Pros and Cons of dating a stripper
This should be an article, but articles take too long to be approved and posted, so I'll post this in the discussion area.
There are some guys that want to date strippers. I've dated a few of them, and I can say I'm done with that. I'll share the pros and cons with my experiences and other guys that I know that dated strippers.
Pros:
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The sex will mostly likely be good: Enough said
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(For hot strippers) Every guy in the club wants to fuck your girl: I was dating this one stripper and one time I came in to the club she was working at. Her stage was always packed and all the dudes were drooling over her trying to take her home. It was a good feeling knowing that she would be going home with me.
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Independent: Most of them are not relying on their parents for money.
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Some of them have goals: Believe it or not, some of them are actually in school and don't have plans of stripping forever. Stripping is what some of them do to pay for college.
Cons:
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You can't trust them: Strippers are some of the best actresses in the world, not only to the customers, but also to the people they are actually dating. If she tells you she's not fucking anyone for money, you better do your research to make sure that's true. You gotta remember that strippers will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to make the money they need, and a lot of old guys will offer them top dollar to fuck them, so keep that in mind. They give their numbers out to a lot of customers, so trust will obviously be an issue.
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Issues: Strippers have a lot of issues, mental issues, family issues, physiological issues. Any kind of issue you name it. Ultimately it's all the issues that makes me end the relationship with the stripper.
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Drugs: Most strippers enjoy their drugs, enough said.
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No future: Most strippers don't really have a plan for the future. When you ask them, they'll say they'll strip until they can't strip anymore. Sure they're making good money now, but they've got to realize they can't do it forever. You can't retire at 65 stripping like a normal career. Most of them have no goals or plans of what they'll be doing in the future.
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Keeping it secret: You can't tell everyone you're dating a stripper, that won't be accepted in some instances. A lot of times strippers lie about what they do for a living. It's a safe bet your parents won't be happy if you tell them you're dating a stripper. With any girl I'm dating I would like to show her off to the world, not keep it secret.
These pros and cons have been my experiences and other people I know. Dating strippers can be a fun ride, but realize if you want to go somewhere in life you have to leave the strippers behind.
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last commentYour con's list is longer in items and words. Nuff said.
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agree with all the cons.
as for the pros...
No, you can't count on that.
Trophy/suceeding where others have not... only real pro IMO.
Really? They rely on dumb cutsies giving away money. If you date them, they rely on you for money. Duh.
Technically true, but, IME the longer they strip the more any potential for a 'real' future erodes away. IMO, you can't count this either as a pro.
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No 2 on your con list can apply to most women.
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Pro: you're dating a stripper
Con: you're dating a stripper
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More cons:
The bitch will leach your money /greedy
Kids with multiple baby daddies
Their annoying stripper friends and loser other friends
Fuck ass hours
They age faster than normal girls
Affection is not special to these bitches
The stress the bitch gives you
Bitch will cheat on you
Bitch always hustlin for better options
Bitches parents suck
The fact you are kidding yourself in believing it will work out in the long run
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@bustanutz- spot on with those cons you listed especially with number 8 and 9. It is true that you have to deal with their annoying ass stripper friends and their other loser friends, and who wants a girl that has to work every Friday and Saturday night. Friday and Saturday night is when you want to go out and have fun with your girl.
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The Sex is usually EXCELLENT!
Enough Said. LOL
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Pros:
You will never run out of one dollar bills
You get to eat at Waffle House with her stripper friends after club closes
She knows the lyrics to lots of rap songs
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Pros
You get to treat her like the hoe she is
Bitch is disposable and easily replaceable
Bitch is used to being treated like shit
Bitches friends are sluts too
Easy access to drugs
Bitches hours are opposite as u so u don't have to see her lyin fck asd
She will likely kill herself or die young
You don't have to feel guilty bout anything u do
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Stripper dating w/ possibility of getting serious: No.
Stripper fuckbuddy w/ no strings attached: Yes.
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Man I want to date a stripper for pro no. 1 & 2. To me, I don't expect it to last, but I don't have a family so there's noboy to hide it from. Bragging rightz within your friend circles and hot trophy girl. That's all you need broski. Only thing better....dating a pornstar
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Dating a stripper is like banging your head against the wall. It feels so good when you stop.
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Pros: Strippers are sexy, crazy and promiscuous.
Cons: Strippers are sexy, crazy and promiscuous.
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Touche rh48hr
At least every one I have met. As an old friend of mine said all women are the same fucking crazy candy the only difference is the wrapper. Or you find the one you think is the least crazy/annoying and you keep hanging around with her.
And the promiscuity/trust thing is only a problem if you want to be the only one fucking her. If you are both ok with it than it really doesn't matter. If not maybe you shouldn't date hookers just sayin.
If you are an Ayn Rand objectivist like me you already feel people will do anything to do what they want to do (or what they feel is the best move for them) anyways.
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Excellent points being made....IMO, all comes down to Moves like Jagger....
May start "Strong"....
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but, don't ever be "Blinded by Rainbows"....
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instead, just freakin "Go Wild"....
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I agree with the pros. How ever there are more cons then pros. I speak from experiance. I have dated strippers in the past
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Pro: 20% discount on Lap dances with her
Con: Costs 200000000% more on everything else
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You mean you DIDN'T get it for FREE gatorfan.
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Jackslash and Motorhead are absolutely right. I have had experience with one girl. The benefits are well known. The problem is there is no trust. A woman that can be "affectionate" to any man cannot be trusted with your emotions.
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Pros: It could be the best sex you've ever had with a beautiful woman.
Cons: You will get a crash course on dealing with every fucked up issue that any woman could ever have all rolled up into one person. You will enjoy dealing with borderline personality disorders, anger issues, dual personalities, insincerity, manipulation, lies and theft.
I think most of these wack jobs missed their calling, and should be accepting Academy Awards. As you can tell, most of us have had dealings with stripper relationships, despite these warnings....
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Moth & the Flame.
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Good sex is a pretty big pro, but at the end of the day the cons outweigh the pros.
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Don't you #4's kind of contradict each other?
My ultimate thought though is what benefit do you get from her being a stripper? I know (and have dated) plenty of women who are hot, independent and know how to fuck. They already have a future planned out and are diligently working towards it OR have already achieved it for the most part.
Find one of them, avoid all the baggage a dancer brings into a relationship.
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Strippers are like sports cars …
They are sexy and fun to drive but notoriously unreliable, inefficient, and costly to maintain – in the end they are not a good investment.
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@bustanutz- cons 7 & 16 dead on bro.
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"Find one of them, avoid all the baggage a dancer brings into a relationship."
Easier said then done. The one good thing about strippers is we have access to socialize with them. Dudes that have good game can even date them. Very few guys have the ability to approach civilian 8+ chicks and work their game. These girls have too many walls built up to push thru.
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"Strippers are like sports cars", I may agree with that. I had a sports car that I got rid of. It was fun to drive but completely unreliable and very high mainteance. Sounds like a stripper gf experience. That fun to drive part is very compelling though. If they break down a lot and start looking rundown, the fun part comes to an end.
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alright guys i have a real big instance for you guys that i REEEEEEEALLY need help on
im 21 years old, my sister is 26 years old
my sister has a bestfriend who has been a striper for over 3 years, she was supposed to be a nurse by now but a year ago she lost her house and her folks lost their jobs, her mom has diabetes
this stripper has grown maaad feelings for me and i had to give in
she claims that she only uses guys for money and will never sell her body like that..EVER!
she wants to finish her school work to become a nurse and she'll be able to support her family and a roof, btw she pays rent, insurance for 2 cars, and two phone bills, plus food
do you guys really think she is being loyal to me and im not wasting my time?, she has told me and told me that she loves me and shes never asked for a penny! we talk about this but quite frankly i feel like im just being fooled, my sister doesnt know btw but her family does
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why the cons outnumber the pros?
I can write more pros in dating a stripper, tho.
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Strippers are best as FWB's when it comes to dating. as mentioned, you cannot rely on them. They will break dates, say one thing and do another, forget what they said in the first place, and of course fuck other guys for money.
If you can handle the SS, you get to canoodle with a beautiful woman and yes, the sex is always above average. But thinking they are like a normal g/f will just lead to heartbreak. I've not yet met a dancer who can hold a candle to my fave civi g/f's I've had over the years.
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I also have found that FWB with a stripper is awesome (with the implication that, since you're just FWB, you don't get overly emotionally involved, that's really the critical element). I wouldn't wish dating a stripper on my worst enemy; well okay, maybe my worst.
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I can't believe no one has said the ultimate pro. You don't have to have a job! You can just sit at home and play video games all day!
The funny thing is that in the thread I mentioned that I was done dating strippers, since then I have dated three more strippers lol.
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I've been in an on again/off again relationship the last year or so with a civi, and when it's "on" I don't even go to the club very much or see my ATF OTC. She's now just a backup for me because I can't rely on her for anything. I need more if I'm going to have a "relationship". But when my civi girl is unavailable to me, she fills the void nicely.
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rockstar: I often find myself in the opposite position. When I have no civilian prospects at all, I spend more of my time and energy socializing with civilians... I like having at least a casual sex partner who I care about, and who cares about me, playing some role in my life. When I'm relatively more comfortable with my real-life love life, I love to spice things up with the strip club. I'm pretty sure this makes me a horrible person, but there it is.
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Ok so some of you and very very small minded. I started stripping later on in life when I was 27. The reason I done this is because my daughter of 2 years old has an absent drug using father and my own father was terminally ill. I had no means to make decent money at the time to adapt my fathers home as he had his legs amputated. So I decided to use my good assets and make some money to keep my family afloat. It’s a hard industry to work in as it is true a lot of strippers are there for money and will do anything however there’s a huge amount of strippers that have career plans and support themselves through uni. I’ve met many intelligent woman throughout my dancing career and I am not ashamed of my stripping career either. I came home to my daughter every night after work and provided a life for her that couples can’t even provide their children. And I paid my taxes. We can’t all judge someone by career choices. The sex industry has been around thousands of years and it’s the men that fund this industry so maybe we should take a long look at things and see it takes two to make an industry and without men their wouldn’t be that kind of industry. Not all strippers are hoes and sleep with men for money.
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Got it. Good luck with everything.
Also, please don't resurrect discussions from 2012.
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I think you guys are way off. You're just throwing stereotypes out there. Or you maybe just went out with a stripper, but doesn't sound like you had a very deep relationship.
In my experience....when you're in a REAL relationship with a stripper...its not
PROS
1- They're loyal! Once she falls in love and sees that you accept her and dont judge her, she'll do anything for you. I once had a girl go to jail for me for trying to protect me. Girls put up with side bitches. They're real ride or die types.
2- Her schedule is very flexible
3- Some of the least judgmental women out there. They'll accept you for you and stand by you. Its very easy to build trust with them.
4- They truly appreciate intimacy. Like when she can be herself with you....no makeup, a little BO and you still tell her she's beautiful and make her feel it, that really touches them.
5- How gentle, sweet and romantic they can be. Never knew girls into that shit as much as strippers. The way they just like being held, cuddling, kissed...
6- Nurturing, the way they will baby you and act kinda motherly/nurturing
CONS
1- Its hard for her to work sober at times, and the exposure to drugs
2- Fast money moves quick
3- Club drama, shit management, fights and competition with other bitches, etc
4- Sometimes you get a little jealous, afraid she'll do something for money...
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What they see on the job teaches them to value realness. Even the hardened ones have a very soft spot underneath it all. And yeah, acceptance is a huge thing with them
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that was something ive noticed about this forum a while ago. its sick
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