Why do Dancers have to lie so much.
I hit the clubs on a regular basis and like to find a dancer that I get a long with and just have have some fun with. I really get tired of the lies though. Example: I go to a new club for the first time and meet this dancer. She good looking, we talk for a while have some drinks. Decide to get a LD. Well she was not that good, simple as that. LD was ok but not great. So I call it at 2 and say I am done. She tries to tell me that it was not 2 dances but more because the songs are longer so I owe her more. Really? Did she think I was that stupid? I knew she was lying because what she said made no sense. How can you tell how many dances you have done if you can't count the songs. Really soured me. I do have a steady at another club, she is awesome but again she lies. She will try to get me to loan her money. She even gave me her number wanting to hang out sometime of course it never happened. If you wasn't so good in the vip I would have called it quits. In fact I think I found a new one anyway.
So why do dancers feel the need to lie, and cheat? If a dancer would just be honest I feel they would make a lot more money. The first one I mentioned will never get a cent out of me again. The second I starved out for a couple of visits just to point out that being funny or high pressure asking for money does not fly with me.
I await your response.
So why do dancers feel the need to lie, and cheat? If a dancer would just be honest I feel they would make a lot more money. The first one I mentioned will never get a cent out of me again. The second I starved out for a couple of visits just to point out that being funny or high pressure asking for money does not fly with me.
I await your response.
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WHY does anyone LIE? We all have our reasons.
Some of my success it is going to the same clubs and seeing the same girls and some is the type of girl I am looking for. I get dances from new girls and I get dances for girls who have been dancing at a club for many years.
I would say I had more trouble in the past in Minnesota with ROB's then I ever had in Detroit.
They lie because they know there is nothing a customer can do if they caught in a lie.
And they lie because the whole foundation of SC life is fantasy, illusion and unreality.
As we discussed in another thread, intelligent women are under-represented among dancers because they have other options for being good financially. Honesty is never the biggest priority to salespeople. The problem is, most strippers tell really stupid, transparent lies. If you call them on it, pride makes them walk away still broke, and you dick sits there sadly unground. You end up trying to deflect the lies without making it blatently obvious how stupid and transparent they are.
The other aspect is they have impaired ability to see long term. They grab what is right in front of them. A part of this is the contempt they feel for others' abilities to spot their lies.
A Use duct tape.
I did have a couple of girls tell me the truth (maybe).
One said everything was on the menu for me with the exception of DATY that was reserved for her girl friend only. Her menu varied from client to client from max of HJ if she was grossed out by the guy up to full service if he was clean and nice. She worked at this place two days a week for two reasons: one - money. two - cock. She liked it but only on her terms and her girlfriend did not like guys at all so their agreement was she could fill her needs here.
One of the other very few times I have come close to believing the girl's story the other was a very hot girl that was a grad student in psychology was working there for extra money and discovered that she was an exhibitionist and getting naked on stage turned her on. She did not do extras because of the dangers and only worked on nights with a short rotation so she would be called onto stage before she got her self into trouble. In her private dances were high mileage (You kept things covered) and you could tell her motor was revving up. She never asked for extra tips, offered a menu, or discussed OTC. She also mentioned if I wanted extra service she would tell me which girls would help with that and not rip off.
They have something you want.
You have something they want.
They probably aren't attracted to you.
You probably aren't attractive.
Why do customers lie?
I consider all personal info a Dancer shares as probable SS and quickly change the subject to something happening in the club. Exceptions are made for my regular favs of course.
What baffles me is when I'm partying with a dancer, getting a ton of LD's, tipping well, buying drinks/food etc.. Then the dancer pulls some stupid shit like blatantly misleads me on the song count or takes my money from the table without asking. I just look at her and wonder why she is willing to fuck such a great situation up for such a small ROI. That shit really kills a fun vibe. I've quit trying to understand it and just move on quickly when it happens.
one just needs to learn how to play the game and try to be as good or better at it than the dancers.