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3 years ago
Fuck. Hit post when I was trying to scroll. Founder, these spaces are too small on mobile.
But that was a stab at you, Ishmael. This is a spin off of a discussion another girl created.
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3 years ago
" this probably isn't the best website to look for a critical mass of guys with good manners"
As evidenced within this thread.
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3 years ago
^true love.
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3 years ago
I put it in quotes because I some. Might not call it a date. I heard these outings called dates, appointments, engagements, meeting up, etc.
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3 years ago
Rachel no longer dances. She's a house mom, but I'm not saying where to respect her privacy.
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3 years ago
I work with girls who have actually taken advantage of customers and took over control of "dates" like that. It's actually kind of shitty because they brag about it and encourage others to do it. And then they'd be shocked and call you cheap when you refuse to pay them what you both agreed on later that night or the next day.
Anyway, establish ground rules before meeting. "I have x to spend on dinner and the rest of the night. Whatever is left of that after dinner is yours to keep." If she wants money, she'd be a lot more cautious. And go during a happy hour if possible.
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3 years ago
"I will be ur boyfriend if u email me a pic of u completely naked deal"
😂😂😂😂 Gtfo. And your replies are perfect.
I went to bed about three hours ago and the same person who asked me about selling videos has sent me a whole four messages since (two just now as I'm writing this). He's beyond annoying and I'm about to go block him.
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3 years ago
"I find it funny when a dancer posts here with one user name - and then lists her clubs and stage names - it’s great!"
God damn it. Me 100%. 😂 But I need to take one of clubs off of my profile.
Also, Property? Seriously? What was her tag line? "Come buy your share of Property"?
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3 years ago
"So why are you here? It seems that you are here to promote your “brand”, and you are succeeding in getting a lot of attention."
I'm sorry your butt hurt over me sharing things I find disrespectful, etc. I find your response equally as such. Are you someone who has messaged another person like this?
I'm here because 1. I want to be and I do whatever I want and 2. Because I simply just can. I owe you or anybody else here any explanation for anything I choose to do. Obviously a stigma comes with being on this site, but that doesn't mean I have to put up with this shit in my messages. I'm a human, not an object.
I'm not promoting anything. If I were, I'd have wayyy more photos up and I'd be a lot more friendlier. Clearly, you haven't worked in sales or know what promotion is.
Things I don't have to put up during my stay here: demands from trash in my messages that turn into annoying, repetitive messages from desperate boys. Demands that I tell them where I am, where I'm working, giving my schedule, stage name, to post pussy photos, to share any "intel" on girls who sell less than $100 or do bareback, etc.
I could care less about attention. Sorry you think you know me. You must be new here.
And where did I lash out at anybody? Check your definitions, retake your psychology courses, and then try again. Or go fuck yourself. Whichever. I'm going back to bed. 🤷♀️
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3 years ago
Bubbles 😂😂😂😂 I'm changing my stage name.
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3 years ago
^ my question is why don't the lurkers just go for themselves? Just because John had a great time with Julia for $150 doesn't mean Craig is going to have a good time with her for $120. (Sadly, realistic prices for Detroit.) Plus Craig might not find her as attractive as John did.
Or again, it could be a bf, ex, or pimp trying to locate someone (like in the most recent few posts on the Detroit clubs thread on USASG). Unlikely, but a lot of girls get freaked out about be talked about like that.
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3 years ago
I'm working downtown the next two weekends. My club looks the other way on dances. We're technically not allowed to do them right now due to the social distancing guidelines. The bonus to that is we can set our own prices or bundle x songs for x amount and not pay a house fee since they're not official dances. Unfortunately for the customer, this also means no grinding or straddling dances and tops must stay on. Legends, Players, and Coli are like that right now.
Extras clubs: Henry's, Bogarts, Landing Strip, Flight Club, BTs Dearborn, Silver Criket, and Subie's. Take your pick.
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3 years ago
Also, I'm glad someone else finds some of those messages annoying, too. I also get som crazyyyy messages in my porn instagram messages. I don't reply to any of them at all.
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3 years ago
I sometimes get questions for recommendations for clubs or girls. This site was originally designed to be a review site. All of their questions are answered in the reviews. So, I just ignore those questions. It's not like all dancers openly share with each other what services they do or their prices, plus I'm also not a pimp. Who knows if some of those guys are jealous boyfriends or ex-boyfriends looking for a particular girl. 🤷♀️
Also, in my experience, girls lie to each other about what they do in VIP and for how much.
I had assumed the guys on this site get
messagess from girls trying to solicit their services.
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3 years ago
^based off your last few messages, you're... Okay... I suppose. You said you like my cat (real cat, not vagina), too. And he was more fans than I do anyway. So, not a weirdo I guess. 🤷♀️
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3 years ago
Outslutted is pure gold. 😂
Anyway, if she's not about extras, she's probably whoreaphobic and was most likely judging you both because "eww extras are gross and I'm not a prostitute" or whatever her mindset is. She might also be thinking the girl you went with is cheap and gross. She was judging the other dancer more than you though and jealous probably.
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3 years ago
Jfc y'all should see this shit show I was just sent. I felt bad about not replying to the recent message asking if I sell videos. I gave a nice, polite response and they responded with something that I honestly don't ever want to look at again or even deal with. Most of you guys are really cool and understanding, but like 15% of the guys signed up on here are just fucking weird and creepy.
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3 years ago
Check the reviews. They're written for posts like this.
And asking which club had the most attractive girls is like asking people what color is the best color. Everyone has their own flavor of what they find attractive.
Non extras clubs: none that are within the Detroit City limits.
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3 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
...I spend a lot of money keeping my cat spoiled and fat. His happiness comes first because he's just so cute. I also spend a stupid amount of money on PokemonGo. Lately, I've been spending money on small body enhancements like fillers.
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3 years ago
There are several other messages. I know there are worse ones further back than the last one I posted. Most of the weekly posters and commenters here who have messaged me are really cool. I don't mind messages from most of the forum members. It's when somebody who has zero posting history with the site messages making assumptions that I just want to meet up because I'm desperate or cheap or who knows what. I know some assumptions will be made and people are curious, but messaging somebody without even introducing yourself or giving any information asking to meet up is not okay. And I have been called names before. But it was a few years ago in like 2017 or 2018 before I started doing hoe stuff. I remember one message I got from a guy who had never posted and he simply just asked if he could eat my pussy. I don't know where that message is, but I remember being annoyed by that one. There was a message I skimmed over where someone was demanding that I post a photo. For a while I had removed all of my photos because I stopped dancing while my state was shut down. Someone demanding that I show what I look like pissed me off, too. I know there are some entitled pricks out there. But I respect the forum members who message me and actually talk to me like I'm a human being rather than just an object they feel they can have control over.
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3 years ago
My club, Legends, asks us to send in photos so they can post them on our behalf. Flight Club posts some of their girls in their Instagram stories (with permission). Honestly though, if you go to the club's Instagram page and select the second option of viewing (to the right), you'll see photos anyone has posted publicly and tagged that as their location. A lot of us do that to advertise where we work and what we look like from our own accounts. That way, you can follow the girl if you'd like, too. You can also search by address on Instagram and see public posts posted from that address.
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3 years ago
"I'm actually really curious. What do people even ask about in explicit messages? I'm guessing it wouldn't be super offensive if it was something like "Hey your pictures look cute, would you like to have sex sometime?" (at least I feel like I wouldn't be offended because of a message like that if I was a girl). They must be saying unspeakable things."
You've inspired me to created a discussion topic about this. I'm going to share some of the highlights from my inbox.
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3 years ago
I get annoying messages from TUSCL members making assumptions about me because I work at an extras club. And they're very direct questions. I'm sure most females on this site get them as well. This is nothing new. Just ignore and move on.
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3 years ago
Unfortunately, they weren't tame pussies and would run away from you if you tried to approach them.
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3 years ago
Girls only get disgusted by it because we don't poop. And we sweat glitter.