Comments by Myoman

Does Scruples in Bridgeport have any hot girls these day - I actually haven't been in a long time.

IMO its really bad and not worth going to Pleasants anymore. NJ clubs are far superior. In fact, I'm told a lot of the prior hotter girls went down to NJ. This place is become great for girls - they have all the power, just with supply and demand. A lot of men here and almost no hot girls.

I would say it is not worth going to this place. Like this review states, it has gone way down hill. And, somehow, it is always packed - with men that is.

I hear you. I am married, so I think staying in a sex resort is not an option. I don't want to completely lie about where I'm staying. From everything I'm reading here, I finding higher class girls in normal situations/places seems like the play here. But I feel like we are glossing over a bit a key factor: the whole resorts giving a problem with bringing girls in. Also, it's just kind of awkward to bring girls in and out of your room with families/kids/elderly etc seeing you around the whole week. I know.. who gives a shit.. I agree partially but I wish there was a slightly better option in a country with overall liberal rules and pretty girls.

How about strip clubs with overall liberal rules for a better prices than clubs in the States?

thank you, i've heard much of this about DR/Punta Cana. I guess i was wondering if there were more situations like semi-upscale clubs where all the girls are for sale, and they offer a room on-site. I remember this type of thing in Colombia. It was basically a club with hot girls flirting with you. And you choose one (or however many you want lol) and they offer a room right there. This way, the whole thing is more contained, likely safer, and you don't have to deal with resort rules. Has anyone ever heard of such an option in Punta Cana area?

funontheside - valid and interesting point, and I do see what you are saying. It's a conundrum to expect spotlessness while still hoping to enjoy extras at a reasonable price. I guess I would say, though, that this place may have gone too extreme, and, now, more importantly, the rules have changed and there is just a tenseness in the environment. The girls are much older and less pretty, they push for the back right away - and they rush you out. On top of that, the cleanliness has worsened, rather than improved. Anyway, I stick to my opinion that the club has gone way downhill. I think the drive to NJ is worth it.

@PuddyTat 69 - exactly. It's not worth it. And the threat of disease is real here. I know one can say that's a possibility of any club but that is an irrational argument. First of all, the customers and the women here are much higher risk (just based on the places they are willing to work). And the cleanliness/crowdedness is probably the worst I've seen in the world. This is the type of place a new strain of an STD would begin - just with all the traffic and men/women who travel back and forth from different states and countries - likely engaging in all sort of high-risk activities. My Doctor friend, who does shifts in different ERs, literally told me there were a couple of cases of syphillis coming out of here. He didn't say that about any other clubs. And that's not surprising to me, knowing the place. Anyway, I'm not against the place or management per se - I just know one of the purposes of this forum is to provide useful information and help us avoid certain pitfalls in our journey!

Lol, sorry for that. I didn't realize that people thought it was a joke, I understand now. I guess I feel like we should have a separate section that reviews city by city rather than club. Sometimes it's hard to go through a million reviews on a bunch of clubs, at times not aware of the reviewer (a lot of hidden club ads nowadays). I think a "city section" would be cool. There are really great city reviews on the Discussions page, why not organize in a whole section? I will check out Wonderland and put out a review, as mentioned. Also, to respond to someone above, I am, and have been a paid member for over a decade.

Thanks for the help

lol, this is a club ad or a friend of the new strong-arm ownership that recently took this place over. This club usually has very few girls and they are all older and unattractive.

you will get aids or syphilis just walking in this club. no joke, especially about the syphilis, which has been resurfacing.

goldeneagles9: Yes, I would say Harry Os is probably the only viable option left to go to in the Stamford/Bport area. I will put a review out soon, after I make at least 2-3 recent visits (that's kina my policy so I don't write a misleading review based on an off day). But I will say that the last time I went the girls were much better than what I had remembered.

Agree with RTP. Maybe he's just trying to get a review in .

this review is bullshit, maybe a club ad. first of all, the club was a rated a 10. That is laughable. This place is a total shithole, it stinks, it's packed with lower-class men with spit on the ground. Then he says, a sofa awaits you in the room. Ha! These rooms are tiny, it's more like a closet with a stool. There is barely any room to stand two. Extras are definitely available, and relatively cheap - that part is true. AIDS and other STDs are certainly an issue here. Absolutely beware and consider taking "prep" - the HIV prophylaxis before visiting here.

I don't understand the business model from the clubs' perspectives tbh. As these comments prove, we end up seeing this as a "lesson" and learn to "never again." I mean, I get they just want to take advantage of one-timers like tourists etc. But why? Why not just make it really expensive, but just a little less.. and not add the extra ripping off (like the mandatory 20% tips and pressurized champagne purchase). That may bring back at least some repeat customers, and still a shitload of money for no more overhead on the part of the club - the rooms are already there and they are already paying the staff. Am I wrong here?

Thank you very much for these responses - extremely helpful. The above responses, advice, and information are what this forum is all about.

so from the last two responses I'm thinking my experience was not an exception, but expected - at a higher end club anyway. One of the questions remaining is the high pressure I got for: 1) the champagne, and not the cheapest one. 2) 20% tips to the "house" and the waitress.

As we answer this question, let's include if we are still married, and particularly married to the kids mother. I think that's the issue. If a son sees his Dad who is married to his mother getting a grind from some slut - what is he learning about being a husband? It's not good. A daughter too. I am married to the mother of my kids.

NYC Region: - NJ: Improved significantly. Somehow the hottest girls are here and don't seem to know they can make way more money in Manhattan or Fairfield County CT (Stamford/Bridgeport CT). - Manhattan: It was always crap in terms of getting any mileage and being a tourist trap. But now it's even worse b/c the girls aren't even hot anymore. - Fairfield County CT (Stamford/Bridgeport CT): Worsened signficantly for men but can be a goldmine for hot girls. I'm lucky to be in NJ and to these girls CT is a distant land. Men spend a lot of money on few girls here. And the girls here are well below-average in quality - and that's bad considering the average quality as a whole has gone down. - Queens NY: Overall stable. It went way down hill from pandemic, but it is recovering slowly. Overall a good place for men. There are a lot of girls, and less men spending money. I think the guys here are smart and know how to play this game.

There's a big difference between a weed dealer and your son or daughter lol. The main question is regarding that. Anyone else I can get over, but seeing my kids there - or really them seeing their Dad there? That would be really difficult.

Let's rephrase this question b/c the context of how many years is important. On average, over the past few years (or even past 5-10 years for those in the game long enough), how much do you spend on this hobby per year*

I think Muddy was referring to the strip club scene. As the name of this site would imply lol.

davephy - wow, now you've got experience! I'm curious - at your age, how do the girls treat you. It is a lot different than when you were younger? Do they seem less into it? I know whatever the age, it's just an act on the dancers' part, but is it just more obvious? Also, do you have kids and even grandkids? Are you ever worried about seeing one of them or their friends at a SC. I'm beginning to worry about that as my kids get older - they are only teens now. But I'd be absolutely mortified if I see my son (or even one of his friends) at a SC!

I'm really confused as to why this thread is on this site. There wasn't even the slightest angle of hot russian or ukrainian strippers weaved in anywhere!