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12 years ago

Marrying an Adult Entertainer

Suppose you had a great (personal) relationship with a stripper or escort. Suppose she worked in a situation where she had very good security, and was able to immediately reject any custy she found to be rude or unpleasant. And suppose she loved her job, or at least preferred it over any other available job or not working. Assume she practices safe sex. Would you consider marrying her?

In this hypothetical (and probably rare if not totally unrealistic) situation, I would marry her. Never been very jealous or possessive.

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SuperDude

Can you trust yourself to never react when starts to fall for a regular customer as she did for you?

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ilbbaicnl

Part of not being possessive is having enough dignity that you only want to be with someone who wants to be with you. Not with someone who feels obligated to be with you.

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jester214

No. I've long said the idea of any kind of romantic relationship with a stripper is unappealing.

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londonguy

There must be some strippers/escorts that are happily married so maybe it must work for some?

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BigTuna1

Yes i would....its going to.take unconditional love

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lotsoffun201

I was married to a dancer for 15 years. Ended in divorce 5 years after she quit dancing. She danced for 10 years of our marriage and we both made excellent money. The end had nothing to do with dancing and she was never an extras girl always on day shift.

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duomaxwell

@Superdude ...IMAGINAAAATION

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jackslash

Frequently Asked Questions:

Q I'm in love with a stripper. Should I marry her? A Just shoot yourself.

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SlickSpic

I once had a bond...A very strong bond... Man, Fuck That Bitch! I'm upset. I need to chill.

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victor2

Before you marry her give it plenty of time for the fantasy to wear off and reality to set it.

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georgmicrodong

There's always some hypothetical situation that would cause most people to just answer "Yes". As long as it's hypothetical, you can cook the conditions anyway you want to.

The reality is a different matter however. I'm reasonably sure that most men on this board, and I don't necessarily automatically exclude myself from this group, would not be able to handle a relationship that involved a woman doing what those men all want strippers to do and be.

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shadowcat

I guess that it would be preferable to marrying a child entertainer. :)

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sharkhunter

Marry, are you crazy?
I would have a problem with a wife dancing at a strip club since I'm not into open relationships after you get committed. I would want her tits and all just to myself. Especially if my body parts can no longer be shared with other females. If a couple share everything with whomever they please, that doesn't sound like a committed relationship or marriage to me. That sounds like a convenient living arrangement that probably will last as long as one partner doesn't find something they like better. just my opinion.

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Clackport

Hell no

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rh48hr

No i wouldn't do it. Although I don't plan to marry again to anyone.

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bluemonday

if anyone wants to experience marriage,

find you someone you fuckin hate...

and buy them a house (this is especially true if its a stripper!)

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bluemonday

not speaking from my own experience by the way !!

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mjx01

need to factor in all 'baggage' (not just whether or not she plays safely)

I couldn't do it if know extras provider.

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Pablo Antonio

I would marry an ex-dancer.

NEVER EVER marry a current.dancer.

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Estafador

Did you just ask us if we'd marry a pornstar. You damn did mention all the qualities. Loves sex and gets paid, good security...practices safe sex and picks her custies. Yeah I'm pretty sure I'd marry her. After all even if we get a divorce I now know I have the skills to get another one of the same caliber

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Estafador

Haha duo reference spongebob

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darrenb01984

I would have no problem dating/marrying a dancer, I've dated dancers before, never had a problem. There is a level of trust in place. They limited the extras that they were doing while they were in a relationship. They both worked in nude clubs, and I never was jealous about it. They were just showing off what I could get whenever I wanted.

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tumblingdice

Been dating a dancer for a year and a half,she gives a crank here and there,no big deal. What really frustrates me is her OCD.

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shadowcat

A dancer told me about her boyfriend wanting to marry her but he wanted her to quit dancing and sign a prenup. She refused to give up her financial security so it didn't happen. Good move on her part as he turned out not to be Mr. right.

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tumblingdice

That's what she told you Cat? Funny shit.

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shadowcat

stumblingdice - I didn't mention any names but if the shoe fits...

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tumblingdice

Phew! Does anyone else smell Whiteknight?

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ilbbaicnl

"quit dancing and sign a prenup" yeah, from what you hear, it seems like stripper boyfriends think strippers live by drinking the nectar of flowers and sleeping in hollow trees. They only dance for fun.

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