How Long Would You Wait?
ilbbaicnl
Keep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
How long / how many dates would you wait for sex before giving up?
Me personally, just one or two dates. Death is the thing you want to put off till later, not sex. If I liked the chick, but the sex thing wasn't happening, I'd tell her I wanted to hang out as friends. If she were the type who needs some big emotional deal before she's ready to do the wild thing, she can let me know later on down the road if/when she's ready to be more than friends.
Me personally, just one or two dates. Death is the thing you want to put off till later, not sex. If I liked the chick, but the sex thing wasn't happening, I'd tell her I wanted to hang out as friends. If she were the type who needs some big emotional deal before she's ready to do the wild thing, she can let me know later on down the road if/when she's ready to be more than friends.
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But if the girl was Duo, I’d be willing to stretch it out to 2 months :)
Dude, you are one stupid fuckin' windbag. You do realize that, don't you?
ilbby-windbag: " Yet we still make the (now irrational) connection between a woman waiting for sex and her being virtuous or superior."
Who has this attitude? People in the backward parts of the country? Geriatrics such as yourself?
7 months, 23 days, 16 hours, 39 minutes ...... And counting.......
I don't know maybe people who for some reason think you're supposed to wait 3 dates? Probably "think" is the wrong verb in this case.
Dex: Do you want to have sex with this woman?
Dave: Definitely.
Dex: Okay, then you're violating the first rule of being Steve.
Dave: Who?
Dex: You must learn to eliminate your desire.
Rick: It's Buddhist.
Dex: I think the Taoists said it first.
Rick: Hey, are we gonna have a seminar or are we gonna play golf?
Dex: Just a short seminar on the elimination of desire, okay? If you're out with this girl and even THINKING about getting laid, you're finished, cuz women can smell an agenda like shit on a shoe.
In the former I'd give it a month or two. The latter, not long.
That is a very endearing quality Duo :)
Sorry for being such a dude – but that comment gave me a hard-on
But a woman that tells me “I have a pretty high sex drive†or “I wanna fuck your brains out†– will leave me speechless (in a good way)
Frankly if it really takes 6 dates you are destined for the friend zone. Women do not need 6 dates to make up their mind if you are good enough. If they haven't seen what they want in 3 or 4 dates the chances of their being some sudden revelation about you in date 5 or date 6 is tiny.
I don't like putting a timetable on things but if you are not seeing some escalation in physical contact (French kissing, grinding, ass caressing etc.) by the end of the second date it is likely going for the friend zone.
If you figure that you will spend at least $300 on 3 dates, you can see why I prefer giving $300 to a stripper and having sex right away.
Hard to argue with that logic :)
You're a little naïve aren't you, ilbby? Most junkies are very good about hiding their problem, and it would probably take at least a month until anyone caught on. More likely several months. We've had numerous tales here of customers saying they knew their favorite stripper "well" and would be able to spot something like that. Then a few months later they come back and report, yes they really are junkies. Sorry, but it ain't that easy to spot, except in your naïve, theoretical, windbag world.