Comments by Bj99 (page 13)

I agree. I think it’s bc the boob job seems like a quick fix that could make them money. Ppl don’t realize how dirty teeth can make their breath less pleasant, and dull their smile. Braces are a big investment, and I’m sure a lot of girls are afraid they wouldn’t go over well. I do know one girl who was atom she wants to get braces, and she doesn’t have fake boobs. But I know others who really need them, and do have fake boobs.

@lol, that’s a good point. The desktop won’t be portable, but I got lucky. It turns out that the desktop my ex put together for me will do fine, and just needs an upgraded video card.

Grown adults truly won’t take the kinds of risks adolescents will, and they won’t hurt ppl as callously. They are biologically wired to take risks to possibly further the species. Some succeed and many fail.

17 year olds are children. They aren’t adults yet. Their brain chemicals are still all jacked up, and they are wired to be too trusting, to take risks, and to be uncaring of those weaker than themselves. So are 18 year olds, but that’s our legal age for most stuff. The military takes full advantage of young ppl’s fucked up brains. If the age for joining up was 30, just imagine how empty the ranks would be lol. Least they offer something for the risks tho.

^ lol, poor lurkers on this site lately!

@Dominic, yes. Plus, that kind of frenzied groping makes us think if he can reach it, he will be grabbing it. It makes us worried he will do major no no’s if given the chance, since he’s obviously oblivious to our needs anyways.

You and 25 can have your romance. I want easy going and discreet.

Hmm.. but then I suposse there’s more to do w a cock, than in the Midwest. Hmm...

@25, I took that to mean she must be in the Midwest. ;P

No. Not at all. More like a little trust and understanding for my position.

A guy who says, “I understand if you don’t want to/can’t, but I’d love it if ____.” Is more likely to get higher mileage w me, than someone who just tries to force me and seems pushy, or irritable. I also hate when they won’t chill for a moment and let me get them into the dance, and just want to treat it like a groping session. I don’t care how hot the guy is. That’s just obnoxious.

Looks don’t hurt, but I think guys who I think will be appreciative, and not take a mile for every inch, get higher mileage w me. Some guys are so pushy and forceful from the start that’s I practically have to do their dance w my pages crossed, and lots of girls will air dance, if a guy is just too pushy. Money, and an appropriate ammt of patience helps too. I get irritated when a guy expects to suck my titties in the first song he’s ever gotten w me. Now, a regular who sometimes gets many songs, but only wants one or two, is different, and so is someone who lets me know he’s be getting several.

It’s like the “Jizz in my Pants” song! “I just touched some shorts..and I jizzed in my pants”

I reserve the right to judge you fags. ;P

I work at a club where we get to pick our own music, but I’ll often approve songs that my favorite dj finds for me that I don’t love, bc he’s a guy, and has a different perspective. If I catch him using a song for breaks, or randomly for other girls, I have him remove it from my list.

This is funny bc my teen son just recently asked for a gaming computer. I will probably go w a desktop, since a separate monitor and key board are better for gaming. Also, desktops are better for upgrading.

My club has great food, but I think the negative connotations may be that if other rules are lax, then the kitchen rules may also be lax.

We don’t know how he benefited from giving Nina that money. If it gave him an altruistic aura/vibe at the casino, or in a business deal, he might have made ten times that. Sometimes, I don’t even recognize a pl when he’s had a bad day, bc his body language is so defensive and angry. I once saw a very defensive, jaded, stripper dance to a song that made her feel vulnerable bc it was her song w an ex; she’d never looked beautiful to me before. And she asked the dj to never play that for her again. You never know.

Meh, the beggar has a need to receive and the rich man needs someone to give his money to. There’s no real judgement involved and neither is better than the other. Plus, you really never know the outcome of giving anything. Even complements.

Yes :P

Ppwh, excellent point!! I guess I mean that knowing he can get strippers oct is an enabler for a life long addiction lol. Ppl always tell me I’d like coke. I tell them, “I’m sure I would!! That’s why I don’t try it.”

Touché, flag. ;P

It’s not necessarily predatory to accept someone’s goodwill and gift. I do things for ppl, and it’s almost selfish not to accept, as well. Ppl need to give, and then ppl need to receive. I feel it’s almost arrogant and self absorbed not to accept gifts. Like, why am I so special I can’t be vulnerable enough to accept someone’s help? I gave my best friend a few thousand when his va pay got screwed up, and I’d have been miserable if he wouldn’t have accepted my help.

Would you really wish this hobby on some sweet corn fed 21 y/old? Strippers can become a life long addiction that can destroy a guy’s ability to just be happy w what he has.

Bravo! :) the perfect storm. I wish I was better at that. No one ever does anything big for me, and when they offer, I turn them down out of an idiotic fear of owing anyone anything. :P