I keep detailed records of my SC Hobby spending. Most of my spending nowadays is with providers whether an x stripper or some gal off a Sugar Dating site. I usually stick with one main girl and a couple of others for varity. Not much spending on club activities, lap dances but this was my main thing when starting out (2004). Why - I recently spent $110 at the Ritz on inferior dances and some drinks. The next day I had a gal off roster for $100 at motel so the money I spent at the club woulda paid for pussy. I keep detailed records in a password protected spreadsheet as to amount spent, what for, number of sessions per girl, facts about their performance, and on a flash drive an extensive photo archive of girls I have done.
If you knew you spent x dollars over a few years do you wish you had spent a percentage less and that money would be in your bank acct or savings / retirement. During good times its easy to spend but we never know when the bad times will hit. When the bad times hit the feelings of regret about not saving more money can sink in. It can really drag a person down. Its wonderful banging a hot young stripper x times a month. But these costs add up and over time she will drain money from what would buy a car or more. Then later on it may eat away at you lets say your hit with some emergency like illness or job loss. You could be forced into early social due to unemployment then looking back thinking you had saved more money. Certainly this is not a place you want to be.
A close friend is 74. When he left his wife at 65 to date strippers he had 12 rent houses. Now he is down to one in which he has a reverse mortgage on and exists entirely on social security. He has no regrets about the many gals he has fucked. He tells me you cant push the water back under the bridge. A couple of years ago he had bladder cancer and which also resulted in a prostectomy. He has to use a pump to get it up but this has not kept him from getting girls over to his house. I recently fixed him up with a 39 yo gal on my roster who he will be seeing at his house for $100. I want to concentrate on the two other gals on roster one a 31 yo x stripper and the other a 35 yo off SA.
While I have experienced regrets at spending especially over a period of time (why could I have not spent 40% less) we never know when life or sexual ability will end. You cant wait until 70 to enjoy life.
If your spending 5% of income on hobbying thats a nice controllable vector but if it creeps above 10% into the rance of 20% you might ask yourself if its an addiction and if this is leaving you vulnerable to bad times.
I want to warn you that when bad times come it may eat away at you a lot what you spent and you may wish you had spent say 40% less. When good times return don't forget this and believe bad times won't return.
Of course if your really well off spending 10-25 k a year on strippers and providers is chump change.
