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2 years ago
SJG i have too much expensive stuff at home to let anybody in for a sleepover. Not civvie girls, not most friends either
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2 years ago
Sjg what do you mean “E side types”.
Its best for sex workers to be INTJ?
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2 years ago
Icee imo if the regulars are looking for sex but only getting dances, they likely won’t be regulars for long, they would just be getting dances until they find something or someone better. The regulars who keep coming back for just dances, likely have serious problems or are extremely fearful of using an escort or something.
Icee i dont think there is any getting upset over her not being a cheap hooker. The hustling as you describe is it just human nature. Everyone wants the best value for the best price. And i guess similar to how guys would be excited getting a super hot girl for super cheap, so too would dancers get excited getting a lot of money for very minimal work. But it depends how you approach things. If the dancer intentionally does things like laying on a guys stomach or not grinding on the dick, that may not be a good way to maintain a regular. It might be a good hustle, but it won’t maintain a regular.
Doing stuff like promising sex and not delivering, is no longer a hustle but just a finesse or scam. That would make you not only lose potential regulars but you could even lose other customers who find out about it. Of course as people mentioned the big tourist cities are more likel to have dancers finessing as they can get away with it much easier.
Finessing crosses the line to where its immoral and not honorable.
How do you deduce a guy deserves to be finessed? Nobody deserves to be finessed, not even murderers. If some guy is some crazy killer it doesn’t mean he deserves to be robbed for someones personal gain. And if someone is a robber it means they deserve to be robbed but their money is supposed to be returned back to whoever they robbed.
So I doubt there are customers who actually deserve to be scammed as you claim.
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2 years ago
Icee i didnt know nicespixe and shailynn have multiple profiles.
And icee i have a DM from you telling me the hustle for strippers is doing the least work for the most money. Now you’re posting on here saying strippers dont finesse or hustle they just sell a fantasy. Lol.
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2 years ago
Doc savage what myers briggs type is good for stripping? Also what do you think of the INTJ personality type?
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2 years ago
Icee you can’t use the excuse “they use words” and its up to the customer to assume theyre lying. Them using those words is still a scam. So if a dancer promises something then doesnt follow through its called a scam or finesse.
And the concept of hustling, like doing the least work for the most money, or getting the most work for the least amount of money exists on both sides but it doesn’t help retain customers. And if a customer pushes too hard it won’t work either like most likely a dancer won’t suck someone off for $50.
Dolfan thats a good point
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2 years ago
You can sell whatever you want,
Im talking about hustling and finessing which aren’t simply selling a fantasy. You’re twisting my words
If they were just selling a fantasy there wouldn’t be any hustling or finessing...
And no I haven’t initiated otc or done anything
Whats misogynistic. Saying escorts are superior to scammers?
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2 years ago
Escorts are morally superior to strippers by lightyears, and honestly morally superior to many civvie women. It’s sad they’re considered low level yet they have more morals than so called higher status women. There’s no finessing or hustling at least not to the extent strippers do it.
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2 years ago
Icee im not talking about fake niceness or them working or customer service im talking about things like finessing and hustling which are evil. Also hustling isnt good customer service it’s literally intentionally giving as bad customer service as possible while still trying to maintain a customer. Finessing is straight up scamming like saying youll do xyz and doing none of it. Hustling is a good way to not maintain regulars.
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2 years ago
Desertscrub, good posts, good jokes. I can see why youre one of the most renowned on here
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2 years ago
NiBalla, interesting
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2 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
ICee you know those are middle aged men right. Cashman is one of the most respected users on the site. When an older man insults you youre not supposed to argue back you’re supposed to accept it. And cashman despite being middle aged can walk into any strip club in the country and fuck any stripper he wants
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2 years ago
SJG i agree, its not good to continuously buy dances. What about buying sex though? I do like the escorts and pornstars, and IMO they’re smarter than the strippers especially when they can command $400, $600, or even $1000+ for an hour. The transaction with an escort is much more honest and straightforward than any other arrangement i can think of, even marriage.
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2 years ago
Excellent post SJG
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2 years ago
Whats the olive garden joke?
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2 years ago
Twentyfive what do you mean?
Look at some of the famous nba players and rappers, these guys are often paying instagram models 1-2k to spend time with them and for sex. Why do that when they could easily get free sex? Is it mostly to save on time investment of searching and arranging the free sex.
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2 years ago
Cashman the more i think of it I dont see why someone would pick a stripper over an escort unless she’s significantly cheaper or much hotter. I doubt the hotter part. And I don’t see how $400+ for a lapdance is justifiable. With an escort or pornstar you can do whatever you want. $400 can get you a very hot escort.
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2 years ago
Cashman what word was I supposed to use in place of boner?
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2 years ago
Thatxguy poor morals on your part spreading nonsense and lies. Looks like one of us is superior.
Cashman comon... this is a big problem in the industry. People should avoid dancers who don’t grind on boners.
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2 years ago
The amazon fedex ups jobs pay just $15 an hour?
Icee so onlyfans only keeps 10%?
George what kind of rates were you paying for them and which state are you in
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2 years ago
Papi why do the celebrities, athletes, and very rich men go for strippers, or instagram model escorts or pornstars? There is something to it, these guys could easily literally go anywhere in the country and have thousands of fan girls begging to sleep with them, yet for some reason they seem to prefer strip clubs and escorts. Is it just trying to avoid drama? They could likely get civvie girls for free who are just as hot or hotter than the pornstars or escorts
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2 years ago
Papi chulo the strippers liking customers seems especially possible with the younger guys, and if theyre attracted to each other. If you’re asking girls on dates and paying for them thats a waste of money that would be better spent on a stripper or escort. Most guys if they want multiple women seem to have to lie and cheat on the girls theyre dating. The strip club saves a lot of time.
But of course this assumes you eventually get into otc with the stripper, within a few weeks. If youre not doing otc with her ans only getting lapdances, that’s also a waste of money.
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2 years ago
Liwet you could do the same at bars, clubs, restaurant waitesses etc but it just has to be approached in a more subtle way. Not everyone has the confidence or desire to be a stripper as a job, but plenty of people are open to under the radar p4p. Especially younger college girls who aren’t from rich families etc
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2 years ago
Icee, isnt onlyfans quite difficult to make good money off of? For onlyfans and pornhub the problems I see are your face will be there on the internet probably forever, in sexual positions. The other thing is those things I’m assuming would take a long time to build up a client base. Onlyfans you can only make like $10 a month per subscriber right?
9 to 5s work but especially considering even restaurants were shut down, what kind of 9 to 5s were they doing? Grocery/retail stores or fast food?
With escorting you can basically post on a couple escort sites, jump right into it and immediately start pulling in $300+ a day of tax free dollars. The earning potential for an attractive escort seems insane.
With the ones you know Icee, were their morals that high that they refused to escort despite the potential to easily make 100k+ a year tax free? Or am I over exaggerating how easy it is for an attractive woman to make 100k+ a year off escorting?
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2 years ago
Of course respecting boundaries isn’t difficult, but nobody has to buy dances from someone with too many boundaries either.
Nothing was invasive, and this post had nothing to do with fingering.
It’s more like, I was pretty careless with what happened during the dances, and now when I think back to it I think there was stuff going on that was too much of a boundary for me. It’s not even that I got dances with the person, but more so that I cant believe i would in any way affiliate with someone with those kinds of boundaries.
I think the person in need of therapy is the person who’s so strict with boundaries they’re a stripper but can’t flirt over text with customers, or have a hard time grinding on customers but want to continue with the same career.
Additionally, anybody getting angry over the fact of said boundary being absolute insanity for a stripper, is also in need of therapy.
there are certain boundaries that if you have them, stripping may not be the right job for you. Im not talking about fingering. Not wanting to grind on men with boners, or wanting to flirt with customers only inside of the club, are the sorts of things that can be troublesome. Some dancers also feel guilty if they start liking clients.
If you’re crazy and flirty and horny in the club, but over text act super professional and brief, that will throw off the fantasy you’re trying to sell. It’s not a smart move to do that with regulars or people you want to turn into regulars.
It means you either have a boundary issue going on, or your texts are being tracked by a SO or a mix of both. If it’s a SO problem you could explain it to the client, but many dancers don’t want to admit to having a SO either.
Escorts and pornstars imo are far superior to dancers. Better looks, less drama, less fakeness, more honesty.