Is it better to go solo or with a group to the SC?

I go alone mostly. A group setting cramps my style.

This topic has been kicked around a couple times. I think many of us on TUSCL are frequent SC goers and hence, don't mind going by ourselves. We do pretty well in the clubs solo and already know some of the dancers/bartenders/staff, etc. We also go during the week/daytime, which lends itself to solo clubbing. For me, it's like a "Cheers" experience, where everybody knows my name.

I like it that way, and have never been a 'group' guy. I have however gone a time or two with a friend, and that's been fun to talk about the girls and share the experience. I've only been once with a larger group, but found it to be too much like 'amateur hour' - the married guys who don't get out much acting like stupid teenagers, getting drunk, saying inappropriate stuff to the dancers, etc. My ATF/Fav dancers would look at me like "I know you to be a classy dude, so who the fuck are these losers you're with?"

Ok its your boy juice again : ) I go to the club all by my self ! Y cuz I did not go to talk to a dude I went to go get my dick wet and to eat sum pussy. If I wanted to hang with my friends I would go to a sports bar. The money issue look they love that money no matter how big or small that roll is...I've been fucked for $500 (over paid) and as low as $150 (steal of a deal) so work with what you got u will have a blast !

it depends on what you want from a strip club visit. If you want to joke around and drink with a bunch of guys, go with your friends. If you want to have a close personal experience with an attractive girl, go alone.

I think that you will find that SC's are best enjoyed with your parents.

Either can be great; small group of 2-4 guys can be a blast but, can turn into a pain in the ass if someone wants to leave / stay gets too drunk etc. Alone is good as you can cum and go as you please and not have to answer to anyone else. One thing about strip clubs as opposed to going to a regular bar alone, there will always be an attractive (hopefully) chick willing to talk to you.

In your other thread, you asked how to pick up a stripper. In this thread, you say you never go alone. Well son, you now have something you can change. I have talked to plenty of strippers about this, and almost all of them have low regard for the "groups of young guys". Now, you also mention that if you like a girl, you will get "a lap dance". I interpret this to mean "one" lap dance. So this is your other problem that is easily, albeit expensively, rectified. You must buy more than one lap dance from a girl if you want her phone number and any shot at a "pickup" (whatever that is).

So next time: go in the afternoon, go alone, go with $100 or more, and spend it all on one drink and one girl. Lather, rinse, repeat. Results may vary.

I've ALWAYS gone alone. The lone exception was a meeting with Vince.

Your experience is yours, and the individual stripper's, alone. This isn't a competitive sport like a ball game. I usually go alone and so do most people. The exception would be with a Designated Driver if you are drinking.

If you're looking for prostitution go alone. If you're looking to party go with a group.

Don't waste money on private/champagne rooms. As you said, go with a group, preferably with a girl tossed in, to avoid the vultures and pity dances. Spend time with the dancer you're interested in. And when the group gets ready to leave, make sure it's a bar, party, concert, bowling, etc., then invite the girl to join you after her shift. Through the convo, dances, you should be able to get the feel of the intrest level vs acting. This seems to be the best approach. I usually get her number ahead of time, but if she turns you down, she may just really need to work. So still get her number and say you'll catch her later. Remember there will always be more.

I prefer going alone. Im there to get dances & socialize with the dancers. Besides, a group can bring about problems that you don't have to worry about when your flying solo.

Solo.

With a group is good for certain specific types of strip-clubbing, I'm sure. What kinds?

Well, mostly, there are the kinds of strip-clubbing that I don't generally enjoy, probably. The whoop-n-holler-when-your-team-wins-big occasion, the make-fun-of-the-bachelor-before-his-wedding occasion, and the my-buddy-just-got-divorced occasion, all come to mind. There is also the young-males-who-are-members-of-a-peer-bonding-group outing, such as when six or twelve twenty-year-old men, allmembers of a middle-tier Junior College's basketball team, turn up at a strip club together. These boys don't go to strip clubs often, because they can't afford it, so it's a "special" night for them. They may tip more than one dollar on one or two occasions! Har ...

None of those, above, would be fun for me, probably. I would prefer to enjoy my team's victories in a more civilian location and would find that the distraction, of paying attention to my team's victory, would interfere the other distraction, of paying attention to her tits; then again, maybe it would be that her tits would interfere with my team; but either way, it's two distractions in a room where there's only room for one. The bachelor (and divorce) parties have their limited appeal. For a bachelor party, the last thing in the world I'd want to do to the guy (or, by extension, his bride) is remove him from his devotion to her by showing him a world he'd only previously glimpsed from afar. I'd rather have a quiet night of talk, perhaps a classy beer at a micro-brew, some darts or pool, and pledges of mutual support through the difficulty that is going to be a young male's need to figure out how to observe fidelity. I'm not going to tempt his fidelity at the outset. They ruin the strip club experience, but the friendships may be enjoyable anyway. And the college-team-night? Hideous hell, the definition there-of. Boys who don't tip well are boys who don't end up in my group of good friends, and I'm much too old for college anyway.

The divorce-party seems reasonable fodder for strip-clubbing in a group. So too the graduation party, and the office Christmas party, at least, in the sense that these are people you otherwise wouldn't party very much with, so the distraction of tits isn't taking away very much from the friendships, since the friendships aren't very tight in the first place.

Best use of group-night at strip club? You find out a co-worker or classmate is one of the DANCERS at the club, so you bring your male office- or class-mates, heh heh heh. Or, I suppose, there's always the I-just-got-out-of-the-state-pen party ...

So lopaw is a guy? You had me pretty convinced you were a chick until that last post.

solo

You don't need an occasion to go to a strip club. I have for birthday parties, bachelor parties, break-up parties, Christmas parties, etc. but also just for a Friday night out, or to watch the Cowboys on Sun night and hit the drink specials. The groups should be small, casual, and there for a good time.

I must be blind. I see nothing gender identifying, to either side, in lopaw's last post.

He goes alone. I have seen more guys pretending to be girls on the internet than I've seen girls alone in strip clubs.

“He goes alone. I have seen more guys pretending to be girls on the internet than I've seen girls alone in strip clubs.”

@Doc_Holliday. You’ve made a number of statements recently all with certitude that perhaps you should reconsider. I was in a club last night/this morning for about six hours. Three separate females came in unescorted - all by their lonesome. It is not an uncommon occurrence in my experience. I have never met lopaw nor will I, but I am sure that I remember a post where *she* met a fellow TUSCL member (perhaps minnow if memory serves).

You’ve also posted: “I guess I could write a review or two. I want to write reviews about the clubs I like, I'd like to advertise for them. But judging from this board, the merit of a club is based on the extras and I don't care about extras, so my reviews wouldn't be of any use anways.”

First, a review should not be an advertisement but rather informational in nature (IMO). Secondly, I do not believe that most of the users of this site are interested in extras (though the discussion board would sometimes seem that they are). I know that I’m not and if you read the majority of reviews extras are not mentioned. Regardless, a review that confirmed the availability or not of extras does inform me as to what type of club it is. So just a suggestion, try writing some reviews AND realize that it is a bigger world than simply what you have experienced.

If the majority of members aren't interested in extras then why are the top two rated clubs a couple bar-brothels in Tiajuana rather than ones in Las Vegas or Miami where clubs are either genrally upscale and/or custom service driven?

Other than that, I'll take what you said into consideration.

“If the majority of members aren't interested in extras then why are the top two rated clubs a couple bar-brothels in Tiajuana rather than ones in Las Vegas or Miami where clubs are either genrally upscale and/or custom service driven?”

Why is the sky blue? Why is Mons Venus - a non-extras club and nothing more than a bus station waiting room decorated in a 1970’s Hugh Hefner style – highly rated? But seriously, two Mexican border town whorehouses that are hardly even close to the best whorehouses in the world? They just happen to be in easy reach of the masses who rate them highly as they’ve never experienced anything like them and are no comparison to their local Déjà Vu.

Doc: Well, all I can say is that you experience appears to be more limited than mine. I have seen women alone in clubs (but generally not alone for long!) on a number of occasions in several locations. True, many of them had the look of strippers themselves, but many others did not. It has become a more common occuramce in the last few years.

i suspect that there is one "female" on tuscl that is really a guy but it's not lopaw. i believe lopaw is a she.

I like to do lap dances with the stripper alone no groups

Usually I go by myself just to relax and un wind. The only times I go with someone if I know that they wont act awkward or being a wallflower. The only good experience I had go with someone to the club was my friend Dan, rh48hr, my long time friend Larry and other buddy named Kolton. With groups its only been with my cousins and his friends. My roommate and her friend was a ok experience but I could tell that my roommate looked a bit unsure.

I get tired of the TUSCL forums sometimes. The reason is because it seems like the same topics come up over, and over, and over, and over.

What kind of pants do you wear to the club? How do you get a stripper's phone number? Is she falling in love with me? Do you go alone or with a group? How do I get extras?

@Doc_Holliday - yes, I am a woman, and I prefer to club alone. Is that so hard to understand? What part of that are you having trouble with?

Don't think it matters much. When I'm with a group I, of course, have to negotiate any OTC attempt in the VIP rather than at the table. Doesn't seem to make any difference in terms of the ITC quality of dances I receive though. With a group you will get less bored waiting between dancers, and you'll always have to end lending money to friends who wind up spending more than they thought they would.

lopaw - I can't say if you are or aren't. It's just the odds of a guy posing as a girl on the internet for kicks like 1/20 or 1/50 are a lot higher than a girl clubbing alone. At least, I can't recall one lone girl I've seen out of the last 1000 customers. Of couse I don't watch the door, and as GMD said they may get quickly joined into a group or they sneak off out of sight.

lopaw - I can't say if you are or aren't. It's just the odds of a guy posing as a girl on the internet for kicks like 1/20 or 1/50 are a lot higher than a girl clubbing alone. At least, I can't recall one lone girl I've seen out of the last 1000 customers. Of couse I don't watch the door, and as GMD said they may get quickly joined into a group or they sneak off out of sight.

I will ask the door girls this weekend and see if you fellas are right...

Doc - I believe I joined TUSCL way back in 2004, which would be an awful long time to try and maintain a gender charade. And to what end? What would be the point? It would make absolutely no sense.

All I can say is believe what you want to, and I'll just keep on clubbing (solo) like I always have. Happy lappin'.

Sometimes I forget how new I am to this place. But the internet is full of lies and jokers, so I take everything with a grain of salt. I should have looked at your join date. Hope no offense is taken.

Personally, it depends on the objective and club to some extent. If, I'm just going to hank out or a low milage venue, then I can see an upside to a group. However, I'm pretty sure the group thing has cost me OTC. Also, I almost always go alone (most of my friends are into the hobby).

I usually go solo, but as I think back I have gone in groups for bachelor parties and with a group of friends when we traveled together for athletics. I have gone with friends who were horndogs and knew they were down for a trip to the SC as well and had a lot of fun. I recently met up with TABB for an evening at Christie's and it was a good time as well.

Your level of enjoyment is up to you. I wouldn't begrudge anybody I went with for going off to have a good time and I don't think any of the people I've gone with would care if I did the same. Just make sure who you go with has an understanding of what might happen.

I go at least 90% of the time solo. I have gone with work buddies in the past, and there are two issues with that: 1)usually I want to stay while they want to go, or vice versa. 2)going with other people tends to sit poorly with favorite dancers. I still keep up with one of my old high school buddies, who came out here once, and we went down to my favorite club, and he was overly critical of my favorite dancers, which is too bad, because he might have got something he never gets in his clubs back home. I mean, I don't think any of my faves are 10's by any means, but neither are the girls at the clubs he goes to, either.

Same as the last 10 times this was asked.

lopaw, your gender has been challenged. There is only one way to settle this controversy: Show us your...birth certificate--with raised seal.

"I get tired of the TUSCL forums sometimes. The reason is because it seems like the same topics come up over, and over, and over, and over."

True, but I try to remember that someone is always just discovering this hobby, and everything is brand new to them.

You can also try having a little fun with them, sorta of like sending the new guy at work to get a "left handed spanner wrench"

Isn't "spanner wrench" redundant?

lopaw, have you seen the movie "Some Like it Hot". It is a comedy classic. Two male musicians witness the St. Valentines Day massacre, and to escape the mob they join an all-girl band. Tony Curtis and Jack Lemon play the cross-dressing musicians, Marilyn Monroe is the over-sexed singer, and Joe E. Brown is the daffy millionaire who falls in love with Jack Lemon's character in drag. At the end of the movie, Jack Lemon reveals himself as a man and Brown is unfazed, responding, "Well, nobody's perfect."

I believe you are a woman. But if you're not, well, nobody's perfect. LOL.

"I get tired of the TUSCL forums sometimes. The reason is because it seems like the same topics come up over, and over, and over, and over."

Digitech,

Yes, but you could do what I did. I took a break for a long time. Leading up to the 2008 election, there seemed to be a lot of political talk on this forum East Coast liberals vs. old school red staters. Combined with all of the repeat topics you spoke of, I became bored and tired of it all. I just focused on clubbing with my ATF's. Several months ago, I returned and am enjoying like I once did.....but isn't there another election coming up soon????

"Three separate females came in unescorted - all by their lonesome"

In some clubs, this is not allowed, including, I believe, one of my faves, the Flight Club near Detroit.

Sometime, perhaps lopaw can recount her experiences if this has ever been an issue for her.

@Doc - no offense taken :)

@jackslash - nice try!

@harrydave - lol a classic indeed

@motorhead - I'm a west coast girl, and I can honestly say that in the 10 years I have been clubbing here in various parts of Cali (and Vegas), I have never once been denied admission to a SC due to my flying solo. I suspect that it might be a south/back east kind of thing. And since I don't ever plan to visit any SC's east of Las Vegas Blvd, it should never be an issue for me :).

Ok, so I just caught the cashiers/door ladies at a lull, and asked about female customers. They could recall groups of women but not a solo woman. But I think they may be newish, or don't pay attention. HOWEVER, one dancer who has worked three years recalled a few female customers who came alone out of curiosity, and one that regularly came alone. So, that's my research from two dancers and two door girls of one club. Now, I'm off to woo some strippers!!

Solo 90% of the time.

- Been with just one other guy a couple if time; all he did was handicap all the dancers I liked. Another just whined about his wife. Another guy just one upped me every chance he got. "back at my favorite club, they give baby oil shows for $5..."

- Been with groups; somebody alwas gets kicked out for touching, or being too drunk. Somebody always wants to leave 5 minutes after we get there. The service is worse, and most dancers avoid the groups.

Now going with a group of girls can be fun, but isn't that different than the above paragraph. I only had this happen once, with 3 girls. Didn't get to sex any of them. :^(