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2 years ago
Daily grind, next time I go ill have to ask if she’s willing to do a constant grind. The thing is I’m a bit turned off to even go as I feel I was screwed over with previous dances.
Maybe this should be a separate thread but this dancer has rules like touching right above the pussy is allowed but fingering isn’t, apparently because its disease risk but i suspect it could be a boundary. I also suspect the dancer has a boundary of never saying flirty shit over text, only inside the club. Or maybe her texts are monitored.
Garfield it’s in the DMV area. But it’s just one dancer, there’s been another dancer who does do the stick shifting shit. The problem is I didn’t really care about nutting in those previous dances. But now that I think of what happened , I think this dancer has all kinds of boundaries. She apparently used to do outside the club dances before having her baby. It’s crazy to me to have a no flirting over text rule, as even if it’s a boundary of some sort you could justify it by saying you’re working from home or working remotely.
Some of those boundaries make me think stripping may not be the right career for her and I wonder if she’s able to maintain any regulars. It seems like she doesn’t want to get turned on too much during dances either.
The dancer actively encouraged me to not see any escorts or pornstar escorts either. She seemed to not want me to not see other women so I could keep coming back for her nonsense low mileage dances. I really don’t remember every detail of the dances but I feel like she would actually avoid grinding on the dick as soon as it got hard. And she never did any sort of outside the pants stick play.
She told me she previously did OTC but it was only dances in a hotel room, no sex.
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Icee if it takes someone months to fuck a stripper for money doesn’t that mean not just anybody with money can do it and you need more than money
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2 years ago
How often do strippers make $1000 in a shift? That would be a very Good Friday or saturday no? On average they may make $300-$500 those nights? A weeknight average even less...?
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2 years ago
Desertscrub, “good pussy” is not $1000... that is what pornstars and instagram models with millions of followers/fans charge...
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2 years ago
^?
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2 years ago
OP, dont pay up front. Check eros and tryst listings in your area. 1k an hour is what extremely hot escorts, pornstars and former pornstars and playboy models charge. You said she’s hot but is she as hot as those kinds of girls. Also if shes doing overnight somewhere around what she could make stripping that night is a fair amount so around $500 tops. If it’s just for one hour it should be $300 tops...
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2 years ago
Ishmael the thread being otc related doesnt mean its related to me. You’ve got to improve your morals when it comes to things, you engage in defamation on the regular and on one thread you were telling someone you hoped they were run over or something.
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2 years ago
SJG do you mean something kind of like being a sugar daddy? You’re giving her money, shes giving you sex, but they aren’t directly being traded for? Its more like you’re helping her with bills for free and she gives you sex for free?
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2 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Icee not everyone is braindead especially some of the wealthier older people. When nba says stuff like BLM that is by definition hypocrisy and doesnt need to he explained if you think critically about it. And when nba players complain about minorities being under represented in certain fields like the finance or tecu industry or college admissions and then support affirmative action policies that is also hypocritical becuase if they truly believed in affirmative action that would mean they support the nba and nfl being 65% white, 13% black, 1% asian etc.
i think i mentioned this before to you and ninabambina and your answer or her answer was that it takes skill to be a pro athlete and they worked for it so affirmative action shouldnt apply. When I mentioned harvard admissions and finance tech jobs also require skill and people worked hard for them there was no answer. Its just disingenous to say affirmative action should apply in some fields and areas but not others.
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2 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I jusr read through the thread, this is laughable, as usual icee found a moral problem now with shops selling window tint
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2 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Dolfan the biggest issue with those annual vehicle inspections is giving mechanic shops the ability to decide on pass or fail. It brings out the absolute worst in society, with all these subhuman mechanics refusing to pass you unless you get a few hundred dollars of work done or more. You can often take the car to three different shops and each shop will find something new and different you supposedly need to repair. Some inspectors will literally pass your inspection if you pay them $20 or $40 lol. It’s laughable.
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2 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Icee how did you spell unethical as 7nethical or is there another meaning to that
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2 years ago
Some people say you need to get many dances before otc starts
Some say you need to approach it a certain way so they don’t feel like whores
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2 years ago
George do you ask right after the first dance, and continue buying dances after that even if they say no?
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2 years ago
Skibum there is no natural smell or good smell that comes close to high end perfumes. Creed aventus, other creeds, amouage, sauvage, chanel, theres no way to match these scents
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2 years ago
CMI they don’t want to feel like whores... some dancers may be straight up with it but there are many who don’t like the stigma of being a whore so it has to be asked in a different way. Rickdugan or someone heavily experienced with otc might have some input on how to properly ask
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2 years ago
Drewcarey “Bargaining for Dances - low balling dancers, or any service worker, is tasteless. Pay them what they want to be paid, or find another dancer/landscaper/carpenter/mechanic. That said, there is a zone of reasonable and brief negotiation when a dancer quotes a number that you know to be very high. There’s nothing wrong with giving her the opportunity to come back down to earth.”
The thing is many clubs have a club fee, and there is a buying in bulk concept. If you’re buying otc or buying dances outside the club from a dancer, you can offer lower, or receive more time for the same amount of money relative to the club.
If you’re a regular who’s gotten many dances or will be planning on regularly getting otc or dances from a dancer, then you should also be offered a lower rate per hour relative to a first time customer inside the club. Hence why escorts offer lower rates the more hours you buy or anything you buy is cheaper in bulk
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2 years ago
Pussylicker, excellent name and good responses to the article. What kind of scenarios involved customers being blackmailed by the strippers pimps? What happened with the blackmail?
How often do strippers have pimps...? Do you mean even strippers who don’t do extras or offer otc, still have pimps. Why would they need pimps
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2 years ago
Rick debunked all the nonsense points made in that article
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2 years ago
Icee, the dance literally is you groping her ass and boobs. You cant have a customer pay for a dance then say they need consent to touch your boobs or ass. If you change your mind on the customer groping you then you should refund them. That’s laughable to say consent is needed to grope when someone paid for a lapdance
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2 years ago
Icee, they ask for a tip when the trick is cheap is laughable! Completely opposite to the reality of things
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2 years ago
Icee, why should vip be paid in advance? Youve talked about customers wanting cheap hookers and such, but you seem to think its okay for dancers to scam customers.
Skibum is somewhat right, as a single PL i love perfume, and if i had a SO I wouldn’t want perfume, but maybe the SO would know about the strip club
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2 years ago
If the dancer doesnt do what was agreed on you got scammed. And you likely wouldn’t be able to get your money back if you already paid.
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2 years ago
It seems like its the dancers in LTRs who more often have an issue with touching the pussy. It would be better to discuss what you can and can’t do before the dance. If you paid for the dance and agreed on things that the danc
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2 years ago
Why not an open relationship on both sides? Why only for her.
Icee what do you mean by emotional intimacy and monogamy? Is that literally what people do as a coping mechanism if they’re in a relationship with a stripper, escort, pornstar etc...? Just pretend to maintain “emotional monogamy”?