Not supporting or never listening to an artist again because of his or her sexua
I just don't get this. Maybe one of you can help me out.Let's say that you have a favorite music artist. One day, that artist comes out of the closet and says that she or she is gay. Now, this would bother many people and even cause some to never listen to that artist again... which makes NO sense to me.
How does an individuals sexual orientation have anything to do with their music? This would be as dumb as not liking or supporting an artist because of how he or she dresses. Believe it or not, there are people out there who feel this way.
On top of that, an artists sexual orientation or how he or she dresses isn't going to take away from your enjoyment of their music. You either like their music or you don't.
It's just not rational to me. Am I wrong in thinking this? Or, is it just because everyone has their own personal beliefs?
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So if you personally would discard an artist for one of those "perversions", then you can understand why others might discard the artist for any of those perversions.
Personally, while I have an extremely negative reaction to all of those orientations, I tend to separate the artist's personal life from their art. Honestly I don't give a damn what they do in their private life. Now if I knew they were doing something illegal, I might re-think my decision to support them by purchasing their art. But otherwise, who the hell cares?
Now that's not the same as avoiding someones work because of sexual orientation, but it's still an interesting point.
Experimental- That's understandable.
10inches- Seriously? Why do you feel that way?
It's like the story of the Dixie Chicks. They were popular in the country music world until they made a statement that they were embarrassed that President George W. Bush was also from Texas. Hating Bush was not and probably still is not a popular idea amongst country music fans, especially after 9/11, so country music fans basically disowned the Dixie Chicks.
Of course, my theory is I don't care whether they're gay or not. It's not like I'm going to get in bed with them anytime soon.
Most actors and artists are so stupid about anything other than the one thing they do. They are easily mislead and that is why most of their private lives are a disaster.
What I can't stand is the fact so many citizens, especially the younger generations, who blindly follow popular celebrities and their stances. That is when elections can get messy. Just because some singer or actor is hot doesn't mean they know shit about who should be elected as one of our leaders.
Since people are fond of quoting Churchill one of my favorites is - "If you aren't liberal when you are young you have no heart. If you not conservative when you are older you have no brain."
(p.s. you remind a bit of Payer11 with that deep, dark world you live in. You from Texas like he is by any chance?)
The world is full of nutbars and idiot-savants capable of making contributions to cultural enjoyment.
Still, I won't rank "cancer" as high as better insults I've had directed at me here. So far "sociopath" and "attack dog" are my favs.
Oh, "parasite"? Like I collect TUSCL welfare from you all hard working SC going guys or something, huh?
In any case, I'm curious - what did I ever say to you that's got you spewing all the bile of your sick liver all over the place onto the board here?
@cancer-
I have read enough of your comments to realize that you are a condescending narcissist with a misplaced arrogance who belittles others who dare to disagree with you. On my first post here in a long time you had to respond in your typically smart ass way. You honestly don't see how you've alienated yourself from everybody else on this board? Are you that removed from reality? Instead of being a welcomed voice in this small community, you are a pariah. You seek out arguments instead of offering insight or even being civil.
Shall I continue?
Also, my goal of being here is certainly not to make myself popular with others on the board, and, even as such, there are plenty who like my posts and reviews. Tell you what, since I've alienated "everyone" start a thread in which you ask if I should leave the board. If everyone who responds responds in agreement then I'm out of here. Should be easy since I've alienated "everyone" right?
I am quite fine with people who disagree with me in respectful ways. If you don't see that, then you suffer what is called "confirmation bias" when looking at my posts. When there is respectful disagreement you overlook it, when there is heated disagreement you note that, and forget about all the other respectful disagreement. ("Confirmation bias" also explains how you can claim I've alienated "everyone". Histrionics do seem to be a big part of your game though, so I'll make a note not even expect a serious attempt at factual accuracy from you.)
Now go get your sick liver treated!
Absolutely! Hit me with all you got, big boy! I bet if you make 20 statements about me, one of them might even be right. Don't worry, I'm not one ashamed of my weaknesses either. I'll even point out the correct one, no matter how bad it seems!
As far as generating a thread to have you leave....why bother? Most here already have you on ignore, so its moot. But if I ever get that bored in the future I'll consider it. I have little doubt that you would be bye-bye by a show of hands.
I think the thing that I detest most about your posts are your unprovoked attacks on those that you deem weak. Its cowardly and pitiful. Your recent response to Alucard in the racist thread is classic.
No one is as witty as you think you are. Your psycho babble isn't impressive, nor is it helpful here.
sick liver: "I think the thing that I detest most about your posts are your unprovoked attacks on those that you deem weak."
Dude, you can't just look at one thread in isolation. If there is one thing I do not do is attack those deemed "weak". Rules of engagement are they have to strike at me first and show they are willing to tango. Usually several jabs at me before I say anything to them as well. (And, I'll fully admit maybe I slipped on this once or twice in the past, but at least 90% of time it's them taking shots at me first. You, jester214, alutard, steve229.)
Alutard is a great example of that. Yes, he is pathetic and weak and masochistic, but he loves to pick fights so he can lose them and get his ass raped - he begs for it - so how can I not indulge him?
If people don't bother me, I don't bother them. I even offered a truce to anyone who wanted it recently - alutard included. How many took me up on it? One person. The only thing I can conclude is that the others want flames wars. Fine, I can other way.
Reasonable discussion, or flame wars. Let's just not pretend they don't want the flame wars though, okay?
I'm always up for live and let live, dude, so you're on!
Hey, some people just like flame wars. That's cool. I'm one of them, so I can relate. But let's just not pretend I'm the only one.
And let's be real, if I was only one who liked them, then I would have no one to tango with and they would never happy. And especially with the frequency that they do. (Let's also not blow it out of perspective. It's just a strip club board. We are not "curing cancer" now are we? So what if there some flaming going on anyways?)