Dancers who avoid grinding on boners?

16 comments

• Garfield84

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  2 years ago

  Hmmm… what city are you experiencing this?? In Atlanta & SoFlo it’s heavy stick shifting
• NJBalla

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  2 years ago

  I like to think that BTE is secretly writing a Strip Club 101 website or blog. He's some 20 year old kid in thailand about to cash in on the comments of everyone.
• Jascoi

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  2 years ago

  BTE. that's no fun.
• psycho_trick

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  2 years ago

  Ask if she's good with a constant hard grind beforehand. I expect 1% of the royalties for that answer.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Daily grind, next time I go ill have to ask if she’s willing to do a constant grind. The thing is I’m a bit turned off to even go as I feel I was screwed over with previous dances. Maybe this should be a separate thread but this dancer has rules like touching right above the pussy is allowed but fingering isn’t, apparently because its disease risk but i suspect it could be a boundary. I also suspect the dancer has a boundary of never saying flirty shit over text, only inside the club. Or maybe her texts are monitored. Garfield it’s in the DMV area. But it’s just one dancer, there’s been another dancer who does do the stick shifting shit. The problem is I didn’t really care about nutting in those previous dances. But now that I think of what happened , I think this dancer has all kinds of boundaries. She apparently used to do outside the club dances before having her baby. It’s crazy to me to have a no flirting over text rule, as even if it’s a boundary of some sort you could justify it by saying you’re working from home or working remotely. Some of those boundaries make me think stripping may not be the right career for her and I wonder if she’s able to maintain any regulars. It seems like she doesn’t want to get turned on too much during dances either. The dancer actively encouraged me to not see any escorts or pornstar escorts either. She seemed to not want me to not see other women so I could keep coming back for her nonsense low mileage dances. I really don’t remember every detail of the dances but I feel like she would actually avoid grinding on the dick as soon as it got hard. And she never did any sort of outside the pants stick play. She told me she previously did OTC but it was only dances in a hotel room, no sex.
• MackTruck

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  2 years ago

  You got problems
• CJKent_band

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  2 years ago

  Public Service Announcement (PSA) BigThirdEye is just cacaplop trying to swamp these forums with repetitive, stupid questions, either via his own threads or crashing other threads. But, as always, take a look at his posting history and judge for yourself. If engaging with his inane posts is fun for you, then go for it. Otherwise, don't think you're answering sincere questions. ~ [view link].Ishmael ~ April 29, 2022 “In this world, shipmates, sin that pays its way can travel freely, and without a passport; whereas Virtue, if a pauper, is stopped at all frontiers." ~Father Mapple via Herman Melville's "Moby Dick".
• BubbleYum

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  2 years ago

  What the fuck is up with all of your common sense and invasive questions? Are you writing a book or something? Also, you seem obsessive af. Maybe just stay away from the dancer you postethis about (if she actually even exists). Respecting boundaries isn't that fucking difficult, dude. No need to write a post complaining and whining over her not wanting to be fingered. Seek therapy.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Of course respecting boundaries isn’t difficult, but nobody has to buy dances from someone with too many boundaries either. Nothing was invasive, and this post had nothing to do with fingering. It’s more like, I was pretty careless with what happened during the dances, and now when I think back to it I think there was stuff going on that was too much of a boundary for me. It’s not even that I got dances with the person, but more so that I cant believe i would in any way affiliate with someone with those kinds of boundaries. I think the person in need of therapy is the person who’s so strict with boundaries they’re a stripper but can’t flirt over text with customers, or have a hard time grinding on customers but want to continue with the same career. Additionally, anybody getting angry over the fact of said boundary being absolute insanity for a stripper, is also in need of therapy. there are certain boundaries that if you have them, stripping may not be the right job for you. Im not talking about fingering. Not wanting to grind on men with boners, or wanting to flirt with customers only inside of the club, are the sorts of things that can be troublesome. Some dancers also feel guilty if they start liking clients. If you’re crazy and flirty and horny in the club, but over text act super professional and brief, that will throw off the fantasy you’re trying to sell. It’s not a smart move to do that with regulars or people you want to turn into regulars. It means you either have a boundary issue going on, or your texts are being tracked by a SO or a mix of both. If it’s a SO problem you could explain it to the client, but many dancers don’t want to admit to having a SO either. Escorts and pornstars imo are far superior to dancers. Better looks, less drama, less fakeness, more honesty.
• Champphilly

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  2 years ago

  BTE, the guys troll you are cheap extras club addicts. Ignore them
• Cashman1234

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  2 years ago

  This makes it even more obvious the OP is a teen boy posting. Who uses the word boner as an adult? The next discussion will be whether it’s acceptable to wear Spider-Man Underoos to a strip club and ask if a dancer will allow him to shoot his Spidey string on her tits…
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Thatxguy poor morals on your part spreading nonsense and lies. Looks like one of us is superior. Cashman comon... this is a big problem in the industry. People should avoid dancers who don’t grind on boners.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Cashman what word was I supposed to use in place of boner?
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Cashman the more i think of it I dont see why someone would pick a stripper over an escort unless she’s significantly cheaper or much hotter. I doubt the hotter part. And I don’t see how $400+ for a lapdance is justifiable. With an escort or pornstar you can do whatever you want. $400 can get you a very hot escort.
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  BTE, I would not worry about girls that don't want to grind on you. Maybe they don't want you to ejaculate. But really, better if you don't learn to seek that. Buying Dances is a Chump's Game. Look to which girl you want and to how you want to act upon her. SJG
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  SJG i agree, its not good to continuously buy dances. What about buying sex though? I do like the escorts and pornstars, and IMO they’re smarter than the strippers especially when they can command $400, $600, or even $1000+ for an hour. The transaction with an escort is much more honest and straightforward than any other arrangement i can think of, even marriage.