What the whores feel

Lol! What if you were a male Jigalo, would you feel all right pussies since they need servicing so bad from your monstrous, veiny cock? Lmfao!

I guess this would be a case of apples and oranges, male to female sluts.

Sorry, "would you feel all TIGHT pussies"? ^^^ not right pussies....

There's a good documentary on Netflix called "whore's glory"

no one here is talking about males LMFAO Only girls pussy that work it

I'm into low volume, high payoff sales.

I guess no one wants to admit to having (an average) or below average penis girth? Is that what you're getting at? You're getting that clearly her vag is all stretched out or the issue is somehow with the woman, blah, blah ... can be me, lmfao. right? I see what you're saying.

Well sex burns calories so on the upside it would be hella workout for those girls...

the shores feel the nut shot up in them, the cold hard cash in there hands, and the empty feeling in thier hearts - their pussies just feel vibrations all day long!

I wonder this myself, even more so after witnessing it in action.

At a COI club on my second day there was an absolutely banging Latina girl there, amongst a bunch of other so so dancers. I went to VIP with her and ended up blasting on her back. With no paper towels she used her cloth bra top to wipe up the cum. Then I went out and chilled in the club for a few more hours watching a football game. She came out in a new outfit and immediately was taken to VIP by another dude. 30 minutes later another outfit change and another VIP. I wonder what goes through her mind. She was churning us out like champs and coming back with the same smile and charm as when she first arrived. A true pro.

Is sex even enjoyable at that point, even with her SO? What is their mindset during the whole thing? I'd guess probably focused on money. I know this chick made a killing in just the hours I was there, let alone the entire shift.

It's called curiosity. Why the fuck do you care if I care? You think I'm not aware of all that shit you just said? I pointed that situation out clear as day in my example that I wasn't her first and definitely not her last.

It's a thread simply wondering, and I shared the same thought. I guess we won't get an actual answer unless one of these extras dancers comes in here and replies.

Thanks Tfp I knew some other mongers have thought about this

Nina your thoughts would be appreciated ? ^^

Any extras girls in here ??

TFP: Cool COI story.

I dunno. It's kind of like trying to ask what it feels like to have a pussy, period. And I couldn't tell you.

In general, though, a popular extras girl probably tries to focus on what makes each customer unique. For me, I only have so much bullshit tolerance. If she's too over-the-top with, "Oh you're so handsome, it's so big," etc., I'm going to kind of turn off. But if she picks up on what makes you different -- your personality, a mole, even if it's that your thing bends to the right, whatever, that makes it less boring for her, too.

Let me put it to you this way: Say cost wasn't an issue and you got to get with five different smokin' hot extras girls in one night. It would be a different experience with each girl, right? Dane thing the other way around, I'd think.

^^^points taken, but a couple differences.

For one you said try to imagine it like us if we had the money and could pick 5 banging chicks to do in one setting. The clear difference there is that we get to pick the 5 women of our choice. These girls on the other hand have to service whoever offers the money. I'm sure I wasn't the type of every girl who went the extra mile for me that weekend. And I'm sure I wasn't the only guy who wasn't their type. So how do they deal with that?

I know if 5 fat women came up to me offering me $200 each to plow them it would be rough. Let alone doing that for months, or even years. Yet that's what some of these girls are doing.

Maybe I need to check out that documentary that BJ99 was talking about.

Just the fact that it's a unique experience with each I don't think would be enough to get me through it.

But you are right about the over the top acting. Which, surprisingly, none of those extras girls did. Instead, they focused on making me feel like what you were doing was all good to them. I could tell they were pros, because that BS overacting is indeed, a huge turnoff. The girls who do that should know that only works on rookies. Anyone who's been in a strip club a few times will see right through that crap. Honestly at this point I'm so untrusting in clubs that even if a dancer offered me a sincere compliment I would still consider it SS and not believe it for one second. Which sucks, but it's a built up defense mechanism from being exposed to so much SS.

We all go to Strip Clubs and pay money for varying degrees of sexual stimulation.

Yet, this seems to be quite a bit judgemental concerning those who we pay for such services.

There are some apt cliches about glass houses and such.

We don't know their situation. I try to just be thankful that I'm on this side of the fence instead of the other when it comes to that extreme.

(It might be nice to be the service provider to women for $ if the circumstances weren't of desperation)

Interesting topic. I think that one of the qualities a high earning dancer must have is the ability to compartmentalize her emotions. It might not be easy for us to imagine - but there is an emotional difference from having sex with a customer vs having sex with someone who you are emotionally attached to.

I think when there is an emotional attachment to your partner - the sensations can be more intense - as your senses are more heightened - and your desire is increased. It's not mechanical - as it may have been for the girl in TFP's account.

I'd be interested in hearing the insights from dancers on this topic.

I agree w Dominic. Low TMI

http://southpark.cc.com/clips/386591/i-t…

"I know if 5 fat women came up to me offering me $200 each to plow them it would be rough. Let alone doing that for months, or even years. Yet that's what some of these girls are doing."

Unlike most of the guys here, when I'm hunting for a SB on SA I'm not opposed to meeting up with heavier girls. They are less likely to be getting sex IRL so they can be extremely attentive, extremely hard working, and quite affordable.

TFP has a point, though, cause after the thrill of banging someone new wears off, the lower level of physical attractiveness is harder to overcome, and the thrill wears off. I'm not even sure that if the woman was paying me that I'd be able to keep going back for long periods of time.

That's why I always say us guys need to be respectful and considerate of these women, cause putting up with us, and being willing to have sex with us (even when there's money involved) is pretty incredible.

@TFP I would look at it from a different view. If I had to earn money to pay rent, or to feed my family - then I'd be happy to plow as many girls as I could. That being said - I'm pretty sure it would become mechanical after a few days of it.

It would quickly become more about getting paid - and less about (my) enjoyment. I would make sure the women had a good experience - but I doubt I would be able to provide a true BFE for them.

Flagooner: I'm not trying to be jugmental at all. Like what you said about glass houses, I think if anything the dancers are in much more solid houses than us PLs. I simply wanna know what goes through their minds throughout their workday. And also what effect it has on their personal life.

I know damn well I wouldn't have the chance to get this close any of these fine ass womenid it weren't for SCs. So In not judgmental at all, I'm thankful. Tips = thanks. That simple really.

Cashman, now THAT makes sense. I guess it makes it even more impressive that some of these women are able to give a GFE experience despite the volume.

I agree TFP. I think it may be a challenge for the women. It's not easy to appear genuine when you are going through the motions (and you want to detach from the feelings). I don't know how they do it. They are better actors than most oscar winners!

How each dancer compartmentalizes their emotions and social shame (if any) may vary wildly, but I think they almost all regard it as very repetitive work, ultimately.

I know you guys don't like to do it, but I lot of what you have questions about can be answered in archives at StripperWeb. A lot of the old material was pretty enlighting and eye opening. For example, a lot of them have what could be analogous to PTSD from all of the heavy contact and mileage, how that PTSD from boob or other delicate areas affects them with their SOs at home or later in life, etc. How much it bothers them. Every once in a while you see an extras girl fire back at the so-called CLEAN dancers, well if doing extras (or OTC) is easy or taking the easy way out or taking easy money, then why don't you try it. It usually shuts them up. Seems like each encounter takes just a little more out of the extras girl, over time.

I think after a while the pros do adopt professionalism, which to me, professionalism is first and foremost about making others comfortable. You take as much crap as you can from the boss/customers then smile, carry on, and do your damn job that you were hired to do to the best of your abilities so they will keep paying you. That's why it's called work at least that's one of the lectures I got growing up.

Thanks, bj99.

Dominic yeah I would THINK I'd be able to find that over in stripperweb. I actually read stuff over there sometimes. But the general consensus I get from that site is that most dancers are clean, almost too clean. It made me figure that extras girls don't even post there, or anywhere for that matter. I tried looking up COI clubs in there and all I was seeing was old stuff from back in the day. Even then, the only mention was dancers warning other dancers to stay away from working there as it's all about extras. I was looking for posts from anyone saying they worked there but found nothing.

Dominic if you have any links to actual testimonies please post them up. It would be an informative read.

it gets numb. duh.

My presumption is there is a deterioration in standards over time. Strippers and escorts keep servicing guys a little bit older, a little bit uglier, a little bit fatter... After a while they just do not really notice or care anymore.

^ I have found that the ladies aren't quite as shallow as we are.

Of course this is a generality...
Yes, they are physically attracted but are also attracted to other qualities more than we are. Such as confidence, success, intelligence, ...

At least that's what I keep telling myself.

Bj99 - I've watched Whore's Glory on Netflix too. I actually liked it, very interesting and informative, but also sad and disappointing at times. When I go to Thailand I'm gonna hit up a brothel and find hottest girl there who speaks English and tip her a bunch too just talk to me about what her life is like. It's kind of fascinating.

Seems like a LOT of "extras" girls either have low self esteem or come from environments where they were brought up to think that it is normal behavior.

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Oops.

^ I thought it was funny when the girl told the new girl, "I hope he has a big cock!" Bc she kept getting picked. There's also a really good one ab these old German twins, who are prostitues. I can't remember the name.

So Nina what do you feel in your pussy when multiple guys penetrate you in a short period of time ??? ^^

Nemesisk7, I've had sex with five men in my entire life and haven't had sex since the end of March. Your question is not applicable to me.

Your colloquial dialect is not literate to me.

@Che, uh, you mean don't... talk to them? It's still okay to pay to fuck them though, right? I'm just checking. I mean, we want to make sure that we're still 100% politically correct while we're paying to fuck hookers in Thailand.

"That is incredibly insensitive and the epitome of being an ugly-American. Just because she is poor and was born in the third world does not make her less of a human being. She may have to sell her body but you shouldn’t ask or expect her to sell her soul for your amusement. Just keep your rich American money and allow her to keep whatever shred of dignity she has left.

In all seriousness please don’t ever do such a horrible thing."

Che, are you joking? How is paying a Thai prostitute for an hour of conversation and tipping her probably 5x the amount of money a "John" does in any way insensitive? I never alluded to them being less than human, which is why all I plan to do is chat with them + pay them way more than they'd get fucking. How on earth is that problematic for you? Lol wtf are you talking about? It is a horrible thing to pay a prostitute tons of money for conversation? That is odd. Can you elaborate on this strange perspective? Because I'd hardly think an attractive girl talking to me for an hour for lots of money *instead of fucking someone for the usual rate* is 'selling her soul.'

LOL!

As if a hardcore Randoid like @Che gives a shit about helping the poor here or anywhere else.

LMAO the hypocrisy in that post was off the fucking wall. So it's cool for you to fuck this girl for money for your enjoyment. But it's not cool for someone to pay that same amount to hear her story????

Che, have several fucking seats.

Right, not to mention as I just stated I find it odd that Che finds it insensitive to pay a prostitute lots of money for an hour's worth of conversation instead of fucking them. Still waiting on him to elaborate on that because I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say the average Thai prostitute would rather chill and talk to a cool girl for 5x the usual rate than fuck a guy for the usual rate who has no interest in them besides sex.

I can kinda see what Che means, but I don't think he needed to be so harsh ab it. Also, I don't think Nina meant any disrespect in it.

But I get that it's another type of intimacy to share your story and talk with someone. Strippers walk a funny line between physical intimacy, and sharing a little of who we are and talking to ppl. Prostitutes sell their body, but maintain their personal inner thoughts and privacy. I feel a little violated when a guy gets defensive ab whether I Actually like him, or Im just behaving like I do bc I want his money. I feel like it's not enough that I'm entertaining him, and giving him a nice dance, he has to have some part of me that isn't a fair part of the transaction. It's hard to describe, and not usually a big deal tho. I doubt it would be for a lot of prostitutes getting paid to hang out and chat either.

I never said I was gonna hold a gun to her head and demand an official life story. Nor did I say I'd force a girl to talk to me about her life (hence why I would choose the girl, and she can decide whether or not to share any experiences with me). People here think that is insensitive? Wtf? But wait, it's not insensitive to fuck her for what would be pocket change in USD? Get a grip, you're just looking for reason to pick at what I said (and being hypocritical while you're at it). God forbid I want to pay good money to chat with a girl and tip her well. How dare I. How insensitive. How "ugly American" of me. LMAO.

I get what you're saying BJ. But I think there's a difference in Nina asking a woman to share her story, vs a male customer asking. It's easier to open up to someone who can relate to your situation. At least for me it is.

I get that sharing your story is intimate as well. I guess it depends on the level of intimate you associate with each act. Sex is usually high up there on the intimacy level for me. Sharing certain things about myself and mindset is up there also.

Nina, I don't think there was anything awful ab what you said, or your meaning. I can get where the concept comes from tho. Che was being overly harsh. Looking for offense where none was meant.

I think all you meant by it was that you find it very interesting, and would be willing to pay to hear their story and perspective.

Yup!

You elaborated and have give me zero insight on how a polite conversation with them + a great tip instead of fucking them is so "ugly" to you. It kind of sounds like you're trying to start an argument with me and/or a problem when there wasn't one to begin with.

And please don't lecture me on third world countries. My step mom is a mail order bride from the Philippines, she just obtained her citizenship here after over 15 yrs of living here while the rest of her family lives in poverty in good ole Manilla, and when we visit them there, I've always known it is going to be a huge (and sad) cultural difference. I grew up around Filipino culture since we attended a Filipino church when I was growing up. I've also sponsored underprivileged kids from Africa and Asia so please don't presume to tell me that I know nothing about third world poverty just because I was born in the US.

At any rate, when I finally do visit Thailand in particular, and give a girl tons of money just to chill and talk with me, I highly doubt she'll be thinking "I wish I was fucking a complete stranger for about 1/5 of what this girl is paying me simply to relax and talk with her." Yeah... I bet that's their total definition of selling their souls. You want to fuck prostitutes for money whereas I just want to talk to them and pay them even more? How terrible of me. Are you asserting that they are unworthy of conversation just because they are prostitutes from third world countries?

Wake the fuck up and stop acting so utterly and hypocritically sanctimonious.

@Che said: "To give my comments a little context something like 50% of Thai prostitutes have attempted suicide at least once."

So? I bet lots of truck drivers, arctic fishermen, and soldiers have contemplated suicide at least once, too. Should we all carry around a list of people whom we can and can't talk to, to avoid inadvertently triggering them into offing themselves?

He also said: "Fucking and sucking countless men is one thing. Being forced to face their lot in life (even by someone innocently asking questions out of curiosity) is something altogether different."

Well then I guess some of them shouldn't volunteer to be in a fucking documentary about being a whore. It might give the rest of us crazy ideas, like that it's okay to talk to them.

^^^bravo!

I don't see anything wrong with Nina being interested and wanting to learn directly from the source about their experiences and how it has impacted them. It would certainly take finesse and sensitivity, or she may get the sense that she is thought of as being inferior or as as lab subject whose purpose is to serve others and satisfy their curiosity.

I did find it amusing that in one post Nina referred to herself as "attractive" and in another as "cool". I generally leave it to others to determine if they think I am either of those two things, though I usually don't care about their assessments.

^ at least not enough for my self-esteem to depend on their opinions. That is probably a more accurate way of saying it.

Ok Flagooner I meant cool as in chill and mellow around people, not like the fucking Thunderbirds in Grease. I get that you are from a different generation, but "cool" doesn't just mean leather jacket anymore. (LOL)

I can call myself attractive if I think I'm attractive. Ain't nothin' wrong with that!

^ Yes you can. I'm just saying I found it humorous. No need to be defensive.

Aw thanks