Do You Prefer Being Touched or Doing the Touching?
FoCoChronic
If she calls me a good boy, I will pay her bills
Exactly what the title asks. I’ve recently discovered how important it is for me that a good LD include me touching the dancer. Recently, I’ve had a couple ladies give me full reign with my hands and that was even more enjoyable than them touching me. What do y’all think?
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One or the other? Let her do the work, but mutual works the best. For better or worse I'm not in my 20's anymore and I respond better when she's into it lol. Those were days when my body (brain?) didn't care if the girl was turned on.
They really go hand in hand. However, I do seem to experience an elevated level of arousal when I'm touched her.
I really like getting women off, and there’s a better chance of accomplishing that with my hands and tongue, and with repetition, than with PIV, although that’s the ultimate payoff
If she gets too handsy, I’m liable to blow before I get that PIV payoff, so I try to keep her distracted. And BJs just don’t do it for me.
So my preferred sequence is making out, followed by some titty sucking and FIV, then DATY, and then either cowgirl or mish, during which I’m still sucking tits or face. After that, stamina permitting, it’s Ladies’ Choice
So I'll say 2 way and, failing that, let me at least grab some T&A!
But I'd rather have a good dance with mutual touching, kissing, etc, over a forgettable or mechanical BJ/FS.
Though the best ones are
YES, and YES 👍
So im usually not looking to get off during lapdances, so I prefer doing the touching.
Never had a LD where I touched the dancer but she was not touching me (at least via grinding) but I don’t think I’d like that much either.
Dances where I touch and she grinds but doesn’t stick shift are enjoyable so I guess that puts me more on the side where I want to be doing the touching.
But really the best LDs are a two way street where both sides are touching* and the dancer seems like she is into it. I know she may not really be into it but as long as she acts convincing I can believe the fantasy.
*what I mean by touching here is tits/ass from me, but not necessarily kitty, and outside the pants stick shifting from her.
Actually had a private that turned me on less (same girl) than two $10 dances with her previously