What does your regular say behind your back?
Rod8432
So upon entering one of my favorite clubs last night, I right away spot three favorite dancers with whom I frequently spend quality time when in the club. It's like I hit the mother lode - a relatively slow weekday night with three beautiful and intelligent women, with time on their hands. How could I go wrong? I was in SC heaven...
But NO, each in turn when she briefly saw me (either on stage or walking to the restroom), proceeded to say how she was already locked down with another regular who spends big money just to sit, talk, and otherwise monopolize big chunks of her time. Drat! But hey, it happens and I understand the economics of SC life. And in truth, I did see each previously talking with said regular when I walked in.
But it's what they said next that floored me. Each referred to how she'd really prefer to sit with me, but she's already stuck with that unattractive lout over there whose only redeeming value is parting with a couple Franklins for little work on her part. In fact, each found her regular to be rather disgusting, but a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do to pay the rent. Then, when they returned to their regulars, they acted all cutesy and interested, and I'm left thinking, "If those poor bastards only knew..."
At first I thought all this seemed okay; I got the inside scoop. Then I wondered whether they say the same thing about me behind my back to others? I understand I'm a PL and time is money, although it's not required to pay them when they just sit and talk. But they know I'm always good for a couple lapdances, a couple drinks, and an extra $20 or so for their time. And I always thought they reasonably enjoyed my company and our conversation. Now I'm not so sure...
Would you be shocked to discover your favorites bad mouth you behind your back? Or do you think they really like you and simply confide with you how they find other regulars to be disgusting, but put up with them because it's their job and they need the money? Of course, you being different than the standard SC PL, would understand...
But NO, each in turn when she briefly saw me (either on stage or walking to the restroom), proceeded to say how she was already locked down with another regular who spends big money just to sit, talk, and otherwise monopolize big chunks of her time. Drat! But hey, it happens and I understand the economics of SC life. And in truth, I did see each previously talking with said regular when I walked in.
But it's what they said next that floored me. Each referred to how she'd really prefer to sit with me, but she's already stuck with that unattractive lout over there whose only redeeming value is parting with a couple Franklins for little work on her part. In fact, each found her regular to be rather disgusting, but a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do to pay the rent. Then, when they returned to their regulars, they acted all cutesy and interested, and I'm left thinking, "If those poor bastards only knew..."
At first I thought all this seemed okay; I got the inside scoop. Then I wondered whether they say the same thing about me behind my back to others? I understand I'm a PL and time is money, although it's not required to pay them when they just sit and talk. But they know I'm always good for a couple lapdances, a couple drinks, and an extra $20 or so for their time. And I always thought they reasonably enjoyed my company and our conversation. Now I'm not so sure...
Would you be shocked to discover your favorites bad mouth you behind your back? Or do you think they really like you and simply confide with you how they find other regulars to be disgusting, but put up with them because it's their job and they need the money? Of course, you being different than the standard SC PL, would understand...
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Your tuscl handle just has to make me ask:
Are you from Calgary?
It is what it is - an escape from the every day to enjoy contrived affection, titillation, and the occasional sexual release. I'm good with that. Let the SC action continue unabated...
That's a pretty mature way of accepting your fellow TUSCL(ers) advice/opinions.
I think most of us need that "reality check" every once in a while. It is real easy for "most" guys to be taken by a beautiful woman saying beautiful things. It's probably has happened for as long as there has been civilization. Heck, it is well documented how many governments use ladies as the most effective types of spies.
Bottom line - as long as there is $$$ involved, then there is a conflict of interest. If we were to be honest w/ ourselves, do we think we would be getting the same treatment from these "favorites" if we were not spending $$$ on them? It can happen, but it's definitely the exception and not the norm. We have to take it for what it is.
P.S.
Good Post!
I have to agree with that statement! LMAO
I don't know, and I don't care. It's what she says to my face and, even more importantly, what she does for me that count. I can live with even the most blatently obvious stripper shit most of the time, as long as I'm getting what I want
I can agree with gmd's statement.
As far as the OP, in my mind, any guy who takes a fave away from me is an asshole. So if she says that she'd rather be with me than him, it makes perfect sense to me. ;-)
Fer sure
"Payback's a bitch, Ivan(a)"
CSM
All I care about is the time we spend together, and whether or not she makes me happy. What she does or says when I'm not with her doesn't concern me.
Then on the next visit there is a line of male customers in front of me. I notice that she is nice and flirty with almost every one. <ego deflated somewhat>. Then I get my turn with her, and she's all charming and remembering personal details. It dawns on me that she just really good at customer service.
I have to imagine strippers are doing the same thing, except they get naked and play Bump-A-Log all day. Gotta enjoy your time with her while it lasts.
Reliable I am, but you're right, I'm not a whale. And I got that sense when talking with my favorites during earlier visits. They enjoy sitting with me and getting my less-than-whale attention when whales are otherwise not present. But they're always whale spotting, and when one swims into view, they make the economically wise choice.
I'm okay with that choice, on both the dancer's part and mine. It's just SC reality and it's good to get my head on straight about it. On with the fun.
Thanks, Gents...
But what I WOULD be thinking about is how I went 0 for 3 during an entire strip club visit on a slow night with three girls that I have dealt with before. Were all three really making that much from these guys? Is there any other possible cause for this? If this keeps happening and the issue really is monetary, might you need to save up a little more between visits?
Anyway, just a few thoughts.
Actually, I do think in this instance it was just a rare misalignment of my SC stars. On other nights with all other things being equal, I've been besieged by the same three dancers, each awaiting her turn for a drink, little conversation, and couple spins in my lap.
In fact, on these good evenings I often can't believe my incredible luck - like, how did I all of a sudden get so interesting and desirable? Then other nights, I swear I must be wearing my "Do Not Dance For Me" hat (which I think LeeH discussed in earlier posts).
If this situation were consistent, I'd worry, but mostly it's just an occasional annoyance. So, c'est la vie and tomorrow's another day in this most enjoyable of hobbies.
I avoid this inconsistency by having an ATF who provides a known & consistent performance & behavior. And by using only 1 dancer, I have PLENTY of $$$$ for keeping her attention & not having her wander about looking for other sources of income on the days when I'm with her. That's how I do it and it WORKS well!
I'd rather dancers not be spending much time talking about me. I don't need a train of dancers asking for dances. I did notice the other night I was largely ignored by many unknown dancers. Then suddenly after they saw me get dances from a couple of dancers, I suddenly had a train of several others keep asking me.