I would have no problem dating/marrying a dancer, I've dated dancers before, never had a problem. There is a level of trust in place. They limited the extras that they were doing while they were in a relationship. They both worked in nude clubs, and I never was jealous about it. They were just showing off what I could get whenever I wanted.
But even if you are a lapsed regular, you can get away with a lot. I haven't been to the clubs in several months (almost 6), i went to my former favorite club, the door guys recognized me and let me in free, the dancers all remembered me and had told the new girls about me, so i had several flock to me when i first sat down.
I've become a fan of the social+ method. Dinner first, hotel room, breakfast in the morning after. It turned into that after a few times of OTC. It's always a mutual decision on where to go, keeps everyone happy.
The first time i went in and got a dance from my current ATF, she asked me for my number and then texted me hers. i've never asked for any dancer's number, but have been given a few, and most on the first time i see them.
At one of the clubs i go to, there is a dancer, last time i was in, sitting on the main floor, she sits next to me, untucks my shirt unbuckles my belt and starts putting her hand into my pants. Thankfully one of my favorites shows up and runs her off. The ones who are that obvious are not good, the others i have no issues with.
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