Tipping

19 comments

• bang69

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  14 years ago

  I always tip the dancers. A good friend of mine is a dancer. She is sittn here with me & she is saying. I AGREE WITH YOU 100%
• georgmicrodong

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  14 years ago

  Girl, you picked the wrong board on which pound this particular drum. Let me explain. No, let me sum up. You want a tip? Do something somebody appreciates enough to tip for. While I agree that it's lame for somebody to come in and nurse a single drink all night and not tip anybody, don't expect guys to give up their hard earned cash to a bunch of girls doing nothing, especially after paying ridiculous cover charges and exorbitant drink prices. <p/>You think guys ought to be forced to tip to stay in the club? Well, I think girls ought to be force to get naked and rub their titties in every guys face to stay in the club. Mine is exactly as reasonable as yours, i.e. not at all.
• yankee428

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  14 years ago

  rocker_chyk, you're either full of crap or need to move. every dancer I've ever met makes tons of money. 1 in 10 is smart enough to save it.
• rb93720

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  14 years ago

  If they ain't doin jack, have a bad attitude or just sitting around why should the customer tip. Just like any other job earn the tip. When I go into a club I may sit with my drink and observe for at least 30 minutes to see who I like. I hate wasting money on a dancer who has "checked out" and gives a gap dance. [DJ announcement over the microphone]: "Okay Rudy [the manager], the freaky balding customer with the skin tight running shorts and sporting a huge boner just tipped Sparkle on stage 2. Cross him off the list, he can stay!"
• dw.buck

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  14 years ago

  rocker chyc i agree with gmd. and want to ask what are you doing to attract the men to give you money. i like to tip and i do like to sit and relieve the stress by chilling. however i have given many tips away to girls that have done nothing but take the money and hide in the back after their dance. we guys see all of this and see what the girls do when guys tip. so if i see a guy tip you on stage you run with the money to the back without giving him a titty facial rub, a grind, or seeing him afterwards for a thank you a hug or anything, i damn sure will not tip you next time around. and we guys do pick up on this when nobody is tipping the stripper we think something went wrong with her previously. what is your technique to meeting guys and starting the interaction. if you think guys will always come to you, your wrong. many times guys want to see all the girls and pick out their type to tip. many guys are picky and if they dont see one they want they will sit there or leave. make contact with them on the floor, walk up to them, hug em, grope em, get their attention. when on stage when someone tips grind em down, feel em up something guarenteed you will get more attention adn tips. try it and let me know how it works. see this post for additional tips from guys For the ladies edification...how do you guys LIKE to be approached by dancers? [view link]
• inno123

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  14 years ago

  If somebody is sitting at a strip club and not tipping the dancers and not buying any dances it is because of one thing. He has no money. Possibly he might have money and has something specific he is looking for, but if he doesn't find it soon enough he is going to leave. If he continues to stay there and not spend it is because he has no money. You may not like the fact that he has no money but he likely isn't pleased with it either. Grumble all you want, but ask yourself, how much chance was there that an empty chair was going to give you money? Because if mister broke wasn't there you would be dancing in front of an empty chair. He isn't costing you anything compared to the empty chair, and be bought the right to be there with the cover charge and drink.
• RocStarsky

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  14 years ago

  I am behind GMD on this one. Its hard to make it reasonable for both sides in the club.
• txtittyfan

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  14 years ago

  Your only review is for Christies in Phx, so I am assuming you dance in Phx. Phx clubs are lap dance factories. IME most girls make their money dancing in Phx. If you are not making money dancing in Phx, there is something wrong with you, not the customer. Phx dancers with the right attitude do very well.
• rickdugan

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  14 years ago

  <p>lol rocker, this would have played much better over at stripperweb or one of the other stripper sites. I am a fairly generous tipper now, but in my younger years I tipped less. If a girl wants to get tipped she needs to earn it. I am not a charity and I don't have to "buy" everything that is paraded by me. If I like a girl I tip her and if I do not, then sometimes I don't.<p> <p>If you want to make money, sell dances or give the guys a reason to tip you. Sorry to say it like this but in these times you will be hard pressed to get guys to cough up lots of $$$ simply because you pull your titties out - it takes a bit more now. If you don't have conversation and/or sales skills then maybe you should consider another line of work.<p>
• Prim0

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  14 years ago

  First off...I'll tip just about any girl on stage...I find it fun and it only cost a buck or two. That said, when dancers go shopping, do they always buy something? The sales people, designers, stock boys, etc are working hard to provide you with products, how dare you walk around the store and not buy something!
• 10inches

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  14 years ago

  what bugs me about tips is that every dancer thinks she deserves a tip just because she took her clothes off. i tip only the dancers who look good and actually do something while on stage. just because you show my the goodies does not mandate a tip. earn it by looking good and working for the $$$.
• samsung1

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  14 years ago

  What bugs me is when the DJ does not shut up and after every song says "make sure you guys go up and tip the ladies they are working off your tips and your tips alone" I would just love to tell the DJ to shut the fuck up and I will tip whoever I want to tip.
• mmdv26

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  14 years ago

  At most clubs, the guys are sitting around the stage and the dancer moves around the edge of the stage showing her goodies to the guys who ARE tipping. The guys who are NOT tipping don't get much attention - except from that dumbass new girl who thinks she has to show it to everybody!
• sauternes

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  14 years ago

  My main goal when clubbing is to spend $$$ on dancers I like. Research begins at the main stage, so I usually end up there. Of course I will always tip any dancer who stops by and performs. I am amazed by some dancers who appeal to me but don't bother, and I think "you just lost $500" in VIP dances etc. My ATF told me sometimes for various reasons they just don't care. Oh well, the $$ still disappear, just wish the dancer that makes the night great wasn't too frequently the last one I could afford to see during that visit!
• farmerart

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  14 years ago

  rocker_chyk: You have balls posting this on tuscl. We are guys seeking the highest mileage possible for the least expenditure. That said, if you have the physical goods, entrancing moves, and reasonable SS, you will have no trouble separating us from our cash. I automatically tip a stage dance $5 if it is a solo. I used to tip the dollar parade but now - never. After that initial tip the dancer must earn whatever next comes from my pocket. Rules change when I am drunk, however!!
• bumrubber

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  14 years ago

  I budget for stage tips for every girl who spends time with me, as long as she's not annoying. I also think it's rude to sit there all night without tipping. Even if it's just $1, that little acknowledgment is important. Most girls appreciate it at least a little. SoCal clubs are weird in that people rarely sit by the stage, even when the room is otherwise full. The implied obligation to tip is one thing, but I think people are more afraid of showing too much interest, and then having that girl hound them for a dance the rest of the night.
• MisterGuy

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  14 years ago

  Tipping is always optional. Tips are earned, not guaranteed.
• snuff_me_out

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  14 years ago

  I go to nude clubs. I expect puss to be on dispplay and the girl to put on a show. I'll tip if she does something worthwhile or directed at me, but for just dancing that is a no go. I will generally buy a dance or two though, so I figure my 1-2 hours spent there is made up with that.
• SometimeVoyager

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  14 years ago

  If I'm sitting at the rail I will usually tip every dancer at least a buck each song, more if I want their attention, and less only if they have no business taking their clothes off in public. I think it's an obligation if you're stage side and I try to set an example for the other patrons. If I'm not sitting at the rail I sit well back from the stage because I hate the guys who sit up close watching on my dime. But even sitting back I still try to tip every dancer at least once.<p>One issue I have is the dancers who wait until they are tipped a certain amount before they start to undress on stage. In my experience the tips will not begin to flow until you peel off the undies, so the sooner you get naked the sooner you get paid.<p>Also, the stage is more than just an opportunity to make thirty bucks one dollar at a time, it's a dancer's chance to show the crowd what a sexy, naughty girl she is. When I see a dancer holding out on stage, I assume she'll hold out in private as well. I never, EVER buy from a girl who holds out on stage.<p>So ladies, get naked and nasty on stage even if the guys are being stiffs, it will come back to you many times over from that one guy who's looking for a good time. And guys, a buck a song is just $15-$20 an hour, so put a crowbar in your wallet and pony up. I can't carry your cheap asses all by myself!