Getting Attention From Girls At A Regulars Club
ZacMC333
Navigating the environment of a strip club can be a delicate dance, and regulars clubs add another element to navigate if you’re trying to get a dance from a particular girl who catches your eye. Here are some tips I've learned that you may be able to apply if you find yourself in a similar situation.
Be Respectful
It can be frustrating to be ignored by a girl whose attention you can’t seem to get. Don’t let that frustration manifest. Strippers are professionals who are there to perform and entertain, not to be harassed or treated disrespectfully. If you want a dance from a girl who’s not paying attention to you, you still want to be giving off a cool demeanor, not an annoyed one.
Body Language Matters
Pay attention to your body language. Are you smiling and having friendly interactions with other strippers or the wait staff? Try to make eye contact with the girl you’re interested in. You can let it linger longer than you would in pretty much any place that’s not a strip club. A few good non-verbal cues could help your girl realize that you want to spend some time (and money!) with her.
Flash Some Cash
You don’t have to go crazy, what I like to do is spend about $20 in singles, $2 or $3 at a time tipping at the rail. And not just with the girl you’d like a dance from. Girls will notice if you’re spending money. You don’t have to make it rain, but consistently tipping, and doing it with more than a single dollar sends the right message. But also, yes, definitely tip the girl you’d like a dance from when she’s on stage. A $5 with a quick, “hey I’d love a dance when you’re free!” can work wonders at coaxing a girl away from her typical table. (I’m in the Midwest, your dollar amounts could vary).
Don’t Do A Drive-By
I’ll admit, I’ve had a little too much liquid confidence and attempted to take the eye-contact suggestion to the next level. By making sure my route to the men’s room or the bar goes past the table where the girl has been camped out, I thought I could make some clear, unmistakable eye contact. Sadly, you have to be smoother than I am to pull this one off. In my experience she still doesn’t notice you or worse you come off as weird, over-assertive or desperate. And as they say, desperation is a stinky cologne. You're much better off reminding yourself to be patient, smile and to commit yourself to the tips above.
Good luck out there!
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It's okay to beg for pussy.
Its okay to pay for pussy.
BUT.....It is NOT okay to beg to pay for pussy.
If a simple smile and eye contact doesn't work, move on.
I think this is the best way to handle it. It lets the dancer know you’re interested and it’s relatively non-intrusive.
I would also advise against tipping every dancer at the rail. I rarely sit at the rail.
I usually sit away from the stage a comfortable ways. I typically have a preference for the young athletic hotties. In most of the high end clubs I've found $20 bill is a good tip to get a girls attention while they are on stage.
Unless a girl is just here to party with friends or drug dealers OR truly have a whale on the line that they are working... $20 works 90% of the time. Even a girl sitting with regulars will often excuse themselves to go make some money.
I would NEVER approach a girl sitting with a customer, that’s a party foul. Any girl sitting with me who gets solicited & says “I’ll be right back” won’t find me again. But I don’t tie them up long & I tell them when you’re ready to dance say so & we’ll go. It’s a mutual respect for each other’s time thing. Talk can be fun, but I’m there for action and I’m a steady income stream if they play it right, but not if they don’t. Somehow it works.
Afterwards, she told me “ Don’t you ever to do that again baby”. I just laughed and told her I didn’t want to wait around all night for seconds….lol. I was short, sweet and to the point. We still joke about it.
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This isn't always the case, there are girls who don't really realize that they're sequestering themselves into inaccessibility. They may want you to approach, they may feel bashful about it, they get super-rejected all night long and it sucks for them, it all depends on the situation and the girl. And at each particular club, what is expected or precluded differs. I recently posted a mild rant about girls who don't circulate (just a whine, really) and was rightly corrected, that I don't really have the right to demand that she do her job the way that I want her to do her job. But still, it sure would be nice to get her to do it the way that would get me into the back room with her, wouldn't it? :)
undesirable girls working the floor making the rounds. Just hold out and keep yourself available when/if she happens to decide to join you. It can be frustrating, but it is what it is, at least until we ourselves become “regulars”.
1. Wait for her to go on stage and tip her, make sure you tell her "would you like to do a dance for me after you are gone with your stage"? Not just "stop by". That way she knows money is coming for sure. I never tip a $20 (too reach for my blood). Normally $2 does the trick for me, maybe a $5 if I see the girl is really popular. Maybe say "I'd like to buy a few dances" so she knows you are planning to spend.
2. Is the doesn't go on stage, talk to the waitress. Tip the waitress a couple of bucks and tell her which dancer you are interested in. A waitress can stop by a dancer even if she's at a table with regulars and discreetly wisper in her ear.
3. Ask another dancer to get the dancer you want. This one is a bit touchy of course. You are essentially midly offending this dancer by saying "that chick is way hotter than you, that's who I'm spending money on". So be tactful of course. I say something like "I've been waiting for that girl for a while and have my mind set on her, any chance you could get her for me? Maybe we will play after" or something like that. It does work. Even if the "messenger" girl gets pissed at you, she will more often than not will to the other dancer (unless they are enemies). Many dancers are friendly with each other and will look out for each other. So this could work.
4. If nothing else works, try to walk to / from the restroom a few times, or walk around the club, and see if you catch the girl you want getting up and going to a bar or restroom or what not. It's your chance to approach her and ask for a dance. It's my least favorite/most desperate looking move and puts you at a complete disadvantage as far as negotiating prices and services goes. But I've done it a couple of times, and find it's better than not getting a dance from a chick you think is a perfect 10.
5. I never ever approach a girl sitting with regulars at their table. It's such a bad/low class move, and could start a fight, especially if the regulars are drunk enough. If none of the above moves work, I just give up on that one and hope to catch her another time and make her my regular.
6. If you do get dances from a hot chick that likes spending time with regulars, *get her phone number*. Most dancers will give you their phone number if you promise to only text about their work schedule and what not. I think maybe 1 out of 10 refuses to give her phone number. Then next time you see her in a company of the regulars, call her or text her. Tell her you are in the club, and ready to spend money. Much better than approaching her.
Good topic, hope that helps others.
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