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7 years ago
No harm in reviewing the club by name. Just don't name the dancers.
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7 years ago
Excellent review! You should post that in reviews if you haven't already.
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
These are my favorite kind! Because they feel natural, and not like 2 rocks in your hands. I have no problem with them being fake, as long as they feel like the real thing.
At first I didn't understand why a girl would even want the rock hard unnatural feeling bolt on. Then another member here put me on to the fact that if they want the illusion of them being perky then they have to be the hard variety. The natural feeling bolt ons will become droopy with time, like big naturals. Sucks, but I still prefer the natural feeling ones.
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7 years ago
Big! And right in between soft and firm. Meaning not too hard (like those fake tit jobs where the woman wants them to sit up and not go anywhere). And not too soft (to where they fall over into her armpits when she lays down). I know more natural big chested women has that happen. So I guess I prefer those fakes. Ah well.
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7 years ago
I get what you're saying BJ. But I think there's a difference in Nina asking a woman to share her story, vs a male customer asking. It's easier to open up to someone who can relate to your situation. At least for me it is.
I get that sharing your story is intimate as well. I guess it depends on the level of intimate you associate with each act. Sex is usually high up there on the intimacy level for me. Sharing certain things about myself and mindset is up there also.
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7 years ago
LMAO the hypocrisy in that post was off the fucking wall. So it's cool for you to fuck this girl for money for your enjoyment. But it's not cool for someone to pay that same amount to hear her story????
Che, have several fucking seats.
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7 years ago
Haha, this trip is in the bag and what did I learn? All these clubs are great for extras. I had the easiest time at Paradise Showgirls but if you're not into thick Latinas then don't bother. They had some spinners but only about 20%. Synn had a bunch of anorexic looking AA spinners. Not my type at all. But they did have much more variety than Paradise. Holly, Rossi, Azuna, and Cass were my favorites there and they were white, Latina, Vietnamese, and AA so there's an example of that variety. Didn't get to do Tropical Lei and that's a shame since I heard the extras there are just as plentiful as Paradise Showgirls. Didn't hit Spearmint since I heard they have the talent but at a much higher price.
What a great trip! Next time in this area I'll have my passport and I'm headed for the promised land.
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7 years ago
And to think I was wondering about a dancers perspective on going though months or years of providing extras. This thread is pretty eye opening, thanks Poledancer83.
Thing is, I don't think it's ever gonna end. The lure of that great money will always leave an attractive option for a young beautiful woman. And surely there will always be PLs like myself willing to spend the cash to get next to these beautiful woman that we'd otherwise never find ourselves close to.
So where does that leave us? Will anything change in the future? Myself I doubt it.
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7 years ago
Now to make an on topic post. I was reading reviews of Deja Vu COI as part of my research for possible club stops last week. I was surprised to read that they actually have machines that you pay that regulate the dances. Putting in $20 during the day gives you a straight 4 minute time limit, no matter how long the song is. So that wipes out the chance of the dancer shorting you in songs. Only disadvantages I see are it also means a dancer can't show some love by giving you extended time. And it seems like such a mechanical process that it might be off putting.
I was tempted to stop by just to check it out. But I didn't like what the reviews were saying about the quality of girls and the experience.
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7 years ago
Sir, have you seen his ongoing book topic where he keeps posting on and on basically to himself? It gives you a idea of the kind of person you're trying to reason with here.
There's something clearly wrong in that head of his. I truly think that one day I will hear of a madman who went crazy in San Jose and was incarcerated or worse and then we'll mysteriously never see another post from SJG again.
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7 years ago
Dominic yeah I would THINK I'd be able to find that over in stripperweb. I actually read stuff over there sometimes. But the general consensus I get from that site is that most dancers are clean, almost too clean. It made me figure that extras girls don't even post there, or anywhere for that matter. I tried looking up COI clubs in there and all I was seeing was old stuff from back in the day. Even then, the only mention was dancers warning other dancers to stay away from working there as it's all about extras. I was looking for posts from anyone saying they worked there but found nothing.
Dominic if you have any links to actual testimonies please post them up. It would be an informative read.
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7 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Remember when the NY strip clubs offered LeBron lifetime free lap dances if he came to the NY Knicks when he was a free agent?
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7 years ago
Cashman, now THAT makes sense. I guess it makes it even more impressive that some of these women are able to give a GFE experience despite the volume.
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7 years ago
Flagooner: I'm not trying to be jugmental at all. Like what you said about glass houses, I think if anything the dancers are in much more solid houses than us PLs. I simply wanna know what goes through their minds throughout their workday. And also what effect it has on their personal life.
I know damn well I wouldn't have the chance to get this close any of these fine ass womenid it weren't for SCs. So In not judgmental at all, I'm thankful. Tips = thanks. That simple really.
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7 years ago
Just the fact that it's a unique experience with each I don't think would be enough to get me through it.
But you are right about the over the top acting. Which, surprisingly, none of those extras girls did. Instead, they focused on making me feel like what you were doing was all good to them. I could tell they were pros, because that BS overacting is indeed, a huge turnoff. The girls who do that should know that only works on rookies. Anyone who's been in a strip club a few times will see right through that crap. Honestly at this point I'm so untrusting in clubs that even if a dancer offered me a sincere compliment I would still consider it SS and not believe it for one second. Which sucks, but it's a built up defense mechanism from being exposed to so much SS.
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7 years ago
^^^points taken, but a couple differences.
For one you said try to imagine it like us if we had the money and could pick 5 banging chicks to do in one setting. The clear difference there is that we get to pick the 5 women of our choice. These girls on the other hand have to service whoever offers the money. I'm sure I wasn't the type of every girl who went the extra mile for me that weekend. And I'm sure I wasn't the only guy who wasn't their type. So how do they deal with that?
I know if 5 fat women came up to me offering me $200 each to plow them it would be rough. Let alone doing that for months, or even years. Yet that's what some of these girls are doing.
Maybe I need to check out that documentary that BJ99 was talking about.
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7 years ago
Holy shit that was a detailed report there at the end. Complete with yelp reviews. Scary!
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7 years ago
^^^^^true dat. But what makes you think it was your 'campaign' against him that made people change their feelings about him? Did anyone come out and say 'Dougster, after seeing all your threads call Rick Dugan a fag, my opinion on him has changed'? I mean sure I see people mock him because of his system, but that's about it. I don't see many negative posts about him besides that.
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7 years ago
^^^^^ beautiful! I'm mainly talking about the spooning/assjob with the DS. Oh, and I guess putting SJG in his place is cool also. Lol.
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7 years ago
Dougster your campaign against Rick Dugan didn't sway my mind in one bit. I'm still relatively new here and don't know or care what he did in the past. Difference in your campaign was that you'd make one post calling him gay per day, or per week, or whatever. I can easily scroll past that. If you would have made 13 threads in a row about Rick Dugan on a normal basis, I would've put you on ignore also.
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7 years ago
It's called curiosity. Why the fuck do you care if I care? You think I'm not aware of all that shit you just said? I pointed that situation out clear as day in my example that I wasn't her first and definitely not her last.
It's a thread simply wondering, and I shared the same thought. I guess we won't get an actual answer unless one of these extras dancers comes in here and replies.
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7 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
^^^^^damn, great breakdown! Can't wait for the season to start!
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7 years ago
Ok took you off ignore so I could read your comments. That was the first time I've seen you use correctly spelled words that I didn't have to slowly sound out to read. Ok so you said:
^^^^^^^ Itz DUMBAZZ FUCKHEDZ liek u dat giv a free pass 2 ppl liek vinceygirl mikelz dat r da reezon da usa is cirkelin da drain!
U aint no betr dan dat #FAEK LYIN POS!
How am I giving him a free pass? I don't ever even talk to that guy. When I first got in this forum you two were already having your feud. From your many threads about him, what I gathered was that he lied about serving in the military or something like that. You as an actual veteran took extreme offense to it. Seriously, how am I giving him a free pass? What am I supposed to do about it? Email Founder to get him kicked off the board? Kinda ridiculous.
The way you go about voicing your displeasure is what I didn't understand. You'd create 13 threads in a row calling him a stolen valor pedo dickface. All I wanna do is read about strippers and clubs, not get caught up in some stolen valor dispute. Your protests reminded me of the black lives matter protests that block an entire freeway inconveniencing a bunch of folks. I swear if those folks could've just hit an ignore button and got rid of all the protestors 99.9% of them would have done it.
I'll wait to see if you respond to sirlapdancealot but I basically had the same question: what is creating 13 threads in a row of the same thing really supposed to accomplish? Besides prompting more folks to make use of the ignore button?
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7 years ago
Sucks, I can't even see his serious post since I have him blocked and I don't see a log out button. I had written him off as unreachable, much like SJG guy. Even though I have to admit, I didn't even bother trying to reason with him much like you are doing, sirlapdancealot. Kudos to you.
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7 years ago
I wonder this myself, even more so after witnessing it in action.
At a COI club on my second day there was an absolutely banging Latina girl there, amongst a bunch of other so so dancers. I went to VIP with her and ended up blasting on her back. With no paper towels she used her cloth bra top to wipe up the cum. Then I went out and chilled in the club for a few more hours watching a football game. She came out in a new outfit and immediately was taken to VIP by another dude. 30 minutes later another outfit change and another VIP. I wonder what goes through her mind. She was churning us out like champs and coming back with the same smile and charm as when she first arrived. A true pro.
Is sex even enjoyable at that point, even with her SO? What is their mindset during the whole thing? I'd guess probably focused on money. I know this chick made a killing in just the hours I was there, let alone the entire shift.