"Well It Finally Happened: I Was Outbid Trying to Attract a Dancer"

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• bang69

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  13 years ago

  I have out bit many people at a sc & have been out bid myself. its the law a nature kill or be killed. By that I mean who ever outbids the other wins.
• pabloantonio

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  13 years ago

  So bang69, you were the lucky sob who outbid me! LOL
• rickdugan

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  13 years ago

  It happens. From time to time you will run into someone who is willing to spend a very large sum of money on a particular girl and, if it happens to be the girl that you are interested in, then you are SOL. I spend what many would consider a lot of money each year in clubs, but I am by no means a heavy hitter on any given club visit. That money has to stretch over a lot of club visits in a given year, so ROI matters to me. I have a maximum threshold that I am not willing to exceed during any club visit, not including OTC if that is in the cards, so if a guy is willing to plunk down a large sum of $$$ on a girl who I am also targeting then he can have her. Over the years, I have seen ego and/or desperation drive some guys to do very stupid things in clubs, with vying for the attention of a dancer ranking high among them. For this reason, I have learned not to invest too much ego or emotion in this hobby. I am a good catch for most girls on most nights and that is enough for me. If a girl that I want gets snatched up by a guy willing to drop a stack of Benjamins ITC then there is always another girl who will be more than happy to take what I have to offer.
• deogol

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  13 years ago

  He saw, or she stated, your $20 tip. Bidding war after that. I'll admit to starting some stage inflation at the tip rail for my ATF for her benefit. She knew I was using other people's money to put in her pocket when I proved her my "social experiment."
• BigBillPayed

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  13 years ago

  Pablo when this happens I just pull out my 10 inches and bitch slap the other guy across the face. Stripper's love that shit more than money. They all way's cry afterwards. It hits them emotionally some place deep.
• CTQWERTY

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  13 years ago

  Pablo, you're hanging out at the high-priced clubs! That other guy likely is a senior VP of derivatives trading at B of A and has a massive stack of government funded bailout money to jizz, er jazz--sorry, any dancer he feels like.
• JGoose

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  13 years ago

  Watch out for the jeans and teeshirt brigade. We like to go undercover to surprise SoBs that think our apparel indicates the size of our wallets.
• jackslash

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  13 years ago

  This is why I only tip $1 to dancers on stage. A dollar gets their attention. If they are free they will then come and see me. If they are with a regular or big spender, they won't come see me but I'm only out a dollar. I used to get dances regularly with a beautiful young blonde, but she would completely ignore me when another regular customer was in the club. I found out that he spent over $1000 on her every time he came in. She was making a rational economic decision.
• pabloantonio

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  13 years ago

  I thought the whole episode was funny afterwards, I mean after all how many sob's tip with a 50? Like you all have indicated, I too have a set limit. Usually its enough to get the girl, but that night luck wasn't with me but I saved a wad of cash too. Oh well, next time.
• basketball

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  13 years ago

  You didn't miss anything. If the girl was smart, she would have said she would come to you after the guy who asked first. Telling you you were first, but did not tip enough is a slap in the face. I never tip big, just something when I am asking for her to stop by. Weather they are telling the truth or not, they should not tell you that you were out bid, just not quick enough.
• 3LeggedMan

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  13 years ago

  Don't think that would work in this case, basketball. OP had stated that he had been watching the girl for quite some time and tipped her on stage right away. At the time he tipped she indicated she'd be with him right away. I'd rather be told I was outbid instead of her choosing someone else for some other subjective quality. When you make that stage tip, there's always a risk it's not enough to win the prize. Unfortunately, someone else, albeit poorly dressed, had the deeper pockets. It happens. Just a week ago I lost out to someone that bought my fave a meal. C'est la vie.
• Clubber

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  13 years ago

  Never happened to me, and never will. I don't approach dancers (well, perhaps an occasional Asian), as I let them come to me. In south Florida, most clubs I visit use the "tip walk" so it is easy. If not that, eye contact works the best for me. I've almost never seen a dancer on stage that interested me that eye contact would not bring her to me after her set. vm can vouch for one of my latest faves, "C".
• gatorfan

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  13 years ago

  $200---- $200---- $200 -- do I hear $250 --- goin once twice sold to the PL in the mock turtleneck with the ski gloves
• motorhead

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  13 years ago

  The moderator of another board once wrote these words to live by: _________________ "Money rules. Especially in strip clubs. Those who can't compete, eat shit."
• shadowcat

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  13 years ago

  or...Life is like a shit sandwich. The more bread you have, the less shit you have to eat.
• HonestT

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  13 years ago

  Disgusting! lol I have been outbid in similar fashion 4-5 times. Most times they don't even get dances, they just want to show off with the girl at their table for 5-6 songs. After the second time that happened, I decided I would always move on immediately. Forget waiting for the stage dancer, just start dancing with Girl #2.
• mjx01

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  13 years ago

  If that's what you are tipping at the stage, I don't want to know what kind of tip she'll expect after VIP.
• wallanon

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  13 years ago

  I get "outbid" all the time. Funny thing is they come back. Why would I stop some other guy from buying drinks for my future dancer and loosening her up?
• troop

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  13 years ago

  jackslash 11/06/11 12:33 AM This is why I only tip $1 to dancers on stage. A dollar gets their attention. If they are free they will then come and see me. If they are with a regular or big spender, they won't come see me but I'm only out a dollar. ^^ same here although i might tip 2 or 3 bucks sometimes. no matter how much a stripper appeals to me i refuse to get in a bidding war over her. being on a lower end of the finincial scale than what i've read from some of you guys here, i'll try another girl or another time.
• samsung1

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  13 years ago

  $20 and $50 seems like a lot of money to be tipping on stage but lets not forget those idiots who "make it rain".
• georgmicrodong

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  13 years ago

  I get outspent all the time. Like others here, the bulk of my money will be spent somewhere other than the stage. I think I've spent $5 or $10 at the stage, in singles, but I'm not going beyond that. If that interests her, great. If not, well, somebody else will show up.
• mjx01

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  13 years ago

  troop, jackshit... I concur. I have never gotten a better response by giving more than a dollar at the stage. In some cases 2-3 can be justified, but only in special cases.
• crecat03

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  13 years ago

  This happened to me a couple of days ago with one of my favorite dancers. I guess I fall into the regular category now, at least for this one dancer, and she was on stage when I walked in. I gave my customary tip and asked her to join me for a drink and stuff. Right after she gets off stage, she comes over and says that she's with a regular who apparently was spending a lot of money. She never made it back to me and I left with a lot more cash than I intended. It's annoying but it is still a business. A lot of times girls won't even notice how much you tip them on stage so I try to subtly tell them if I'm tipping more than a buck or two.
• GoVikings

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  13 years ago

  what georgmicrodong said is exactly how i am when it comes to this by the way pablo, you got great taste man, i love your avatars. i LOVE latina women
• johnnymapalo

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  13 years ago

  Man, I never tip for than $4 on stage. I'm not really a stage tipper. I rather spend the bulk of my money on lap dances. I once spent $4 tip on one hot body dancer and she just totally ignored me after her stage performance. She was with her regular all nite. What a waste!! Just move on and go to the next one..
• wallanon

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  13 years ago

  I tip case by case. If I'm tipping at the stage, at a minimum I usually tip $1 per dance. Generally don't tip over $5 per set, but there's an exception to every rule.