorhead
    11 years ago
    "If, by chance, you struggled w the meaning of ASP then you may want to re-evaluate your experience in The Life."

    This isn't my first rodeo. I spend way too much time on this site and others like it, and never, repeat NEVER, seen the acronym ASP used.

    But as Papi said, this is mainly a SC site. But still, escorts and MP's and cam girls are regularly discussed.

    But, always open to learning new words.
  • SoonerSam
    11 years ago
    Papi, again I am on board with what you said above. I am gun shy about escorts primarily because of the don't-know-what-you're-getting factor. With a stripper, if she is open to OTC, you've already seen her and interacted with her. Even if you only just met her, you've developed some sort of basic relationship with her in the club. It's at least a known quantity. With an escort, anything can happen - might not be her pictures you saw, she may want to ROB you by charging more than what she quoted over the phone, etc. Some of this can happen with a stripper too, but for her the consequences are more potential hazardous. You know where she works if she tries to rip you off. It's in her best financial interests to keep you on the hook and happy for as long as possible. I just like strippers more than escorts.

    Papi, once again, kudos.
  • Clackport
    11 years ago
    I'm very interested to hear Alucard's answer to Jester's question.
  • jester214
    11 years ago
    Don't hold your breath. I've asked it before, he doesn't answer. Whether he doesn't because he knows he's a hypocrite or because he's afraid to face the fact that he's a hypocrite is up in the air.
  • Uxiiux
    11 years ago
    All, thanks for the feedback. I didn't realize the "recently married" quote would cause such an uproar lol.

    This thread was started based on an assumption by me that if you were in to the SC scene, you were most likely into ASPs. In the DC area, strip clubs are below average in comparison to other parts of the nation. That said, OTC has never been discussed among my comrades that frequent SCs & I. (Everything is a matter of perspective though; next times I enter SCs I'll have a different strategy).
  • Papi_Chulo
    11 years ago
    “… In the DC area, strip clubs are below average in comparison to other parts of the nation … next times I enter SCs I'll have a different strategy ...”


    Yeah – DC clubs have a very poor reputation as perhaps being the lowest-mileage clubs in the country.

    So what works in many SCs in many areas may or may not fly in DC? But one would think that OTC would be available from *any* SC if one runs into the right girl(s).

    If one wants mileage in the DMV; forget about VA and DC; MD would be the place to get the most bang for your buck (literally and figuratively).
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