I've Finally Seen The Light
Clackport
Washington
So if you remember, I was considering dating a dancer. I talk about her in this thread: https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=1… She is 24, she's been stripping for four years, she's not in school, works at the club at least four days a week. All the signs of a career stripper. Well it turns out she's got major anger management issues, she wants to kill her grandpa, and her ex boyfriend is in jail for attempted murder. Major issues. Needless to say I got out of that situation as fast as I could.
I guess with strippers for me, first I saw their great bodies, and my dick was thinking instead of my brain. Then I talk to them, and some of them have great personalites, and to top it off great looks. Great looks, personality, great body=perfect girl for me. Most of the time I wasn't even thinking about their issues and drama. Big mistake obviously when considering dating them. I'm 24, and I have a lot of life to live.
I got to thank you TUSCL veterans for giving me advice on my situation. I can truly say I'm done with dating dancers or wanting to date dancers. It's not worth it in the end. My new motto is fuck em and move on to the next one. Now I think I'll give advice to people who might be in the same situation I was or will be in the same situation.
DONT DATE A STRIPPER. Just stick to fucking them. There's too many issues for one man to handle. My approach now is if I see a hot stripper I like, try to fuck her that night. I'm young and not a bad looking guy so I probably have a better chance of getting free stripper sex than some older patrons (where pay for play is the only option if you want to fuck her). Regardless, most of them will give it up. She might tell you she's a good girl, or she's in a long term relationship with her boyfriend, blah, blah, blah. If the price is right, she will give it up. After you're done fucking her, move on to the next stripper to fuck (unless the sex is so good that you might want to fuck her a couple more times lol). Don't get attached to one girl. For every hot stripper, there's another hot one right around the corner. Who cares about her life and her future "goals". The only thing that you need to care about is how good her pussy is.
If I want dating relationships, I'll look for girls in the real world that are actually going somewhere with their lives. I got to thank you TUSCL veterans for saving me from becoming a lifelong PL.
I guess with strippers for me, first I saw their great bodies, and my dick was thinking instead of my brain. Then I talk to them, and some of them have great personalites, and to top it off great looks. Great looks, personality, great body=perfect girl for me. Most of the time I wasn't even thinking about their issues and drama. Big mistake obviously when considering dating them. I'm 24, and I have a lot of life to live.
I got to thank you TUSCL veterans for giving me advice on my situation. I can truly say I'm done with dating dancers or wanting to date dancers. It's not worth it in the end. My new motto is fuck em and move on to the next one. Now I think I'll give advice to people who might be in the same situation I was or will be in the same situation.
DONT DATE A STRIPPER. Just stick to fucking them. There's too many issues for one man to handle. My approach now is if I see a hot stripper I like, try to fuck her that night. I'm young and not a bad looking guy so I probably have a better chance of getting free stripper sex than some older patrons (where pay for play is the only option if you want to fuck her). Regardless, most of them will give it up. She might tell you she's a good girl, or she's in a long term relationship with her boyfriend, blah, blah, blah. If the price is right, she will give it up. After you're done fucking her, move on to the next stripper to fuck (unless the sex is so good that you might want to fuck her a couple more times lol). Don't get attached to one girl. For every hot stripper, there's another hot one right around the corner. Who cares about her life and her future "goals". The only thing that you need to care about is how good her pussy is.
If I want dating relationships, I'll look for girls in the real world that are actually going somewhere with their lives. I got to thank you TUSCL veterans for saving me from becoming a lifelong PL.
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What makes you think you're going to get sex for free, with NO $$$$ payment.
If the Dancer has any brain at all she will charge you money.
Here's the jist of it - He's right, a young reasonably attractive guy has a better chance than an older unattractive one at getting free sex. It's a damn slim chance - worse than roulette, but a chance none the less. On the contrary, the older one has the significantly better overall chance of getting laid if he's willing to pay for it - better than blackjack...
As far as any dancer with a brain charging for it - that's just bullshit. People of all sorts are fucking without any money changing hands. I've had one night stands with strippers, waitresses, teller's, paralegals, one freakishly hot FedEx chick, etc without money changing hands. When I worked jobs where I interacted with the public (I've never been a stripper), I wound up fucking people who I met as customers more than once. I've had sex with people in my industry at conventions & the like too. I'm not trying to "impress" anyone with my "game" but let's be real, people have casual sex with people they meet while working all the time. Strippers are people too.
Er, Dad...it's time to go back to the home...
As far as the name being an indication of a lack of intelligence, are you a Jets/Pats fan or do you simply not understand the spelling? I can't tell what area you're in from your reviews.
I'm not terribly concerned about sinning, I didn't realize sin was something the participants here were concerned with. I'll keep that in mind for future comments though, thanks.
If you've got such a problem with me you might do better to PM me to express your distaste. My comment was germane to the discussion and not an attack on Alucard (who has my apologies if he takes it as such, despite that fact that I don't often agree with his views.)
Remind me, what color is that kettle again?
Now I have gotten freebees at bars and civilian clubs, but never at stripclubs. However, I have seen drunk strippers go home with guys, maybe the guy got it for free that night.
Who knows when you just might get laid for free?
By the way, not all dancers have serious issues.
Three years ago I met a hot 30 something stripper who really just wanted a kind, not violent older guy to make her feel safe. It lasted for 18 months, sometimes it was rocky - because nearly all strippers have issues and those issues DO sometimes bite you in the face! But more often it was the most fun and the hottest sex I have experienced in my not so sheltered life. It ended when I decided her "issues" were getting to be too much for me.
The fact is, all good times end. Even the best sex, the best friend, the best days will eventually end. Enjoy what you find that is good, use the best days to help you forget the worst and live life on the edge. Be good to those you meet and be good to yourself.
Pablo took the words right out of my mouth.
Also, often times when I hear guys say they enjoyed dating a stripper, they (guys) are usually at or below the stripper’s level (pretty low) so they did not have too much to lose ($$$; dignity; etc.) – but no offenses to anyone as this is not the case in every single situation – but as they say “birds of a feather flock togetherâ€
“By the way, not all dancers have serious issuesâ€
That is like saying not everyone that goes to SCs get LDs – happens – but not the norm IMO.
“Three years ago I met a hot 30 something stripperâ€
Well, age does make a difference. Most people (civis, guys, dancers) are often a bit more settled past 30.
What the hell took you so long?
Yea, my boy steve229 can't wait to get the old man committed. Can't blame the bastard though.
"As far as the name being an indication of a lack of intelligence, are you a Jets/Pats fan or do you simply not understand the spelling? I can't tell what area you're in from your reviews."
49ers, Steelers, Pats, and more recently, Colts. But never them flipper fish.
I bought cable for the first time in five years, LOL, to give her something to do. Made her dinner a couple times. It was the first time I had gotten laid after leaving my ex, picking up some rebounds, then not doing shit with women for over a year. It was fun. I wasn't anywhere near loving her, but I wanted to help her out while she was down, while getting some ass at the same time. Anyhow... it lasted three full days, then I came home, she disappeared, while taking some liberties of my stuff, phone was shut off, never went back to the club, etc. I looked for her that night, then said 'Fuck it!'
That happened. I also went home with a dancer who neglected to tell me she had a boyfriend who'd be coming home any minute. Luckily we were both still clothed when he got there. Still didn't seem happy though. Another's coke dealer/boyfriend also didn't like me and made it known.
Still though, I've met a few, decent hard working girls who may have some issues but keep a hold on them for the most part. And one thing I've learned is no two are a like, even when it comes to the job.
I guess what I'm saying is don't throw them all out for a couple bad apples.
I think it is more like a couple good apples in a barrel of bad.
The ability to make money so easily tends to turn many people, both male and female, into complete assholes. When them easy money days are done, many tend to get their shit together (just like those cleaned out by a bankruptcy or layoff.)