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9 years ago
Papi - Reggae culture is the catalyst for LDK. If it can cause and erection, it can cause ejaculation. What's the difference between a TF and a well positioned grind with a nice set of cheeks. TF used to be one of my favorite activities but I'm very much an ass man. I strongly disagree with the notion that LDK is not achievable regularly with prolonged releases. Wet dreams are a product of muscle memory and build up. Senses are heightened amid build up. I find that my anti mssturbation practice helps keep blood flowing, stronger harder erections, and alleviates limpness. Even after the first major nut, I find my turnover for the round to be much faster amd more fulfilling than if I had started with a low tank
We are def not all the same. Some of us are most stimulated on tip, others shaft, others balls, etc. All I know is that when my battery is full, my tip is in command
Take the LDK challenge and prove me wrong. I can store up in a day and LDK with the right friction. 3 weeks build up with friction and M
No LDK? That's a penile issue on any planet
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9 years ago
Subraman - Latinas (not Mexicans) are my preference. Im just more sexually aroused by caramel brown skin and Ebony thickness. Asians make my dick limp. Becky's (white girls) I'd entertain with Jessica Rabbit features. SF is just too slow for me. I would be note apt to explore backpage than to deal with SF SC.
The civvies in NYC alone will inspire regret for every dollar spent in SF on SC or escorts
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9 years ago
Hump a hand or hump a woman. That's the mindset for my LDK preference when s/o is not available
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9 years ago
Papi - that's exactly why I have a west Indian woman
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9 years ago
Papi - late twenties and mixed (Ethiopian, Native American, French, Spanish)
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9 years ago
SJG - Agreed. I just don't find Asians attractive. Civvies or otherwise. I've always loved thickness. Blacks and Latinas tend to be thick and rhythmically gifted. Russians were my weakspot in my teens as they develop fast.
Never said Asians were shit heads. They just dont get my dick hard.
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9 years ago
Papi- I just got on less than a week ago. I'll get to reviews soon enough.
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9 years ago
SJG - Hence I say male ESCORT. And the first question they ask is about sexual activity. I counter about companionship. They immediately identify cuz strippers see the Lamar Odom's as well as the Lil Waynes. The heartbroken, perverted, the narcissists etc. Lets the guard down AND shows that I know the hustle as much as they do, and allows us to talk directly about expectations.
As per male strippers, you have to do your research. Male strip clubs are two hour shows. Most have day jobs and take out calls. Few are full time in the business.
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9 years ago
SJG - Interacting with civvies at a party and to LDK = Perversion? Yet interacting with civvies a party to HJ/BJ/TF/FS = ??? Who's not focused on their own nut or plessure at SC?
Perversion to me is frotts rubbing up on civvies in non dance environments (trains, malls, waiting lines etc) to LDK.
I dont go to parties for the music, nor to take oics, pop bottles, or look cool. I go for my nut. This is no different than plotting to go to an event to bag numbers I dont need to bag numbers. I rack numbers, frotting bodies, and LDK without need to text, call or even share any personal information.
In football, we call it leaving it on the field. Once the event is done, I'm done. Back to my regular routine.
To your question, this online forum is just the manifestation of consolidated conversations and discourse men have had since the Garden of Eden. I've had these conversations in barbershops, bbqs, SC, watching sports games etc. The perspectives aren't groundbreaking but rather repetitious and aligned with patriarchal, misogynistic, and hypermasculine heterosexual norms. The most refreshing aspect of this forum was that LDK82 has a damn near identical thought process as me though we use different terms (LDK = USS Universal Safe Sex). Thus the backlash, jabs, staunch opposition to LDK is all taken in stride. I've been frotting since 96
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9 years ago
SJG- Not just young people. It's cultural. I've dancing like this since pre-teens. I used to bag numbers from as many WPs (willful participants) and the one that felt the best I'd LDK then FS when I met up with them separately.
I scaled back on that due to long term relationships, so LDK became my deed without paper trail. LDK = no drama, no rumors, no confessions, no transgressions, no lies, no STIs, no police.
I still look youthful enough to blend in (good genes) and I better other venues throughout NYC that I can utilize as well both for person and with s/o.
This is why I love NYC. Something for everyone.
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9 years ago
SJG - I just dont find Asians attractive. Southeast Asains can have cute faces but I prefer Blacks and Latinas, hence why I left SF
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9 years ago
Phoenix133 - It's definitely not as aggressive as female clubs. The structure is completely different though there are similarities ($20 dances, drink minimums, tips, extras).
Two hours before the show is a mix and mingle. Ladies have the opportunity to flirt, talk, chat and drink. No dances can happen during this time.
The actual show is only 2 hours. There are multiple dancers on stage with their choreographed performances while others roam the audience for those looking for laodances or massages.
Just like our experiences at female SC, custies call the shots on whatever they want and whatever they are comfortable with. Some ladies come to watch, some come to feel, get fingered, fuck, titties sucked, picked up, etc.
Outcalls are booked at $200
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9 years ago
Rickdugan - Duly Noted. The subject is not the cost a LDK worthy experience, but rather the vetting process for a LDQ when new to a SC.
I only deal with Sin City. As I explained I hit them on a slow night usually Monday or Tuesday 8-10pm. I chill at the bar focusing on a game, or video showing yet scanning the room on occasion.
I consider the LDK to be a super power. I can go to a regular nightclub for free, charm several girls at no cost and get a couple of LDKs off and be FULLY satisfied as I BBFS.
Im sure everyone agrees: not all pussy is equal. Likewise, not all lapdances are equal. I use my $200 to find and secure the best LDQ.
If you're spending $200 on pussy and the next man is paying $2000 and another is paying $20, you have to account for value proposition.
Basic economics.
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9 years ago
The reactions to spending $200 in a SC on a slow night/slow hour is exactly why I do it to leave a strong first impression.
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9 years ago
I do black golf pants (dry fast in case condom breaks) or dress pants that aren't but huggers. I usually go with satin or silk boxers with dick through the slit.
Find a soft thick booty and it's bliss. Works in regular clubs with civvies tok
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9 years ago
Mike1960 - $10 dances dont exist in NYC. So to your same math, 3-4 NYC dances runs $60-$80 not $30-$40. I'm sure you also wouldn't spend $2000/month on renting 600sq feet either. Again it's not about getting a LDK worthy dance but vetting the LDQ.
And yes I'll gladly be that grown man engaging in activities that are STD free, pregnancy free, drama free, and dont require asking if anyone is affiliated with law enforcement.
Most of y'all wine and dine striplers OTC, and drop $200 on just a hotel. My dick ejacukates just yours. I just have the privilege of finding my ecstasy in LDs and not ever have to worry about masturbation.
Sounds like $200 is hard to come by but it's the same ish on backpage
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9 years ago
Estafador- Context. SC is a secondary outlet to regular parties. And I wear a condom.
The breakdown is explained in earlier posts and this is just the vetting process in a NEW SC to find LDQ not just a LDK experience.
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9 years ago
LDK - Agreed with Backpage. Way too many stings, catfish, swaps, and no shows. It all works on referral network so it's best to aim for an in call but only for LDK .
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9 years ago
Lap Dance King - Correct. Time is money for dancers. A slow night ensures a little more patience and outs the ball in your court. They are more tolerable on slow nights given limited options.
I talk up the new girls with ones. Our convo is my stage dance. I dont do stage tips for anyone regardless of talent hence I dont sit near a stage. Im there for the freaks. Hell even the bartenders, waitresses and bouncers could be helpful accomplices (never ask for 1 dancer, always top 3-5 dancers and compare and assess).
As for the regular, you and I are similar yet differ on regular treatment. My variety I get from civvies so I like what I like but will be open to a new audition if I see something with potential. She becomes my warm up. However you like variety within the SC though you also would not waste a LD on a nomgrinder. We share a similar direct approach. I would advise you save your regular for last since you know that experience. I would make my regular my PIC (partner in crime) and have her recruit my new booty for a $20-$40 tip. Keeps her as a regular and she can't be made because it's a slow night anyway. Or you could get regular a drink and not do that for the new girls. As long as she feels special.
If 10 dancers are suspected to give LDK-worthy lap dances, you would try a new one each time you visited spending $20 each time (sensing price conscious) since each are capable of getting the job done. I would give them a pre-combine ranking based on look and aura, and if dances are public, observe and reorder (just as I do at parties). They draft them themselves by approaching me (some divine intervention) of course Top 5 will get eye contact. Bottom five might audition or get tipped. In observing, I learn their stage names. I would conduct 5 auditions for first five to approach me and pass tip interview, the best of those five comes back for 3 more. The second night, I target 5 I didn't get hit and finish with my previous favorite. By the third night, first round draft is done. While the fave from night 1 hit $60-$80, the #2 would have $20.
So yes I invest $400 over 10 women, I emerge that 3rd night with an enthusiastic, and unrushed LDK from my LDQ who has proven to be the best. I get a LDQ I can depend for a quickie so I need not linger, but also a roster of alternatives if unavailable.
If these were $10 lap dances, I would try all ten in one night and LDQ comes back for 10 more so she knows she's LDQ.
The thing i hate most about LDK is being rushed. Or clocked. I tip for effectiveness and efficiency so LDQ doesn't feel she misses out on money if I nut to fast. And because she knows I mingle with others, and I know others want her spot they'll transcend the game.
Because most custies and even regs stop at $60-$100 and the SC universe clocks spending habits, my $200 game creates a "who are you " "what do you do" "let's keep in contact" mystique. My default is that I'm a male escort which keeps the interest high as the next question is how much to I charge to DATY
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9 years ago
Georgmicrodong- $200 is the all inclusive ceiling for the night. $200 is a hr outcall on backpage. The point you miss is the audition. $160 in twenties is 8 lap dances. I only need 2-3 ($40-$60) to LDK. You spend $200 on a hotel with one girl. I spend that at MOST for multiple. My dick ejaculates like yours. Different being you keep paying $200 for a cheap hotel, I keep cut my costs each time out with increasing quality and efficiency.
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9 years ago
Your Royal Highness - Context is king. $10 doesn't get you a drink in NYC. This is my winning formula for NYC. And with the exception of the High Roller Wall Street places making there's on VIP and champagne rooms and private booths, the principles are universal.
As an LDKer, my clubs of choice are all open. None of this "follow me" bullshit me girls pull and end up doing shit that a civvie would do in a club. For those establishments with out in the open booths, this works. For those with private booths, you are correct: be direct yet still audition. If I mention my NH, and she doesn't grab it, she doesn't audition.
$200 is for the ENTIRE visit. Always set a ceiling. I usually split pockets. $80 in each back pocket, $40 front left. Cover (if any), drink minimums (if any), coat check, food, hookah, etc all accounted for.
There are times when you want an LDK quick and fast. There are others where you want to prolong it. Price sensitive moments go with #2 cuz she's hungry. Prolonging? LDQ cuz she's comfortable.
The goals is that you decrease the amount you spend on an LDK without having to count dances. Flat rate LDK whether with ones or $20 because rapport is established. Repeat business is more profitable than milking. Thus you have the clout of a Regular the pocket of a newbie.
If you like variety, audition. If you like the audition extend it and finish and go.
If you must use trial by error, bitch about the last girl's air dance and you'll narrow the hunt for your WP.
Visible money, I alternate between the ones and the $80 in twenties. The ones ensure an approach, she'll think a tip or conversation. The twenties convey you're looking for something serious. If you dont know the ROBs (I can them sharks) in a club, just go with the ones. If you've identified your targets, twenties
BTW these are hip hop video vixen shaped women (though most store bought) with 8s and 9s everywhere
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9 years ago
Clubdude - I only play in NYC and definitely on Team Super Sensitive. Similar to your name, my primary outlet is actually clubs where I get in free or less than $20 cover. I only hit SC if I need the LDK urgently.
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9 years ago
Motorhead- Duly noted. While you consistently pay $200 for FS, the cost of LDK drops while quality only increases.
I've had BBBJ greater than most BBFS. The cost of pussy is not equal. Likewise I've experienced LDK worthy LD greater than BB anything.
Play the game right, and you feel like you BBFS for just $60.
The goal is to increase time and cost efficiency to be in and out yet fully satisfied.
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9 years ago
Samsung1 - New York City. I guess that helps in context as some people are talking about $2 and $5 LD.
NYC SCs just have a different standard altogether. There's more competition between girls and clubs given proximity, options, population, and market.
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9 years ago
It's a science. I can be in and out in ten minutes with optimal LDK for $60 with nominal adverse impact on personal or professional life.
All depends on how much you value the quality of experience. I have my one vetted SC, vetted LDQ and my #2-5.