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9 years ago
In theory, all of the above. In practice, to each their own. It's all about fit. My ex gave better BJ than FS experiences I've had with most women. Doesn't mean I generally prefer BJ over FS, but her BJ I definitely do.
Everyone has hands, so my rationale is that I'm aiming for the ass and perfect fit so LD for sure.
But since my specific fetish is in the setting if a party, I am an ass man and take my LDs at the bar on bar stool pseudo-standing
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9 years ago
The life of an LDKer is all about effort. SC are my fallback and emergency option. Thus the ROI is significant because I have the peace of mind of knowing exactly what I'm getting. And $200 is far less than what most spend on SW or extras.
Yes, the initial LDQ catch is max $140 but yiu can also spend min $60. The game could be played in which you get 6 "audition" lap dances and retire with LDQ. Hence it's a game and you can opt for the extent of variety you desire.
As stated, the goal is to get their numbers and schedule. If you're strapped for time or cash, you have #2 for that.
The main rule is that you keep them on their toes. You always have options to cater to your budget.
The intent is that I get my LDK without having to count songs whether I want to linger or be in and out, I never spend more than $200 and can strive to get it done for less than $60.
You never promote the LDQ replacement to $200 hence you're training you're #2 to embrace $20 as if it's $200.
If you're familiar with marketing and pricing practices, you're employing a skimming strategy for LDQ and penetrating strategy for #2 with low barriers to entry.
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9 years ago
The trick is to play the bar not the booth. Strippers milk the booth on their time schedule. Of course this greatly depends in the SC setup as well.
Always flash the money and remember: Your Dollar, Your Decision.
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9 years ago
12 years with the same guy + 2 kids....Is she looking for trustworthy dick or a new father figure or an intimate partner or a financial provider?
What were your expectations before the breakup? Did you just want to fuck? If so, dont change your script because her scene ended. YOU ARE THE DIRECTOR.
I was steadily fucking a stripper who was doing in calls for the price of a lapdance in spite of her baby father. I knew what I was looking for and I knew what she was looking for. Every nasty little thing she had wanted to do ITC she now could do OTC freely. Yet I pumped brakes as I she tried to trap me by not letting me pull out. Her MO was a sugar daddy by way of child support.
Assess the situation. Consider motive. Retire on top
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9 years ago
Your dollar, your decision
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9 years ago
Ask her for her schedule and come during times she's not schedule.
My LDQ is THE BEST. Perfect fit, personality, energy, look and curves. She gives me what I want when i want it. I vetted through 20 other girls some with better faces or bigger asses, but she is my Queen of the Ring. I dont think of my SC experience, I think of her specifically assisting my LDK.
Though she is my franchise player, I have others on call on slower nights. If I see a new girl with potential, I'll give her a thorough tryout.
I have all if their numbers and know 4 of their schedules. I dont deal with busy nights but I'm a non extras person. LDK is all I need and security watch if they choose cuz im an exhibitionist too
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9 years ago
Trish Stratus all time best diva. I love Stacey's legs but Sunny and Stephanie McMahon always got my dick hard
ECW was definitely most entertaining (sucked for the wrestlers but great for viewers)
Sabu & Taz
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9 years ago
Mistah Fetti - Ron Simmons (Faarooq) was supposed to break Ahmed in as a rites if passage to becoming the first Black WWF Heavyweight champ but the kidney injury threw him off. The real heavyweights needed Ahmed. Shawn and Bret were too small. Diesel couldn't sell. Yoko and Vader and Undertaker could have benefited from Ahmed.
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9 years ago
ATACdawg are you serious? Wrestling was bullshit in those days. Doggedly boring no moves. Might as well cite Greco roman wrestlers for all that. Even in the age Jesse Ventura and pose downs and benchpress contests and arm wrestling matches, that shit was for the birds.
Late 80s and 90s they got the formula right. The product was much better by then
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9 years ago
Rule #1: Your dollar, your decision.
This isn't a civvie. I dont pay more than $200 for LDK and that's a very generous tip. Go on backpage to see going rates in your area for SW. $300 is generous for most. $800 will get you a Beyonce and Nicki Minaj.
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9 years ago
Best stable was definitely the original 4 Four Horsemen.
Golden Age 88-98
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9 years ago
I am a MAJOR wrestling fan. Authentic championship belts, every major PPV event until 1998 (anything after is the equivalent of the NFL rules now).
The Ultimate Warrior was hands down my favorite. Hulk Hogan too cheesy. Ric Flair too underappreciated but the most charismatic and prototype for SCSA, The Rock and DX.
Jimmy Superfly Snuka was my idol but I also loved Rick Rude (Val Venis tainted his niche).
I love the old vignettes of Million Dollar Man
Shoutouts to the Legion of Doom - best tag team ever (followed by head shrinkers and natural disasters)
Jake the Snake was the best to see in person and the old Undertaker had parents taking their kids to the bathroom during his entrance.
Sting and Shawn Michaels are my ATFs. I believed in the Gimmick of Bill Goldberg but WCW missed a opportunity to have him be the contemporary Hulk Hogan character.
The Rockers had the best tag team chemistry.
Mr Perfect the best entrance music.
Ultimate Warrior the best entrance
I think Vader is the only wrestler who ever had wrestle soft without equal. Not even Yokozuna could wrestle stiff with him and no one at his size is hitting moonsaults.
Shutouts to Scott Steiner and Rey Mysterious.
No respect to Randy Orton, John Cena, Brock Lesnar etc clowns.
Best thing that never was: Ahmed Johnson. That man was going to take the world by storm in 96.
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9 years ago
In Japan terminology, my outlet of such parties constitutes as chikans meeting chigos
http://www.last.fm/group/A+group+with+a+forum+people+actually+discuss+things+in/forum/119522/_/2027236
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9 years ago
Psychiatric and behavorial therapy are the mentioned treatments. But if masturbation isn't of interest and regular FS can't occur daily with s/o, SC and parties become viable and socially acceptable outlets to best nullify nonconsent.
The "traditional" frotteur is as such
http://www.theonion.com/blogpost/its-not-easy-being-a-frotteur-11344
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9 years ago
They also know it's patient by patient
http://www.alternet.org/sex-amp-relationships/rubbing-strangers-sexual-satisfaction-inside-subculture-frotteurs
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9 years ago
Twentyfive - of course it's weird. No denying. Yet fetish in general has an element of weird. But if you view the videos, you'll see it's not too farfetched to imagine a person having an erect penis in such setting. Where there's erection there's possibility of ejaculation
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9 years ago
Subraman - Duly noted. The "frott" implies the rubbing more than the "Non- consent". The reason I use this term especially in the context of party, there's a generally assumed consent to dance though an initiation or offer can be made nonverbally and accepted or rejected in the same manner. However, there's no official acquisition of consent to LDK (SC aside). Thus technically the nonconset clause is upheld.
However, there's no socially acceptable explanation for sustained frottage on a subway train (as NYC MTA reminds the public). Yet try the "see something say something " at a club regarding frottage and it falls on deaf ears given atmosphere.
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9 years ago
Estafador - There's a spectrum. I enjoy the pleasure so much that I dont have to be at a party. I used to call friends over like an on call stripper civvie to grind me out til I busted before they left. They obliged because of the rapport we had and respected that I wasnt calling them over for sex, but rather just to "dance" and chill so they were comfortable.
I use the term because it's my motivation for going to a party and I van go solo and not care to socialize. But I'm not someone that will have dick out on the train, or in a crowd of people .
But as you see in the videos, the socially acceptable "dancing" is in fact a form of groping and molestation by act but is exempted by context.
A guy putting his erect penis between a girls buttcheeks is called dancing or molestation? On a subway, molestation. At a party, dancing.
Context
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9 years ago
LDK - Same here. Gets the mind right. Though I'm going to make better vids with my s/o in the future. (If only YouTube was invented a decade ago).
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9 years ago
Duly noted.
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9 years ago
Mistah Fetti - Duly noted good brother. I know all about the stable. I call it a roster and I used to keep 12 just like a basketball team with my starting 5, backups and IRs. My franchise player became my s/o. But my s/o wants to get married so I invested fully in frottage to channel energy since I only see her once a week.
A lubed up titty fuck and lubed up bikini lapdance (dick out) , and lubed up hand job etc are all relatively in the same family. When my ex was a virgin that's exactly what we did. Lubed her up and she straddle my dick gliding up and down my shaft because she was anti- penetration
That's skin on skin too. So many possibilities out there good brother.
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9 years ago
Estafador- You have yet to live my friend. Next Saturday be here by 1130 and definitely shave yet maintain machismo
http://www.eventbrite.com/o/the-epic-league-6679089627
I'm definitely going write a comprehensive review of the science of Sin City from a LDKer perspective.
Yes SC is an urban club predominantly thick Latina and Ebony dancers. There's no private rooms, champagne rooms or curtain booths. Everything is out in the open. The motto is "what can they say, if you pay".
Best time to go is Sun- Wednesday between 9-11pm. Less packed, more personal, long mileage per dollar. If you make the mistake of going Thurs-Sat you become a face in the concert crowd at best. If you go when I say, you become the director of a movie shoot.
I have my regulars' direct line so I hit them early and they want me to come back so they give me what I need. I'm an ass man so that's my niche. Sounds like you like tits. While they can't outright tittie fuck in plainview, remember the motto.
Pants on? There are no pants at Sin. Thongs, bikinis, and leotards as determined by the dancer.
I don't carry ones in Sin. I flash $20 so it's known what I'm looking for. When it's more crowded, you can get away with more sure but the trick is establishing rapport first with your dancers to assess ITC or OTC and pricing.
High class? No . But top notch urban. You're not getting in with sweatpants, but you're not going to a business meeting either. I'm not a rapper or thug so I come business casual.
We'll have to link for a Sin experience one day.
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9 years ago
Mistah Fetti - Condoms arent $20 and we aren't females needing to head to the bathroom every two seconds. I dont use condoms at all with my s/o. And to be a s/o implies there's no need for condoms. I love eating pussy, so I'm going to eat raw, we're doing everything raw.
I think you missed the secret ingredient to the magic: I store up for a few days to a week to make my dick more sensitive. You dont have to be in high school to LDK, you just need functional penis with normal levels of testosterone.
Try not ejaculating for two weeks and you'll a difference in blood flow, girth, stiffness and ability to erect on a whim. It's basic science good brother
If you're at a SC, relax, eat some wings, have some drinks, spot your girl and let her know you're going to the bathroom and will be right back. In the bathroom, urinate and strap up. No need to wear a condom for hours and condoms dont set off metal detectors. Put it on when you're ready to rock out.
Research "outer course". If it can cause an erection, it can inspire ejaculation.
Imagine if your s/o lived across the country and you saw her once every three weeks. You don't hit SC or ejaculate, and I promise you'll bust in less than 2minutes on FS.
People masturbate all the time to desensitize their dicks and build faux stamina. The less you ejaculate the more heightened your senses. This is how wet dreams and ejaculation by the touch of a feather is possible.
Women endure the same struggles if they dont orgasm.
Especially if you're paying for the seconds a stripper is spending with you, you're best bet is to be time efficient.
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9 years ago
Estafador- Do you watch Power? I aspire to be James St. Patrick. Have you seen 300? I am Leonidas and only deal with Spartan women.
I raw dog every chick I'm seriously with and it may start with one stroke but it's all about being on the same page.
I frott to augment the urge to fuck every thing that gets my dick hard. I Iove eating pussy too and only tried dental dam once so technically there's always raw interaction regardless.
Marriage is on a 5yr plan for me and I've been going steadily raw since 2006 with my S/O on birth control. And yes BC isnt 100% but when your S/O has her own professional goals she's as vested in ensuring no pregnancies as well.
We both have the same approach as per condom clean up. But we differ in that I dont use condoms with my S/O. That's what makes our FS/HJ/BJ/ and oral a heightened pleasure than LDK.
Floyd Mayweather wears thick gloves to protect his hands from getting hurt. There's nothing more real than raw.
One day you'll experience the bliss. It's more of a portal to another world than a black hole
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9 years ago
They are messy, but what isn't messy? CIC leaves it at the tip yet your still in your jizz. Masturbation, and sloppy HJ leaves it on your hands or body unless shot out. Sloppy BJ w/swallow helps but likelihood that the WP performing that on you did so for the guys before you too. And FS w/o condom leaves you at higher risk for more than your own jizz.
I think we shower more often than we do laundry. Hence LLP is better than outright CIP