Is strip clubbing like a drug addiction?
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
In that the more you go, the more it takes to satisfy your cravings. I went to my favorite club over the weekend and as is customary I sent my wingman, snowtime, a PM, giving intimate details of the visit. I described the visit overall as just OK, even tough I fingered 4 dancers during table dances and then did FS in VIP. I thought that Ok fit because I had to resort to second stringers to get the job done.
He responded that I was spoiled.
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I'm kind of tired of it.
Shadow- fingering girls on 10 buck dances? That is GREAT GREAT value. I gotta get on your level bro.
I don't think it's quite drug addiction level because I've never stolen money or property for my addiction and if I don't go it's not a big deal. I wish they would consider clubbing a sport I would probably go pro.
“Excuse me, would you like to dance.†“No, maybe a little laterâ€.
“Yo man, let’s go to a titty bar man!†“Man, these bitches are stuck up man!†â€I gave the bitch a dollar man, she ain’t do NOTHING!â€
We all got those friends who are addicted to strip clubs. You know, those guys who go to strip clubs in the daytime? If you at a strip club, and the sun is out, you got some problems! You know those guys that eat at the strip club? Eat at the buffet? How the fuck could you eat at a nasty ass strip club?! Are you that hungry? Rwandan refugees won’t eat that shit! Titties and Tater Tot’s don’t mix!
-Chris Rock ("Never Scared")
OMG, I'm that guy!
I've tried heroin twice and I can see the attraction or allure which it holds, but I can walk away from that. Try as I might, I can't stay away from strip clubs for the life of me. I look back 30 years when clubbing was a once or twice a year endeavor and I realize that I'd go with several guys and they'd sit and have 2 or 3 beers and watch the dancers. Not me. I'd be in VIP at the drop of a hat. If this ain't an addiction, I don't know what is.
I'm sitting at home with $40 in my pocket a half empty gas tank, and all my credit cards maxed out. My Social Security check comes on Wednesday, and I just sent a text message to my ATF, asking what her schedule is this week. This is the definition of a PL.
Good luck with getting it under control!
I once used to play a board game with friends from work every weekend instead of visiting strip clubs. I guess you can get addicted to just about anything but if it's not a problem, then I don't always see the need to change if you enjoy it and it doesn't seem to hurt you. My father used to play golf every weekend. I like to do something to have some fun.
Epic failure.
Yes.
Given his extreme poverty level, you need to understand that NukeyBoy's definition of "a lot" of money is somewhat lower than what everyone's else would be. For NukeyBoy $100/year = "a lot of money".
While I disagree frequently with Dougster, I can't disagree strippers can be lying, thieving, whores especially one like Stevie. It also pisses me off strippers want to be called Dancers. Strippers strip and do lap dances (and in many instances do extras) - dancers dance for a ballet company.
It's not like a drug addiction. We as a society toss around the word addiction to easily.
That seems to be where I am at.
If you have painful memories, you can push them out of your thoughts for a bit by activating you brain's pleasure centers. Lots of options, booze, drugs, commercial sex of various types.
2. I have snuck out at nite while wife asleep.
3 I used to be vulnerable from telephone manipulation from them.
4. I once drove across LA to see stripper dancing at another club from where I met her. In van nuys I was stopped by female cop "why did you run that red light and almost hit that car." I had SC brochure on seat but did not get ticket - lucky.
Since Shadowcat's original question was really about the tolerance level you develop(as opposed to sex addiction) I will answer that as well. Years ago I used to get an erection just walking in the door or a strip club. Sometimes, even in the parking lot, based on my anticipation of a good time inside. Now I can walk into a fully nude club with 4 dancers nude on stage and it has little effect on me. I enjoy watching the dancers from my seat, but will not get aroused until I get a cute dancer on my lap letting me fondle her and having her play with Jr. So, in my case, I have become jaded to just the nudity in a club. It is just like when as a kid you could get aroused with a copy of National Geographic, but now it takes very hard core internet porn. Shadowcat's intent was to point out this tolerance level and see if it affects others in a similar way.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T7KtC8iX5…
Food and Sex are on the chart but they are on the lower end.
I hope you win.
I’ve gone thru SC ups and downs where they are not doing much for me and it’s the same ole same ole. But that does not stop me from having some really good times after having had some not so good SC times.
It “may†be analogous to folks who grow up in tight economic circumstances; then get a well-paying job after college; and it is super-exciting to all of a sudden “have a lot of moneyâ€. But eventually one gets used to their new salary and after a while it may even seem as it is not enough.
But to quote the bard of beach wisdom, Jimmy Buffett "Id rather die while Im living than live while Im dead" and if nothing else clubbing is living.