How much money would you guys pay a girl to sit with you (not in the ld room).. Talk, act sexy, stroke your legs, crotch, and cock a little bit. What do you think... Like for an hour or so?
Zero. Saturday I had one camp out at my table for over an hour. She finally asked if I wanted a dance and I bought two. During those two, she twice pulled Mr. Happy out of my pants leg and gave him a brief DFK. Total cost $20.
Nothing. That's her sales pitch. I pay by getting LD's if she wants to hang out afterwards to entice me for more that's fine. But the dancers where I hang out know that I spend and I'm respectful so a few typically hang out at my table even if I'm not getting dances from them.
We don't have rooms specifically for LD just VIP. Anyway, zero dollars. I can talk to my bros for free (and female friends) and the stroke is an expectant not an extra. What is the diff between the crotch and cock?
In some of the clubs I have gone to in the past, the dancers had a mandatory drink minimum. They must sell a certain number of drinks each shift, or pay for them at the end of their shift. The clubs I have available to me now, don't do that, but do have waitresses pestering the customers to buy "ladies drinks" for the dancers. In these clubs, there's no mandatory minimum for the dancers, but the dancer gets half of the drink cost as a way of reducing her house fee.
In either case, I would buy a "ladies drink" if the dancer was spending a lot of time with me, and I felt like I should spend some money on her in exchange for her time--certainly not an hour's worth. This was mostly if I wasn't planning on getting dances with them. If I was, I wouldn't be spending a lot of time with them at my table.
I know a dancer at kahoots who claimed she sells her time for $100 for 1 hour. She said that included 3 lap dances as well. She did not seem interesting or intriguing enough for me to pay that much for a conversation with her. Also Kahoots is an uptight club so they don't let dancers sit on a customer's lap for too long. I have seen management walk over and tell a dancer to sit down in a chair instead of on a guy's lap.
If the dancer was sitting on my lap and wiggling around and wanted to talk then I would consider paying her for her conversation/time.
No girl is going to chat with me or anyone for an hour for free unless they know you're going to pay them sooner or later. They can't afford it and I'm not as cool as my wallet. Neither is anyone else.
For a fav or a targeted dancer, I would buy drinks and maybe tip 20 or 40 for an hour of her time.
I enjoy partying with the honey's and would rather them be focused on me rather than them thinking about some other PL that they could be getting a dance from.
If this is your (OP’s) thing; to each their own – one should pay for what they want/like.
I try to be cognizant of not wasting a dancer’s time – i.e. I’ll usually engage her in convo only if I plan to spend some $$$ on her – if not; I won’t engage and waste her and my time.
So if you’d like her extended company; then you should compensate her for her time IMO – I would say $100 for an hour may be worth it to her if the club is not too packed where she could be making much more giving LDs.
As for me – 99% of the time I go to a SC is to have my lower head stimulated and not my upper head – so I would not pay a dancer for anything less than dances. I only recall one time in my 13-year clubbing career where I tipped a dancer just for convo – she did not ask for it (tip) – and I was not looking to pay her for her convo – but she was super-cool and gave me great quality time so I just tipped her for her time at the end of our convo.
Ok understood.. but I think everyone may be getting the wrong impression. Its not like the talking so much but the stroking etc. And ill grab her ass constantly too. Its kinda like have a gf experience you know? Is the answer still zero or close to zero?
Still zero but now you may be sending the wrong message especially the its a girl you don't want dances from and that is a time waster wbich I'm not fond of personally.
If it's a dancer I'm not interested in, zero. If I like her, I might buy her a drink or two or get a lap dance eventually.
If I'm not interested in her, I don't know why she's wasting her time sitting with me but if she looks ok and wants to do that for free, I might let her. I don't pay anyone for time but I don't visit any clubs that are super expensive either even though some dancers may try to charge a lot. I would look at what the dancer could be doing other than sitting with you to size up what it takes to keep her happy at your table. If the club is dead or only has super cheap people, then it won't take much.
True good point, sharkhunter... thanks all for the advice and input! BTW a quick question about this site. How do I search for a discussion.. like to get back to my discussion, I have to keep going back (to view next 15 topics or whatever).. isn't there a way to just put a keyword somewhere to find my discussion threads?
You can type “partyparty profile†on the search box near the top of the TUSCL page and that will give you a link to your profile where you can select anything w.r.t. you
Many (maybe most) dancers will do this if you give them at least as much money as they would generally get doing dances during the sitting time. So it depends on the dancer and when you want to do the sitting.
I've heard tell of dancers who make most or even all of their money just by sitting with custies. I only witnessed first hand once were a dancer just sat with some guys for a while, and walked away with a handful of twenties.
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In either case, I would buy a "ladies drink" if the dancer was spending a lot of time with me, and I felt like I should spend some money on her in exchange for her time--certainly not an hour's worth. This was mostly if I wasn't planning on getting dances with them. If I was, I wouldn't be spending a lot of time with them at my table.
If the dancer was sitting on my lap and wiggling around and wanted to talk then I would consider paying her for her conversation/time.
Nobody else is as cool as your wallet or as their own wallet? Pretty funny either way.
For a fav or a targeted dancer, I would buy drinks and maybe tip 20 or 40 for an hour of her time.
I enjoy partying with the honey's and would rather them be focused on me rather than them thinking about some other PL that they could be getting a dance from.
I already feel like a perv when I go to the strip club, no need for me to add "loser that pays for a conversation" to that.
I try to be cognizant of not wasting a dancer’s time – i.e. I’ll usually engage her in convo only if I plan to spend some $$$ on her – if not; I won’t engage and waste her and my time.
So if you’d like her extended company; then you should compensate her for her time IMO – I would say $100 for an hour may be worth it to her if the club is not too packed where she could be making much more giving LDs.
As for me – 99% of the time I go to a SC is to have my lower head stimulated and not my upper head – so I would not pay a dancer for anything less than dances. I only recall one time in my 13-year clubbing career where I tipped a dancer just for convo – she did not ask for it (tip) – and I was not looking to pay her for her convo – but she was super-cool and gave me great quality time so I just tipped her for her time at the end of our convo.
If I'm not interested in her, I don't know why she's wasting her time sitting with me but if she looks ok and wants to do that for free, I might let her. I don't pay anyone for time but I don't visit any clubs that are super expensive either even though some dancers may try to charge a lot. I would look at what the dancer could be doing other than sitting with you to size up what it takes to keep her happy at your table. If the club is dead or only has super cheap people, then it won't take much.
You can type “partyparty profile†on the search box near the top of the TUSCL page and that will give you a link to your profile where you can select anything w.r.t. you
I've heard tell of dancers who make most or even all of their money just by sitting with custies. I only witnessed first hand once were a dancer just sat with some guys for a while, and walked away with a handful of twenties.