For Those That Shun LDK
LDKisLife
New York
After creeping the shadows reading reviews and discussion topics, I was both proud that LDK was acknowledged as a viable outlet, yet also disappointed with critiques of the practice.
I LDK ALL THE TIME ITC (and not just SC and not just sitting down). I successfully LDK at regular nightclubs, and in any setting with music and female grinding on me.
Am I a PL? Not in the least. I know the joys of FS, sloppy HJ & BJ. I have a s/o butour schedules only allow for weekly interactions at best. But like many of you, I generally enjoy the stimulus of a new woman and one that isn't mine.
What's my secret? Simple: I dont masturbate. I store up for a few days to a week, wear thin black golf pants (fast dry just in case) or dress pants, place my John outside of my pre-equipped with a condom (no Liquid Lapdance pants - the condom is easier for clean up and allows you to urinate with less goop), hit a REGGAE or Hip Hop music playing venue and I find a Willing Participant (WP).
The WP comes in all shapes in sizes but has specific essentials:
1) Must be wearing a thin dress, leggings, yoga pants or a skirt (especially on that rides up) ABSOLUTELY NO JEANS.
2) Must provide a quality fit (doesn't always mean a huge ass, but at least a soft ass and ample friction
3) Must be ENTHUSIASTIC about grinding on a NH (noticeably harddick).
The lack of masturbation ensures success in 2-3 dances.
How do I make a civvie turn into a WP? I'm attractive, I charm, I dance, I smile. When she's comfortable, I grow. I gauge her reaction to the NH (for consent) then I I pull her in tight.
Reggae music is a major accomplice because it is similar to 90sRB (think Bump N Grind or Pony) yet more explicit and outs everyone in a mindset of FS w/clothes on.
You call it dry humping, but I'm never dry.
Best part is that WP thinks she's just dancing and is flattered by a NH.
No text, no calls, no babies, no STDs, no hotel, no drinks, no dates, no dinners, no conversation, no government names.
By mastering the technique, I achieve success EVERY time out with my preparation and meeting a WP.
$20 cover for a18+/21+ party where the crowd actually grinds even with strangers (Reggae culture) vs $60-$200 at an SC for a quality LDK without the hassle of searching. I lot for the former, but utilize the latter Sun-Wed in need or if pressed for time.
I LDK ALL THE TIME ITC (and not just SC and not just sitting down). I successfully LDK at regular nightclubs, and in any setting with music and female grinding on me.
Am I a PL? Not in the least. I know the joys of FS, sloppy HJ & BJ. I have a s/o butour schedules only allow for weekly interactions at best. But like many of you, I generally enjoy the stimulus of a new woman and one that isn't mine.
What's my secret? Simple: I dont masturbate. I store up for a few days to a week, wear thin black golf pants (fast dry just in case) or dress pants, place my John outside of my pre-equipped with a condom (no Liquid Lapdance pants - the condom is easier for clean up and allows you to urinate with less goop), hit a REGGAE or Hip Hop music playing venue and I find a Willing Participant (WP).
The WP comes in all shapes in sizes but has specific essentials:
1) Must be wearing a thin dress, leggings, yoga pants or a skirt (especially on that rides up) ABSOLUTELY NO JEANS.
2) Must provide a quality fit (doesn't always mean a huge ass, but at least a soft ass and ample friction
3) Must be ENTHUSIASTIC about grinding on a NH (noticeably harddick).
The lack of masturbation ensures success in 2-3 dances.
How do I make a civvie turn into a WP? I'm attractive, I charm, I dance, I smile. When she's comfortable, I grow. I gauge her reaction to the NH (for consent) then I I pull her in tight.
Reggae music is a major accomplice because it is similar to 90sRB (think Bump N Grind or Pony) yet more explicit and outs everyone in a mindset of FS w/clothes on.
You call it dry humping, but I'm never dry.
Best part is that WP thinks she's just dancing and is flattered by a NH.
No text, no calls, no babies, no STDs, no hotel, no drinks, no dates, no dinners, no conversation, no government names.
By mastering the technique, I achieve success EVERY time out with my preparation and meeting a WP.
$20 cover for a18+/21+ party where the crowd actually grinds even with strangers (Reggae culture) vs $60-$200 at an SC for a quality LDK without the hassle of searching. I lot for the former, but utilize the latter Sun-Wed in need or if pressed for time.
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And welcome to the discussions! ;)
Definitely won't be around Ricky
I did dream of accidentally starting a fire at work in one dream. Guess what? When I got to work, they were trying to figure out how a fire got started in the exact area I dreamed I did it. That was weird.
Estafador - There's that goldmine in Bronx. Best place hands down. As per the nightclubs, you must not go to Reggae parties. The women press, grind and wind their waistlines with more intent than any stripper and not caring if the dresses ride up. The difference is that strippers look for money whereas dancers in nightclubs are trying to either tease, get a drink, or capture a heart.
It's the same feel and intensity with just less money and poles.
As per the goldmine, I'm talking about Sin City. I'll write a review to help explain how to optimize the experience. It is the ONLY SC to which I pledge allegiance
I'm too grown up to bust a nut just from grinding. Sounds like something a high school student would do. I need manual stimulation whether it is by her hand, mouth, titties, or pussy.
I think you missed the secret ingredient to the magic: I store up for a few days to a week to make my dick more sensitive. You dont have to be in high school to LDK, you just need functional penis with normal levels of testosterone.
Try not ejaculating for two weeks and you'll a difference in blood flow, girth, stiffness and ability to erect on a whim. It's basic science good brother
If you're at a SC, relax, eat some wings, have some drinks, spot your girl and let her know you're going to the bathroom and will be right back. In the bathroom, urinate and strap up. No need to wear a condom for hours and condoms dont set off metal detectors. Put it on when you're ready to rock out.
Research "outer course". If it can cause an erection, it can inspire ejaculation.
Imagine if your s/o lived across the country and you saw her once every three weeks. You don't hit SC or ejaculate, and I promise you'll bust in less than 2minutes on FS.
People masturbate all the time to desensitize their dicks and build faux stamina. The less you ejaculate the more heightened your senses. This is how wet dreams and ejaculation by the touch of a feather is possible.
Women endure the same struggles if they dont orgasm.
Especially if you're paying for the seconds a stripper is spending with you, you're best bet is to be time efficient.
Skin-on-skin baby.
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I'm definitely going write a comprehensive review of the science of Sin City from a LDKer perspective.
Yes SC is an urban club predominantly thick Latina and Ebony dancers. There's no private rooms, champagne rooms or curtain booths. Everything is out in the open. The motto is "what can they say, if you pay".
Best time to go is Sun- Wednesday between 9-11pm. Less packed, more personal, long mileage per dollar. If you make the mistake of going Thurs-Sat you become a face in the concert crowd at best. If you go when I say, you become the director of a movie shoot.
I have my regulars' direct line so I hit them early and they want me to come back so they give me what I need. I'm an ass man so that's my niche. Sounds like you like tits. While they can't outright tittie fuck in plainview, remember the motto.
Pants on? There are no pants at Sin. Thongs, bikinis, and leotards as determined by the dancer.
I don't carry ones in Sin. I flash $20 so it's known what I'm looking for. When it's more crowded, you can get away with more sure but the trick is establishing rapport first with your dancers to assess ITC or OTC and pricing.
High class? No . But top notch urban. You're not getting in with sweatpants, but you're not going to a business meeting either. I'm not a rapper or thug so I come business casual.
We'll have to link for a Sin experience one day.
A lubed up titty fuck and lubed up bikini lapdance (dick out) , and lubed up hand job etc are all relatively in the same family. When my ex was a virgin that's exactly what we did. Lubed her up and she straddle my dick gliding up and down my shaft because she was anti- penetration
That's skin on skin too. So many possibilities out there good brother.
LDKisLife, may I ask you this, how much time had you invested in reading this forum before you first posted, as you seem to already understand the various POV's?
SJG
Arnold Schoenberg - Piano Concerto, Op. 42
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEY9lmCZ…
Perversion to me is frotts rubbing up on civvies in non dance environments (trains, malls, waiting lines etc) to LDK.
I dont go to parties for the music, nor to take oics, pop bottles, or look cool. I go for my nut. This is no different than plotting to go to an event to bag numbers I dont need to bag numbers. I rack numbers, frotting bodies, and LDK without need to text, call or even share any personal information.
In football, we call it leaving it on the field. Once the event is done, I'm done. Back to my regular routine.
To your question, this online forum is just the manifestation of consolidated conversations and discourse men have had since the Garden of Eden. I've had these conversations in barbershops, bbqs, SC, watching sports games etc. The perspectives aren't groundbreaking but rather repetitious and aligned with patriarchal, misogynistic, and hypermasculine heterosexual norms. The most refreshing aspect of this forum was that LDK82 has a damn near identical thought process as me though we use different terms (LDK = USS Universal Safe Sex). Thus the backlash, jabs, staunch opposition to LDK is all taken in stride. I've been frotting since 96
w.r.t. LDKing; I think that is more of a unique situation that some seem to be able to achieve; for most guys no-matter how long they go w/o release; it's unlikely they can LDK (maybe once or twice here and there, if that, but def not regularly).
We are all not the same – just like there are women whom have super-sensitive breasts.
LDK seems to be a unique thing and not something most can achieve following certain techniques or guidelines.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVOvZOWO…
We are def not all the same. Some of us are most stimulated on tip, others shaft, others balls, etc. All I know is that when my battery is full, my tip is in command
Take the LDK challenge and prove me wrong. I can store up in a day and LDK with the right friction. 3 weeks build up with friction and M
No LDK? That's a penile issue on any planet
Lap dance.....?
Mystery solved!
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