Why do dancers encourage touching/contact during lap dances?
GoVikings
This is something I've never understood. Now, I think it's safe to assume that in most cases when you guys are getting lap dances, if you're touching the dancers body, you're the one who initiated it, NOT the dancer. But sometimes dancers will encourage you to touch them and although it's not the norm...every now and then they'll go as far as to put your hands on their body. This makes no sense to me. Why? Well, I think it's safe to assume that most dancers would probably prefer to avoid contact and limit touching as much as possible. They're servicing random people who enter a strip club and they have no idea where their hands have been before-hand.
The only possible explanations I can think of is: A- They're hoping they will find a regular/returning customers. But let's be real guys, most people who visit strip clubs probably only go a few times a year, if that. Most people aren't like us. Most people aren't regulars or people who frequent strip clubs. So the chances of a dancer getting a returner customer is slim in my estimation. The only other explanation I can think of is B- They actually take pride in what they do and want to provide the best possible experience they can?
Now I understand that if you have a favorite and you get dances from her on a regular basis she's a lot more likely to encourage touching and show you a better time. It only makes sense for her to do that because she knows she'll be getting money from you on a regular basis. I'm not talking about situations like that. I'm talking about when you meet a dancer for the first time and she's grabbing your dick, encouraging you to touch her, initiating kissing, talking dirty, etc.
Now of course I'm not complaining about these things because it only makes the experience more enjoyable. But logically, it makes absolutely NO sense to me. I got some dances from this beautiful mixed race girl in Ohio last Saturday after the Pro Football Hall of Fame enshrinement ceremony and she did some of the things I described in the third paragraph(and no, this is not the first time this has happened). Although I know she wasn't, it really seemed like she was into it. Some of these girls deserve Academy Awards for their acting.
The only possible explanations I can think of is: A- They're hoping they will find a regular/returning customers. But let's be real guys, most people who visit strip clubs probably only go a few times a year, if that. Most people aren't like us. Most people aren't regulars or people who frequent strip clubs. So the chances of a dancer getting a returner customer is slim in my estimation. The only other explanation I can think of is B- They actually take pride in what they do and want to provide the best possible experience they can?
Now I understand that if you have a favorite and you get dances from her on a regular basis she's a lot more likely to encourage touching and show you a better time. It only makes sense for her to do that because she knows she'll be getting money from you on a regular basis. I'm not talking about situations like that. I'm talking about when you meet a dancer for the first time and she's grabbing your dick, encouraging you to touch her, initiating kissing, talking dirty, etc.
Now of course I'm not complaining about these things because it only makes the experience more enjoyable. But logically, it makes absolutely NO sense to me. I got some dances from this beautiful mixed race girl in Ohio last Saturday after the Pro Football Hall of Fame enshrinement ceremony and she did some of the things I described in the third paragraph(and no, this is not the first time this has happened). Although I know she wasn't, it really seemed like she was into it. Some of these girls deserve Academy Awards for their acting.
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So therefore, there's no incentive/motivation for the dancer to get friskier as time goes on, hoping that'll get you to buy more dances, because she's already got the $ from you before the first dance has even started
The norm depends on where you live. GoVikings, you need to flee the strip club wasteland of Virginia and visit Detroit.
ranukam- Yeah, it's possible that in some cases the dancers will be attracted to SOME of their customers. But most of the time, I don't think that's the case.
jackslash- I understand what you're saying, but although I live in Virginia and that's where most of my clubbing is done, I've also been clubbing in 6-7 other locations outside of Virginia and most of the dancers haven't encouraged touching in those places either.
Of course, a dancer encourages more contact to get more $$$. This action gets the customer to get more dances than he would without the contact. Anyone who can't see this is very naive or maybe even stupid.
I can tell you're one of those people who doesn't read the entire thread before you post. You probably only read the initial question that was raised in this thread.
Did you not see where I mentioned that in some areas you have to prepay for lap dances? If the dancer has already gotten the $ from you before the first dance has even started, there is no incentive for her to do anything extra like encourage touching or be more frisky than she usually would be because she's already got her damn money.
Well that is what I thought:)
Did this happen to you recently?
United we stand. Divided we fall.
I had a mind blowing GFE with a dancer that was new to me the other day. A stunner. She went much further than was needed to knock my socks off.
I'm probably going back to see her today. I'll be taking a fat wallet. There is promise she will be my new fave in this club.
So, I guess giving that extra mile will pay off for this one.
United we stand. Divided we fall.
Lol, no. That's not what I was getting at. I know better than that. I genuinely wanted to know why dancers do this. If you notice, I mentioned at the end of the 4th paragraph that thus isn't the first time this has happened to me.
Anyway, I think most of you understand the point I was trying to get across with this thread.
That would indicate that the clubs where you go don't have dancers that encourage touching.
BTW, I wasn't denigrating your abilities, I was commenting on your luck because there are so many people on here claiming that girls are encouraging touching.
In clubs where you don't prepay, I think it is to let you know it is acceptable thinking that will make you happy with her dances. The happier you are, the more you might pay her or buy.
Personally, I feel that I've been spoiled by the clubs that I visit on a regular basis. Whenever I go to a club where there are no extras or the bouncers are checking up on you or the dancers don't allow two-way contact, I get up and leave. I'm not wasting my time or money if I feel I'm not getting what I want.