Pros and Cons of dating a stripper
Clackport
Washington
This should be an article, but articles take too long to be approved and posted, so I'll post this in the discussion area.
There are some guys that want to date strippers. I've dated a few of them, and I can say I'm done with that. I'll share the pros and cons with my experiences and other guys that I know that dated strippers.
Pros:
1. The sex will mostly likely be good: Enough said
2. (For hot strippers) Every guy in the club wants to fuck your girl: I was dating this one stripper and one time I came in to the club she was working at. Her stage was always packed and all the dudes were drooling over her trying to take her home. It was a good feeling knowing that she would be going home with me.
3. Independent: Most of them are not relying on their parents for money.
4. Some of them have goals: Believe it or not, some of them are actually in school and don't have plans of stripping forever. Stripping is what some of them do to pay for college.
Cons:
1. You can't trust them: Strippers are some of the best actresses in the world, not only to the customers, but also to the people they are actually dating. If she tells you she's not fucking anyone for money, you better do your research to make sure that's true. You gotta remember that strippers will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to make the money they need, and a lot of old guys will offer them top dollar to fuck them, so keep that in mind. They give their numbers out to a lot of customers, so trust will obviously be an issue.
2. Issues: Strippers have a lot of issues, mental issues, family issues, physiological issues. Any kind of issue you name it. Ultimately it's all the issues that makes me end the relationship with the stripper.
3. Drugs: Most strippers enjoy their drugs, enough said.
4. No future: Most strippers don't really have a plan for the future. When you ask them, they'll say they'll strip until they can't strip anymore. Sure they're making good money now, but they've got to realize they can't do it forever. You can't retire at 65 stripping like a normal career. Most of them have no goals or plans of what they'll be doing in the future.
5. Keeping it secret: You can't tell everyone you're dating a stripper, that won't be accepted in some instances. A lot of times strippers lie about what they do for a living. It's a safe bet your parents won't be happy if you tell them you're dating a stripper. With any girl I'm dating I would like to show her off to the world, not keep it secret.
These pros and cons have been my experiences and other people I know. Dating strippers can be a fun ride, but realize if you want to go somewhere in life you have to leave the strippers behind.
There are some guys that want to date strippers. I've dated a few of them, and I can say I'm done with that. I'll share the pros and cons with my experiences and other guys that I know that dated strippers.
Pros:
1. The sex will mostly likely be good: Enough said
2. (For hot strippers) Every guy in the club wants to fuck your girl: I was dating this one stripper and one time I came in to the club she was working at. Her stage was always packed and all the dudes were drooling over her trying to take her home. It was a good feeling knowing that she would be going home with me.
3. Independent: Most of them are not relying on their parents for money.
4. Some of them have goals: Believe it or not, some of them are actually in school and don't have plans of stripping forever. Stripping is what some of them do to pay for college.
Cons:
1. You can't trust them: Strippers are some of the best actresses in the world, not only to the customers, but also to the people they are actually dating. If she tells you she's not fucking anyone for money, you better do your research to make sure that's true. You gotta remember that strippers will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to make the money they need, and a lot of old guys will offer them top dollar to fuck them, so keep that in mind. They give their numbers out to a lot of customers, so trust will obviously be an issue.
2. Issues: Strippers have a lot of issues, mental issues, family issues, physiological issues. Any kind of issue you name it. Ultimately it's all the issues that makes me end the relationship with the stripper.
3. Drugs: Most strippers enjoy their drugs, enough said.
4. No future: Most strippers don't really have a plan for the future. When you ask them, they'll say they'll strip until they can't strip anymore. Sure they're making good money now, but they've got to realize they can't do it forever. You can't retire at 65 stripping like a normal career. Most of them have no goals or plans of what they'll be doing in the future.
5. Keeping it secret: You can't tell everyone you're dating a stripper, that won't be accepted in some instances. A lot of times strippers lie about what they do for a living. It's a safe bet your parents won't be happy if you tell them you're dating a stripper. With any girl I'm dating I would like to show her off to the world, not keep it secret.
These pros and cons have been my experiences and other people I know. Dating strippers can be a fun ride, but realize if you want to go somewhere in life you have to leave the strippers behind.
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as for the pros...
1. No, you can't count on that.
2. Trophy/suceeding where others have not... only real pro IMO.
3. Really? They rely on dumb cutsies giving away money. If you date them, they rely on you for money. Duh.
4. Technically true, but, IME the longer they strip the more any potential for a 'real' future erodes away. IMO, you can't count this either as a pro.
Con: you're dating a stripper
6. The bitch will leach your money /greedy
7. Kids with multiple baby daddies
8. Their annoying stripper friends and loser other friends
9. Fuck ass hours
10. They age faster than normal girls
11. Affection is not special to these bitches
12. The stress the bitch gives you
13. Bitch will cheat on you
14. Bitch always hustlin for better options
15. Bitches parents suck
16. The fact you are kidding yourself in believing it will work out in the long run
Enough Said. LOL
5. You will never run out of one dollar bills
6. You get to eat at Waffle House with her stripper friends after club closes
7. She knows the lyrics to lots of rap songs
8. You get to treat her like the hoe she is
9. Bitch is disposable and easily replaceable
10. Bitch is used to being treated like shit
11. Bitches friends are sluts too
12. Easy access to drugs
13. Bitches hours are opposite as u so u don't have to see her lyin fck asd
14. She will likely kill herself or die young
15. You don't have to feel guilty bout anything u do
Stripper fuckbuddy w/ no strings attached: Yes.
Cons: Strippers are sexy, crazy and promiscuous.
At least every one I have met. As an old friend of mine said all women are the same fucking crazy candy the only difference is the wrapper. Or you find the one you think is the least crazy/annoying and you keep hanging around with her.
And the promiscuity/trust thing is only a problem if you want to be the only one fucking her. If you are both ok with it than it really doesn't matter. If not maybe you shouldn't date hookers just sayin.
If you are an Ayn Rand objectivist like me you already feel people will do anything to do what they want to do (or what they feel is the best move for them) anyways.
May start "Strong"....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGz6TDrh4…
but, don't ever be "Blinded by Rainbows"....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=djfSvI043…
instead, just freakin "Go Wild"....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M10GQyTHk…
Con: Costs 200000000% more on everything else
Cons: You will get a crash course on dealing with every fucked up issue that any woman could ever have all rolled up into one person. You will enjoy dealing with borderline personality disorders, anger issues, dual personalities, insincerity, manipulation, lies and theft.
I think most of these wack jobs missed their calling, and should be accepting Academy Awards. As you can tell, most of us have had dealings with stripper relationships, despite these warnings....
My ultimate thought though is what benefit do you get from her being a stripper? I know (and have dated) plenty of women who are hot, independent and know how to fuck. They already have a future planned out and are diligently working towards it OR have already achieved it for the most part.
Find one of them, avoid all the baggage a dancer brings into a relationship.
They are sexy and fun to drive but notoriously unreliable, inefficient, and costly to maintain – in the end they are not a good investment.
Easier said then done. The one good thing about strippers is we have access to socialize with them. Dudes that have good game can even date them. Very few guys have the ability to approach civilian 8+ chicks and work their game. These girls have too many walls built up to push thru.
im 21 years old, my sister is 26 years old
my sister has a bestfriend who has been a striper for over 3 years, she was supposed to be a nurse by now but a year ago she lost her house and her folks lost their jobs, her mom has diabetes
this stripper has grown maaad feelings for me and i had to give in
she claims that she only uses guys for money and will never sell her body like that..EVER!
she wants to finish her school work to become a nurse and she'll be able to support her family and a roof, btw she pays rent, insurance for 2 cars, and two phone bills, plus food
do you guys really think she is being loyal to me and im not wasting my time?, she has told me and told me that she loves me and shes never asked for a penny! we talk about this but quite frankly i feel like im just being fooled, my sister doesnt know btw but her family does
I can write more pros in dating a stripper, tho.
If you can handle the SS, you get to canoodle with a beautiful woman and yes, the sex is always above average. But thinking they are like a normal g/f will just lead to heartbreak. I've not yet met a dancer who can hold a candle to my fave civi g/f's I've had over the years.
The funny thing is that in the thread I mentioned that I was done dating strippers, since then I have dated three more strippers lol.
Also, please don't resurrect discussions from 2012.
In my experience....when you're in a REAL relationship with a stripper...its not
PROS
1- They're loyal! Once she falls in love and sees that you accept her and dont judge her, she'll do anything for you. I once had a girl go to jail for me for trying to protect me. Girls put up with side bitches. They're real ride or die types.
2- Her schedule is very flexible
3- Some of the least judgmental women out there. They'll accept you for you and stand by you. Its very easy to build trust with them.
4- They truly appreciate intimacy. Like when she can be herself with you....no makeup, a little BO and you still tell her she's beautiful and make her feel it, that really touches them.
5- How gentle, sweet and romantic they can be. Never knew girls into that shit as much as strippers. The way they just like being held, cuddling, kissed...
6- Nurturing, the way they will baby you and act kinda motherly/nurturing
CONS
1- Its hard for her to work sober at times, and the exposure to drugs
2- Fast money moves quick
3- Club drama, shit management, fights and competition with other bitches, etc
4- Sometimes you get a little jealous, afraid she'll do something for money...