Is it wrong to frequent SC's if you're involved in a relationship?
easyed14
California
Friday, January 13, 2006 6:58 AM
Visiting SC's has been a hobby of mine for over 20 years. I usually go once or twice a month. I have a lot of fun and it really let's me blow off steam. Now for my problem. I've been involved with a woman for going on three years. A few months ago, she talked me into taking her to a strip club. I knew better than to do this but she was insistant. I made sure not to take her to the club I frequent, too many dancers know me there. The club I picked, I chose because I had remembered it being low mileage and no extras. Well the night I took her, we observed several high mileage laps during the two hours we were there. She didn't say a word until the next day at which point she demanded that I no longer go to strip clubs or our relationship would have to come to an end. My question to you guys is, do your wives/SO's know you go to SC's and are they okay with it? Or, do you lie to them and not mention anything about being at a SC? Now I've had to resort to sneaking over to my club then being paranoid that I'm going to reak of perfume and/or come home with glitter or lipstick on me. Not to mention that I am feeling very guilty about lying to her. How do you married guys do it? I usually don't put up with a woman telling me how to live my life but she really got me when she asked me "how would you like it if the roles were reversed?" Maybe I should just find a new hobby? Any tips on how to deal with the situation?
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