Comments by masonseth69

The other way I look at it is that it would make no sense for her to screw me over on the 'advance' as it's a small amount compared to what she'll be making with me going forward if she doesn't screw me over. I'll post the results in a few weeks when we are scheduled to spend quite a bit of time together.

Yep, no problem. Exactly why I post here... looking for advice on stuff I'm still pretty new to.

A gesture of good will was exactly what I told my buddy. She had recently took the risk of skipping a Friday night at the SC (a good earning night) to meet up with me somewhere. If I didn't show, she would have been out a lot of money. I also appreciated a significant chunk of extra time when she didn't have to do that. If the risk pays off, she's happy and maybe I get what I like to think of as 'preferred status'.

Yeah, still very early with this girl, so it's a calculated risk and the money wasn't a lot to me. But so far, she has been very honest, responsive and reliable. Also puts up with my drunk-texting and sends me hot pics of herself in return. Hoping this works out well and turns out into a long term deal. Working out the details for a Vegas trip.

Update: She agreed to meet for coffee. We'll see if she shows and take it from there. It took a little persuading and unfortunately I'll need to pa for her time, but at least I won't need to submit any info and I'll get to see what she's all about first.

I'm really a novice with strip clubs. Just a few months ago if you had asked me what OTC was I would have had no clue. However, not too long ago I was in the VIP room with a gorgeous stripper who was being extremely friendly... So I took what I considered was a super long-shot and asked her if she'd fuck me. To my absolutely amazement, she said yes. I said, "really" to which she responded, "you know how this works". We worked out the details. That experience led me to this site and I guess it turns out that my experience is basically part of the game sometimes. So far, 100% and no bad reactions :)

Thanks everyone. Since I don't frequent SCs that often and the stripper I meet OTC is hard to schedule time with... I still want to pursue the escort route. However, I will suggest some alternatives to verification as suggested here and see what happens. She will take referrals, but I have none. It looks like she accepts Date Check but that looks more intrusive than what she is asking for. Upon further review, she is not asking for my employer, but still wants full name and of course a contact number.

I haven't had an escort yet, but I did find a hot stripper to meet up with OTC. It's been a great experience, I went to see her at the club a few times, got to know her and knew exactly what I was getting. Certainly feels safer to me as I have her number, facebook, email, etc. Because she shared so much about herself, I feel very comfortable with the situation.

Yeah, I'd feel bad going to the same club and trying to find another girl. I've got big plans for her in late August, if we 'connect' well during that time I'll be very happy. But this has started slow, any maybe that's just her being cautious, but it took a long time to engage in our first session.

Agreed.

3rd time is a charm. Had a great time, gonna set this up on a regular basis.

Minnesota. Like I said, this opportunity quite literally fell into my lap. The clubs here seem really strict, but maybe more girls do OTC than I assumed.

Poker games are usually 6 hours. I'd rather over-pay initially to let her know I'm serious about paying for her time. If it works out, maybe come to something more reasonable on an on-going basis.

Where the hell to these clubs exist with this type of service?

I just wish I clubbed enough to warrant a break-through. I only go a few times a year, but wish I went a few times a month.

Good advice everyone. Love the Yogi Berra quotes. I'm not emotionally vested in this, just seriously pumped it could happen. The great thing about the rendezvous point is it's a casino/hotel and I'm playing Texas Hold'em regardless. If she shows up, spec-fucking-tacular. If not, I'm still playing poker. I know she's got a chaotic life, 3 kids, works the club 4 nights a week, etc. My gut feel is she's legit, given the specifics on price, her availability etc. But I'm also guessing when the agreed upon day rolls around she's playing it by ear and if it works into her schedule great, if not she'll not show. Regardless, I'll assume SS (picking up on the slang!) and if she shows, then great. The other deal we discussed is her dealing my home poker games. The guys would love that. She said she makes $800 on a good night at the club (small town) for an 8 hour shift. I'd pay her more than that to be stripper/dealer with 7-8 tame guys at my place. I gotta believe that's a better gig than grinding it out at the club.

Oh, and there was one other thing that led me to believe she was serious about this and that was the offer to come to her house. I declined that venue, but her address did check out.

Definitely not dating. Strictly business with an agreed upon amount. I was more explicit with her than I described in the post so there is no confusion about what will happen. Yeah, I'm thinking if it's a miss on the 3rd attempt I'll move on. So, first time posting here. Help me with the slang.. OTC? ITC? SS? FS?

Great summary. Similar to my experience.