Do you have a Special Dancer?

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DFreshPalace
California
I decided to write this article because I just recently had surgery on Tuesday of this week before Christmas and I feel like I'm on House Arrest not being able to go to my Favorite Club and see my Favorite Girl. It's not been an easy couple of days because I am finding myself pushing my rehab more than I should just so I can get back to see her. It's been a pretty GREAT week with her though I haven't been able to spend much time with her.


On Monday Night she sent me a very cool Get Well Gift that I was totally not expecting and then Tuesday she and I did some Online Shopping together right after my surgery just because she knew how important it was to me to get something for Christmas for her. So this article is about how important it is to me to always keep that open line of good communication open with those you may be more special than others Dancer or otherwise. To be honest I don't really think of her as a Dancer I just think of her a Very Special Friend who Dances for her job.

I know in the past some of you have expressed how you enjoy going to clubs for one or maybe 2 girls for all your attention but do you find yourself having such communication where if you had to be laid up you could count on them to be there for you to not only help lift your spirits but make you fight your way back sooner? You may remember in my very first article me talking about friends outside of the club. This is the type of friendship I am talking about. Friends you know will be there in the time of need. Friends who will go above and beyond to cheer you up with a gift and spending time with you after major surgery because they know you can't get in to see them? Friends who make you push yourself to do anything possible to get back and healthy.

I may not have been blessed with Tom Cruise looks but I've always said what I lack in looks I gained in my heart because I am always there for everyone. A lot of that comes from my Depression as I always try to make others happy and do things for them to make myself feel better but in some cases like this it works both ways and I will always appreciate what my favorite girl and Club have done for me as I recover from my surgery and wait for more in a couple of months.

I know some of you will may not agree with this but we all need someone and I am lucky enough to have someone very special with a BIG HEART.

Tip Your Waitress and Be Kind to Each Other.

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lmgol075
7 years ago
Great article, hoping your recovery is going well.

I agree you are quite lucky to have found someone like that. I don't quite have that kind of relationship with anyone at the club, but there is one that I would say given some more time could start to head that direction.
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DFreshPalace
7 years ago
Recovery is coming along but now it's time or almost time for throat surgery next month to remove cancer and open my airway better by inserting a balloon. That recovery is only 7-10 days but she's already said she is going to come by to make lunch and hang out. She's a very special person. I feel very lucky.
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san_jose_guy
7 years ago
I hope your recovery and future surgeries and treatment goes well. May good health come to you.

This is good, based on the work of Elisabeth Kubler Ross
https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Lifes-Hur…

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elisabeth_…

SJG

MLK
https://www.democracynow.org/2018/1/15/n…
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DFreshPalace
7 years ago
Thank you
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mjx01
7 years ago
"how important it was to me to get something for Christmas for her" = you realize you are totally her ATM, right?
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DFreshPalace
7 years ago
No comment
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san_jose_guy
7 years ago
mjx01, our OP seems to have some fairly personal and friendly relations with some girls. Nothing wrong about that.

SJG

David Cay Johnston on Griffter Trump:
https://www.democracynow.org/2018/1/18/d…
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DFreshPalace
7 years ago
Thank you SJG
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DFreshPalace
7 years ago
Thank you SJG
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rogertex
7 years ago
MDB ! surprise your special dancer with some humor.

While writing (or golfing or fishing) can soothe the mind and help with depression - laughter almost always destroys depression. YOLO and hence live it laughing.

Start with this corny old joke:
"Virginity is like a balloon.
One prick. And gone"

Tell her your friends at TUSCL suggested you lighten up and this is just a start.
Then ask her if she knows of any good, corny jokes. See where it goes and tell us here.

Enjoy!
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