Getting Attention From Girls At A Regulars Club

I have some experience visiting a few strip clubs that are known as regulars clubs (albeit not enough experience to be a regular myself). If you're not familiar with the term, when I say regulars club, I'm talking about clubs where the most popular girls seem to spend most of their time when not on stage sitting at tables with regular customers who they've gotten to know instead of working the room, trying to solicit dances from random patrons. Navigating the environment of a strip club can be a delicate dance, and regulars clubs add another element to navigate if you’re trying to get a dance from a particular girl who catches your eye. Here are some tips I've learned that you may be able to apply if you find yourself in a similar situation. Be Respectful It can be frustrating to be ignored by a girl whose attention you can’t seem to get. Don’t let that frustration manifest. Strippers are professionals who are there to perform and entertain, not to be harassed or treated disrespectfully. If you want a dance from a girl who’s not paying attention to you, you still want to be giving off a cool demeanor, not an annoyed one. Body Language Matters Pay attention to your body language. Are you smiling and having friendly interactions with other strippers or the wait staff? Try to make eye contact with the girl you’re interested in. You can let it linger longer than you would in pretty much any place that’s not a strip club. A few good non-verbal cues could help your girl realize that you want to spend some time (and money!) with her. Flash Some Cash You don’t have to go crazy, what I like to do is spend about $20 in singles, $2 or $3 at a time tipping at the rail. And not just with the girl you’d like a dance from. Girls will notice if you’re spending money. You don’t have to make it rain, but consistently tipping, and doing it with more than a single dollar sends the right message. But also, yes, definitely tip the girl you’d like a dance from when she’s on stage. A $5 with a quick, “hey I’d love a dance when you’re free!” can work wonders at coaxing a girl away from her typical table. (I’m in the Midwest, your dollar amounts could vary). Don’t Do A Drive-By I’ll admit, I’ve had a little too much liquid confidence and attempted to take the eye-contact suggestion to the next level. By making sure my route to the men’s room or the bar goes past the table where the girl has been camped out, I thought I could make some clear, unmistakable eye contact. Sadly, you have to be smoother than I am to pull this one off. In my experience she still doesn’t notice you or worse you come off as weird, over-assertive or desperate. And as they say, desperation is a stinky cologne. You're much better off reminding yourself to be patient, smile and to commit yourself to the tips above. Good luck out there!