Strippers real names
Drippy
Florida
We all know that strippers use stage names when working at the club, you know, names like Destiny, Ecstasy, Jasmine, etc. Have you every tried to get their real name?
Here's what I do and its kinda fun. A stripper comes up to you and asks if you want some company. You say, "sure". She sits down and offers you her hand and says, "Hi my name is Destiny". I know its not her real name so I come back with "Hi, I'm Brad Pitt" (or Tiger Woods, Bill Gates, or any familiar famous name). This throws her out of her game and then I say, "You didn't give me your real name, so I didn't give you mine". 90 percent of the time she offers her real name and then I give her mine. This shows you know how things work and are in control of the conversation. From this point on, you can build the relationship from there. Naturally she could be lying about the name she gave you, but its a different alternative to the usual small talk. Have you every tried anything like this.
Here's what I do and its kinda fun. A stripper comes up to you and asks if you want some company. You say, "sure". She sits down and offers you her hand and says, "Hi my name is Destiny". I know its not her real name so I come back with "Hi, I'm Brad Pitt" (or Tiger Woods, Bill Gates, or any familiar famous name). This throws her out of her game and then I say, "You didn't give me your real name, so I didn't give you mine". 90 percent of the time she offers her real name and then I give her mine. This shows you know how things work and are in control of the conversation. From this point on, you can build the relationship from there. Naturally she could be lying about the name she gave you, but its a different alternative to the usual small talk. Have you every tried anything like this.
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A dancer is not a GF, she is a sex provider giving a service, or providing a fantasy whether a dance set or some extra. Consequently I don't believe in calling what I do with them a relationship, a friendship might be accurate - they sell a fantasy which I expect them to perform to completetion. Certainly I have had a number of girls which I have had many sessions with (up to 75). But in the end, like a college QB, they are going to graduate (or be replaced) and go onto something else. I keep a photo archive for rememberance, so photographing them in bikini or nude is important to me. The guy that has the idea a dancer is going to be his GF is running a fools errand, especially if he is considerably older than her. I have had a number of them as mistresses (many were married) and will probably continue this hobby until it is disabled by the aging process or death.
I don't ask for real names but if they make it to my favorites list, I usually get it. Knowing both names can get confusing. If you are talking with a couple of dancers. Which name do you call them by? Do they know each others real name? I also get confused on which is their real name vs stage name. Bro is it Natalie or Nicole?
Then there are ones that also have a TUSCL name and others that have a yet different name in their email address. If I swap telephone numbers, I usually get a last name as well.
I prefer dancers that I know well to call me by my real name and most oblige me. However I am still known as the candy man. I guess that is my stage name.
In the club I've been going to the longest, I know most of the strippers' real names. Funny thing is I go by a nickname and very few of them know my real name. I don't hide it but I don't offer it either. I had to show my ID to one of the bartenders to prove my real name.
To Drippy if you think that you are tricking them into giving you their real name then you are kidding yourself. My question why do you need to know their real name? What possible difference would it make?
Anyway, I never ask, but several have told me their real names. Of course, I have no way of knowing if it is their actual real name, or a fake "real" name they give out to good customers to make you feel special.
I do like to ask how they came up with their dancer name. Most just picked it at random, but some have an interesting/cute story behind it.
But I relate to several dancers more personally than professionally. They are regular folks, and with some, there is no fantasy left between us. I don't therefore discard them, if we have things to talk about or do together. I find nothing wrong with having some of them as friends in the "real world."
I'm not being cynical, it's either keep it fantasy or keep it reality, but never both.
I once taked to a dancer that said her name was "Star". I said sure, but then she said her parents where hippies in the '60 and showed me her drivers license. Star it was!
Also some dancers have to use stage names and also sometimes have to change them because another dancer is already using that name. I once witnessed two dancers working at the same time, with the same name. The DJ/club management is supposed to prevent that. It did cause confusion. Who was supposed to be on stage? Most unusual name I ever heard was a dancer using her mothers maiden name as a stage name. I thought that pretty unique.
Customer: My name's Brad Pitt.
Me: Okay, Brad, are you ready for a dance?
Customer: You know that's not my real name right?
Me: If you want to be Brad Pitt tonight, that's fine with me. You ready for that dance now?
Customer: Only if I can get your real name.
Me: *walk away*
This topic has me asking, why??
They need her name in order to find her. Even if they have just her first name, that makes her easier to find in combination with any other info. For example, if a stalker heard that an ex named Tina might be stripping in a Columbia, SC, he could call all the clubs there and quickly find out where a Tina who fits her description dances.
Agreed. A smart dancer will have a line of SS with a fake "real name" attached to it. Most of my former ATFs had one ready to go at a moments notice.
A lot of dancers in Canada seem to dance under their actual real names for some reason. Who knows...or cares for that matter.
How and Drippy due up next on stage, lmfao.
I also met an asian stripper who told me that her real name is too complicated for most men to pronounce so she not only changed her stripper name, but also her real name to something more american.
If a dancer ever introduces herself to me as "Drippy"....I'm SOOOO outta there.
(Nothing personal, Drippy!)
And excuse me back up near the top, it IS a business relationship and if you are a real regular those business relationships can be somewhat social relationships to an extent. But I suppose that is a factor of the club: in a small club, definitely. In a big GC, not likely.
Uh, Delicious is a real name, isn't it?
Other things which we really shouldn't get so over excited about at strip clubs: promotional club giveaways, kisses on cheeks, paying for her time for her to sit next to you and I'd conditionally go so far as to say sometimes getting something for nothing (drink, cover waived, etc) can be plotted to get us to spend more money at the club.
GK is correct, business is the operative word here and everything we do with a stripper is just an interaction, it's fine to enjoy the fantasy.
If you go to the mall and a hot girl walks up and says "I want to ride you so hard in the restroom", well that would be an excellent reality, feel free to post about it, there are some inquiring minds here.
Sort of like having the hot dancer always sitting with you. My ATF would almost only sit with me. Every great once in awhile she would sit with this other guy. I found out later that he was a sort of bf, but she ended up moving in with him. It was better for me since he no longer came into the club. That relationship didn't last long.