"I'm actually really curious. What do people even ask about in explicit messages? I'm guessing it wouldn't be super offensive if it was something like "Hey your pictures look cute, would you like to have sex sometime?" (at least I feel like I wouldn't be offended because of a message like that if I was a girl). They must be saying unspeakable things."
Heaving posted that question as a comment and inspired me to share some of the highlights from my inbox of messages. I haven't responded to most of these (especially if it's a new member who hasn't reviewed a club or participated in the forums). My favorite is last one. I redacted TUSCL usernames. Also, some of you guys follow me on my private Instagram before I got into porn and greet me by my real name in messages on here. Please don't because it's kinda weird.
(name redacted) April 23, 2021 What is your ideal customer?
^why does it matter? the fuck kind of time wasting question is that? dude lives in another state and isn't coming to mine, so why the question?
(name redacted) April 15, 2021 Do u sell vids ????
^didn't reply because my links are in my profile and I was sick with Covid and sex work was the last thing I wanted to deal with while sick.
(name redacted) April 14, 2021 Hi, You will be a standout in porn if you ACT. Talk about your feelings, your body parts, his body parts and what you want him to do to you and what you are going to do him. Do not just grunt and moan; be an actor. It will take quite a lot of mental ability and forethought. Decide whether you want to act as an innocent girl, a slut or and out right whore. You will be one of the few that make porn interesting. Good luck hope you can pull it off. Tell you partner to talk, even if it makes him cum sooner. Nothing more boring then a 20 minute blow job or a 30 minute fuck with not a word between them. Ever seen a movie with 10 minutes of silence much less 30? Good luck!
(name redacted (same person as above)) April 14, 2021 If given the chance TALK. Good luck!
^both from the same guy with a new account and has never posted or reviewed any clubs messaging me telling me how I should act in porn. He randomly messaged me the above and it pissed me off. Don't tell me what to do or give me advice I specifically and clearly did not ask for at all ever. I blocked him because he can just fuck off for doing that. Idiot doesn't realize that there is a director/producer who calls the shots and it's not always improv.
(name redacted) March 9, 2021 Where do you work in Michigan.
^didn't reply because he had never interacted with me before and messaged me that. Kinda creeperish.
(name redacted) December 10, 2019 Which town you at now?
(name redacted (same person as above)) January 15, 2020 Where do you dance in Michigan?
^both from the same person. Seemed kinda creeperish with the forward questioning. Did he want a specific address with which town I'm in? Also hadn't previously interacted with me or posted at all.
(name redacted) February 23, 2021 Are you in Michigan this week? Love to see you (me) February 23, 2021 You just joined this month. Who are you? (name redacted) February 23, 2021 Yeah have been traveling for work, not going out due to COVID, etc.
^thanks for not answering me question. He had never messaged me or posted anything on the boards. I feel he was making assumptions about me with the "love to see you" comment. Nope thank you, Officer Setup.
(name redacted) January 3, 2021 r u still a stripper
^is he still dumb?? hmm... also had never messaged me before and had a brand new account. My State was shut down when he wrote that.
(name redacted) November 3, 2020 Where I can find this private chat? Would love to socially engineer my way into it. (name redacted) November 3, 2020 It's private. You can't.
^messaged me thinking I'd just happily hand over links to the private/secret dancer Facebook groups I've mentioned before. Does he want to hunt us all down and murder us or something since real names are used on Facebook? Shit's private for a reason. It's called dancer privacy and respect.
(name redacted) December 30, 2019 Care to get together? (me) December 30, 2019 No. (name redacted) January 12, 2020 What about now? (me) January 13, 2020 Go away. Thanks and bye. (name redacted) February 18, 2020 What club you at?
^my favorite conversation yet with someone who cannot take a hint and had never interacted with me before or posted/reviewed anything. I wasn't dancing at this time and he was alluding that I do out calls. Yeah, let's get together and knit some sweaters, Officer Setup.
I'm sure some of the girls here get way worse. I welcome them to share so long as TUSCL names are redacted.
Or if any of the forum members want to share weird messages sent to them from the girls (redact usernames)?
There are several other messages. I know there are worse ones further back than the last one I posted. Most of the weekly posters and commenters here who have messaged me are really cool. I don't mind messages from most of the forum members. It's when somebody who has zero posting history with the site messages making assumptions that I just want to meet up because I'm desperate or cheap or who knows what. I know some assumptions will be made and people are curious, but messaging somebody without even introducing yourself or giving any information asking to meet up is not okay. And I have been called names before. But it was a few years ago in like 2017 or 2018 before I started doing hoe stuff. I remember one message I got from a guy who had never posted and he simply just asked if he could eat my pussy. I don't know where that message is, but I remember being annoyed by that one. There was a message I skimmed over where someone was demanding that I post a photo. For a while I had removed all of my photos because I stopped dancing while my state was shut down. Someone demanding that I show what I look like pissed me off, too. I know there are some entitled pricks out there. But I respect the forum members who message me and actually talk to me like I'm a human being rather than just an object they feel they can have control over.