"Well It Finally Happened: I Was Outbid Trying to Attract a Dancer"
pabloantonio
Texas
Well it finally happened, I got "outbid". I went to one of my favorite clubs last week. I had extra cash, and it was about 6PM. Day shift was ending and night shift was just starting to arrive.
There were only about 5 or 6 other guys, none were dressed as nice as me, and few if any were sitting near the stage. I had my eye on this beautiful brunette, large breasts, decent body, a solid 8 in my book.
She finally went on stage, and I was not disappointed. I had been sizing up the customers, nobody looked as though they were interested in my intended VIP dancer. Just to make sure, I decided to tip my brunette on stage and tip her well. As I slipped a Jackson into her bikini bottom, I told her "I want to see you later". Her eyes were wide open with excitement, "Yes, I will see you as soon as I get off stage".
As I returned to my seat, a few other customers tipped my dancer on stage. "Ha Ha you losers" I thought, "she's mine". Finally her set was over. As promised she made a bee-line for my table. "I'm so glad to meet you" I said with anticipation. My equipment was already hard with excitement.
"I'm sorry" she said. "That guy over there gave me a 50 on stage, so I promised him I would sit with him first". "But you gave me the second highest tip. When he's through with me, I'll get back with you."
As she walked away you could have stuck an entire beer bottle in my open mouth. I got outbid by that SOB with the jeans and tee-shirt? I thought to myself. I guess sometimes you just have to settle for second place.
Anybody else ever come in second?
There were only about 5 or 6 other guys, none were dressed as nice as me, and few if any were sitting near the stage. I had my eye on this beautiful brunette, large breasts, decent body, a solid 8 in my book.
She finally went on stage, and I was not disappointed. I had been sizing up the customers, nobody looked as though they were interested in my intended VIP dancer. Just to make sure, I decided to tip my brunette on stage and tip her well. As I slipped a Jackson into her bikini bottom, I told her "I want to see you later". Her eyes were wide open with excitement, "Yes, I will see you as soon as I get off stage".
As I returned to my seat, a few other customers tipped my dancer on stage. "Ha Ha you losers" I thought, "she's mine". Finally her set was over. As promised she made a bee-line for my table. "I'm so glad to meet you" I said with anticipation. My equipment was already hard with excitement.
"I'm sorry" she said. "That guy over there gave me a 50 on stage, so I promised him I would sit with him first". "But you gave me the second highest tip. When he's through with me, I'll get back with you."
As she walked away you could have stuck an entire beer bottle in my open mouth. I got outbid by that SOB with the jeans and tee-shirt? I thought to myself. I guess sometimes you just have to settle for second place.
Anybody else ever come in second?
26 comments
I spend what many would consider a lot of money each year in clubs, but I am by no means a heavy hitter on any given club visit. That money has to stretch over a lot of club visits in a given year, so ROI matters to me. I have a maximum threshold that I am not willing to exceed during any club visit, not including OTC if that is in the cards, so if a guy is willing to plunk down a large sum of $$$ on a girl who I am also targeting then he can have her.
Over the years, I have seen ego and/or desperation drive some guys to do very stupid things in clubs, with vying for the attention of a dancer ranking high among them. For this reason, I have learned not to invest too much ego or emotion in this hobby. I am a good catch for most girls on most nights and that is enough for me. If a girl that I want gets snatched up by a guy willing to drop a stack of Benjamins ITC then there is always another girl who will be more than happy to take what I have to offer.
I'll admit to starting some stage inflation at the tip rail for my ATF for her benefit. She knew I was using other people's money to put in her pocket when I proved her my "social experiment."
I used to get dances regularly with a beautiful young blonde, but she would completely ignore me when another regular customer was in the club. I found out that he spent over $1000 on her every time he came in. She was making a rational economic decision.
I'd rather be told I was outbid instead of her choosing someone else for some other subjective quality. When you make that stage tip, there's always a risk it's not enough to win the prize. Unfortunately, someone else, albeit poorly dressed, had the deeper pockets. It happens. Just a week ago I lost out to someone that bought my fave a meal. C'est la vie.
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"Money rules. Especially in strip clubs. Those who can't compete, eat shit."
I have been outbid in similar fashion 4-5 times. Most times they don't even get dances, they just want to show off with the girl at their table for 5-6 songs. After the second time that happened, I decided I would always move on immediately. Forget waiting for the stage dancer, just start dancing with Girl #2.
This is why I only tip $1 to dancers on stage. A dollar gets their attention. If they are free they will then come and see me. If they are with a regular or big spender, they won't come see me but I'm only out a dollar.
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same here although i might tip 2 or 3 bucks sometimes.
no matter how much a stripper appeals to me i refuse to get in a bidding war over her. being on a lower end of the finincial scale than what i've read from some of you guys here, i'll try another girl or another time.
A lot of times girls won't even notice how much you tip them on stage so I try to subtly tell them if I'm tipping more than a buck or two.
by the way pablo, you got great taste man, i love your avatars.
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