Comments by FoCoChronic (page 2)

Yes, different rates for different clubs. I live equidistant from Cheyenne and Denver, and suffice it to say, Cheyenne is much more affordable. However, my Cheyenne club has a standard rate of $300/hr, but then $700 for the whole night. Seems like a strange sliding scale, but don’t tell them that. It’s a no brainer to stretch the value of your dollar that much, if you have $700+ burning a hole in your pocket and have a dancer you really like. I agree, you can have a good time with $200, but I like getting a little toasty, sitting at the stage(s) and spending a little time with the ladies to see how we gel. If I’m there for a specific dancer, i.e. we have ITC planned, I will be spending just on her and my/our drinks, and I want the most LDs/VIP possible. Then my approach is like yours

I just feel gross about straight up saying “I want to fuck” or “let’s get a hotel” and “are you interested in meeting up outside of the club” could be interpreted in a few different ways

I tip in $2, $3 or $4 increments at the stage. By the time a dancer’s (typically 3 song) set is finished, she’ll have minimum $10 from me. I like to place $4 when I first sit down or when a new gal comes to the stage to let them know I’m there, I want attention and I’ve got something to spend. If there’s something about her that does it for me, l’ll keep paying out. I love it when a dancer gives me permission to snap her thong, so I’ll hold a couple singles and ask her if I can please put them in her g-string. If she lifts it up herself, I’ll only tip her the one time. If she moves her ass to me and signals that I can do the snapping, I’ll even her out and tip the other side. If a dancer approaches me and engages in some decent conversation, I’ll tip her 5 or 10 bucks, depending. If she sits and has a drink with me or plays pool with me, basically anything over 10 minutes, I’ll fork over a 20. Depending on how much I like a dancer and if I think it’ll get me better mileage, I’ll buy her a shot and a beer. Or whatever floats her boat, I just enjoy being under the influence with somebody because you’re both operating in a similar manner. I’ve never tipped for a LD or VIP, I figure I’m already spending in the triple digits and there was already a discussion about a specific service for a specific payment. Tipping more does not guarantee more action; she will typically do the minimum amount possible to get paid. If a dancer explicitly says, “extras are $X”, then I will tip that amount. Otherwise, I think it’s pointless. Do you find that to not be the case? 2 really great points: talk with your dancer *before* taking her to VIP and come to the club with minimum $400. I’ll get a regular ol LD first to feel her out, figuratively and literally, then decide if VIP is worth it. I have a lot of success with lines like, “I want to be respectful of your boundaries and I want you to have fun too, so what are we allowed to do?” Dancers tend to be very responsive and enthusiastic when you treat them like human beings. Which should go without saying, but they still deal with fucktards all day long and your manners will make you stand out as a customer they prefer to be with. Also, $400 should get you as drunk as you want, get a dancer drunk, if you’re both into that, give you plenty of tipping money for the floor & stage(s) and have 1 or 2 hundred left over for some LDs after you find a lady you like. If you want VIP, bring more than $400. I’ve been quoted anywhere from $150-$350 for 30min of VIP, $300-$500+ for an hour and a mere $700 for the whole night (5+ hours). Politely ask how VIP is different from the LD. Keep an open dialogue about boundaries and see if you or she can get away with doing more and make sure she’s still comfortable with what you’re doing. IME, dancers appreciate it and perform more enthusiastically when there’s ongoing consent. And it makes me feel like less of a creep. I’m in a good mood when my dancer is in a good mood. Everybody wins! Nelly, you make some excellent points too. I always find my CFs when I go earlier at slower times. It’s much easier to get approached, do the approaching and build rapport. I’ve never specifically gone at the end of the month, but that seems like sound logic, I’ll hafta try it out

Obviously mutual touch is the best, what I’m asking is, in which direction do you like it more? Like funonthaside said, I get hornier when I touch her

You guys calling her mid are delusional and have internet brain. Go talk to some civilian women

I believe the tits, hips & ass are all fake. No way, José

I like that she’s cleaning

@rickmacrodong I get your train of thought. I have a dancer’s # who allows FIV and basically asked me to do it. How do I ask about OTC without seeming like a total fucking creep? Just a normal creep will suffice

Isn’t that AI

Yeah, I’m usually perfectly happy without extras. Some of these women are just really good at making you feel good, you have to talk to them and find out if you vibe. You won’t find a dancer who does it for you by watching other dudes, but I understand the logic. What works for me may not work for you

You said that in another review lol do yourself and these ladies’ bank accounts a favor and visit sometime

Yeah, full body massage with a happy ending. Different providers have different things they will and won’t do. YMMV. One has given me a titty job while the other doesn’t do that. And she lets me put my hands all over her, while the titty girl doesn’t. A good massage provider will go nice and slow and milk you so you’re not premature. Politely ask her if she will do this. Like, the goal of the flip is for you to be gooning uncontrollably. My massage ladies haven’t used their mouths, so good for you

This lady I found was a total doll and charges $100 for 30min. Most other providers I've seen advertise charge much more. So my session was $400 and worth every penny. I even tipped her an extra $40. Very sweet gal, great massage, amazing flip and she let me have my way with mutual contact, as long as there was no kitty. She doesn't do nuru, extras or have a menu, she does her own thing, but I found it very comprehensive. I've only cum that hard once or twice before in my life. And yes, she was fully naked, eventually. I asked her to start in fishnets. I wouldn't feel comfortable DATY with an escort, I don't know where that thing's been. I don't know where anyone's has been, but I have to like a woman some to feel that her coochie is safe. Not enough time with an escort to tell if I like her. The one time I did get an escort, she did BBBJ and she was obviously a pro. We did LFK, but again, I need a certain level of comfortability when someone else's juices go in my face and that can't be quantified or qualified. I either feel it with a working gal or I don't

Isn’t the original that that’s ripping of off, Jesus? With the halo and holding the Bible? That exact mural is at The Hagia Sophia in Istanbul, I’ve seen it 🤣

@mrsuntan Just curious, you can obviously do whatever you want, but do you care to have any kind of rapport? Or do you want a woman to just get nasty right away? I prefer to chat a little bit, but that’s just me

What is with some of you fuckers here

@stripperlover777 I’ve seen you on a few threads and I’m genuinely concerned for your mental health. Are you okay

I like the anticipation and more time means more rapport can be built. I’m pretty shy and like a certain level of comfortability with my professionals. I prefer them to escorts for the same reason, the massage acclimates me and it feels less like I’m with a complete stranger. Plus, I’m getting pampered more with 2 hours. She also looks like a stripper/porn star, and advertises that she’ll dress up like one (heels, stockings, socks, fishnets, lingerie, etc.), heavily tattooed with tig ol fake bitties. I don’t like the look on civilians, but on working gals, it fulfills a fantasy

You are definitely not referring to The Den

#3, obviously. I like it when I feel a dancer is laying claim to me or is willing to just hang out. Like booty_lover said, it extends the fantasy. One time, I took a little break from the VIP to get me and my dancer a drink. I was stopped at the bar by another stripper and we were chatting a bit while I was in line. My gal came up from behind me, threw her arms around me and nuzzled my neck. I close my eyes, lean my head back into hers and when I return my focus to the bar, the other chick has her back turned to me. She got told to step the fuck off. I know she’s only laying claim to my wallet, but I appreciated the gesture. It’s the little things

You say no to ratchet pussy, Juicy J cain’t

“When a girl feels she may not have enough customers, she will call the day/afternoon that she wants your money.” I agree, good sales tactic, unless you hate phone calls. It sounds like she’s trying to add a sweet touch to get you to come in and spend. I’m sure she calls all the boys. It sets her apart. But if you want to have fun with her, go get ‘em, tiger

“Not sure what the hygiene is in between customers for dancers. But I'd want to be the first of the day.” Get her number and plan a time to either show up right when her shift starts, or to buy her time for the whole night and to spend it with only you. “If anyone thinks they're not getting sloppy seconds, they're nuttier than squirrel shits.” I disagree I wonder what other customers would think if they watch me 🤣 I tend to be smiling

I’m not sure if this lady has notoriously bad stripper texting or is being evasive, but I’m about ready to go to her club and pay other dancers’ bills without telling her I’m coming in

K, what I mean by this is to stop being shy. Step my game up = be more confident. Say what I want. I’m too shy to even “play games”, I’m just too quiet and polite for my own good