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Hey gents. Recently married and I've been bouncing back n forth between an ASP or frequenting SCs & hoping to find an ATF of sorts. I figure I break even either way ($200+ on ASP vs multiple trips to SC & lappies). Just curious if anyone else has found a happy medium between the two.Got something to say?
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I guess some guys just have too much love to give for just one woman :)
What else?
Perhaps he is going w/ ASP = Asian Parlor
WHY did you get married??? I feel VERY sorry for your BETRAYED wife!!
Everyone else - I'm unsure how anyone could "troll" a site such as this but okay. If/when you get married, you'll see what I mean.
If, by chance, you struggled w the meaning of ASP then you may want to re-evaluate your experience in The Life.
Anyway, I'm not jumping right in with an ASP. I'll feel my way around til I find I reliable ATF.
Seriously though...the part that folks are reacting to is the "recently married", not the "married". One thing to start hound doggin' after 10-15 years (especially with limits that might be a little more restrained than those discussed here). But the "recently married" part sounds a bit like "I wanna say somethin' that'll freak these dudes out...lesse...should I go with 'I killed a hobo just to get an erection' or 'I hired an escort on my wedding night'?" Both of those things are considered socially unacceptable by some.
ASP's are the sure bet for sex, but they have a lot more sex on average than most OTC dancers. I stay away from them in general although I've had a few over the years when the need arose.
The escort vs. dancer thing has been discussed before.
Some will sometimes post they are fed-up/burned-out with the SC scene and are planning to go the escort route.
But for the most part; it seems most here prefer the dancer route b/c:
+ many just like being in a SC and like the SC vibe w/ all the naked women; bright lights; pumping music; alcohol; etc.
+ more than one dancer/provider to choose from @ any one time if one so desires
+ you get a chance to not only see the provider (dancer) in person before you set anything up; but you also get a chance to interact w/ her for a while and gage her personality and even take her for a test-drive via some lap dances
In the end – it’s up to the individual to see what works best for them – and some may actually equally partake in both although at least on this site it seems most prefer the dancer route.
This isn't my first rodeo. I spend way too much time on this site and others like it, and never, repeat NEVER, seen the acronym ASP used.
But as Papi said, this is mainly a SC site. But still, escorts and MP's and cam girls are regularly discussed.
But, always open to learning new words.
Papi, once again, kudos.
This thread was started based on an assumption by me that if you were in to the SC scene, you were most likely into ASPs. In the DC area, strip clubs are below average in comparison to other parts of the nation. That said, OTC has never been discussed among my comrades that frequent SCs & I. (Everything is a matter of perspective though; next times I enter SCs I'll have a different strategy).
Yeah – DC clubs have a very poor reputation as perhaps being the lowest-mileage clubs in the country.
So what works in many SCs in many areas may or may not fly in DC? But one would think that OTC would be available from *any* SC if one runs into the right girl(s).
If one wants mileage in the DMV; forget about VA and DC; MD would be the place to get the most bang for your buck (literally and figuratively).