Would u rather get an escort and pay up front...or sample strip clubs til you find a pay4play/fwb and maybe say why..I'm curious and like to know some other perspectives/experiences.
I like both. With escorts, you have to do your research or that hot Cambodian 21 year old that you're about to spend money on ends up being a not so hot, 51 year old Cambodian.
I enjoy going to the strip club, relaxing, and sampling the wares. It's fun decoding which chick is down to do what. Strip clubs remind me of Tapas Bars. You eat lots of small plates of appetizers. Some clubs are no extras so you're game or whatever you wanna call it had to be sharp. You wanna set up some OTC.
Escorts are great. From my experience, both Craigslist and Backpage started off promising but went downhill fast. I've had better luck on Cityvibe. The problem with escorts is that the ones really worth it also cost more. It's just the price of doing business.
I'm not really into paying anyone for meeting up later. Sometimes random girls come up to me, sometimes they want money, sometimes they don't. However I don't know these people. I'm not criticizing those who do pay. I think prostitution and escort services should be as legal as strip clubs. It happens. I'm surprised there haven't been some liberal democrats trying to legalize it and tax it to death to get more money to spend.
Even though escorts may be cheaper, some of us (me included) like the thrill of the hunt. We like to see if we can coax a dancer out of her intended environment. Knowing that the club she works for might fire her if the club knew she was meeting customers OTC for pay, adds to the thrill.
I haven't had an escort yet, but I did find a hot stripper to meet up with OTC. It's been a great experience, I went to see her at the club a few times, got to know her and knew exactly what I was getting. Certainly feels safer to me as I have her number, facebook, email, etc. Because she shared so much about herself, I feel very comfortable with the situation.
This has been covered here before, but wha true hell; it's usually an interesting topic. :)
I prefer strippers becaus did the "try before you buy" aspect. Irrespective of OTC possibilities (I've met a number of dancers what would do anything ITC, but won't go out), if I can spend an hour or so perusing the talent, talking to them, getting a feel (fuliguratively *and* literally) for them, and then get to take one of them back for more fun, I'll take that over calling an escort and maybe or maybe not getting as advertised.
As for cost, the most reliable, best reviewed escorts in this town tend to be in the $250+ per hour range. For another $100, I can spend some time in a club copping a feel from a bunch of girls, then get roughly the same time and service from a dancer. And if I *can* get one out of the club, the per session cost tends to go down over time. At least it has for me.
There's no right or wrong answer, of course. If escorts end up working for you, then they do. Do your research though, so you can avoid the most egregious scammers and poor performers. Use naughtyreviews.com, usasexguide.info, theeroticreview and other sites. Which one of those works best for you depends on your area and what you're looking for. Participation varies from area to area; in one area NR may be the place to go, while USASG is dead, and 200 miles away, the exact opposite might be true.
I like the clubs to find prospects but prefer time at my hotel with the girls who sho special promise in the club. For about the same price as escorts, and often much less, a good time can be had with a stripper but in a proper bed without counting songs.
Great information guys thanks for all the input. I figure it may be a repeat sorry, but it might help me to see the current methods of seeing an escort in case they have changed. I see the point of what has been said that SCs allow for getting to know the person before hand and sampling a bit. Escorts are a clearer method, but u don't really know what you are going to get and a premium price. I have thought about Craigslist personals..my friends tell me I should just go to a gay bar that id probably do well, but i'm shy as hell so I like how dancers do all the work in trying to rope you in. Thanks guys for the useful websites, ill do some more research
Oh and those that get ITC action..for a while I did get quite the mileage to point that I got paranoid of getting buated in the club, but not the point of FS..how do you feel about being possibly busted? Or is that part of the thrill?
In 35 years of clubbing and having various kinds of sex with strippers, I've never been busted. I don't recall ever being in a club when it was raided. There was one occasion when a club was warned that cops were on their way, but none showed up while I was there.
Don't get naked (which should be easier for you, as a woman, even if you're being fully serviced) and make sure that whatever state of undress you do achieve can be fixed quickly.
Above all, if the worst does occur, keep your mouth shut. In many places, prostitution can only be *proven* by your admission or direct observation by a cop or surveillance system. Even the prostitute's admission isn't sufficient to *prove* that *you* committed a crime. The worst they can usually get you on if you clam up is public indecency or something like that.
I much prefer setting up OTC with strippers for the reasons others here have mentioned. ITC is fine as well. When I first started clubbing I used to worry about getting busted, but that fear faded away as I don't think that LE would even know what to do with a female customer that they found half naked in the VIP room!
The only one I fear getting busted from nowadays is the wifey.
Over many years, I've only found two or three escorts who I found as attractive (looks-wise) as my dancer favs. With each of those hot escorts, I got the feeling they had debilitating emotional problems, which were keeping them from getting into the higher-end (higher $$$) of escorting. But I've never had any luck getting any fav dancer to do P4P. A couple were willing to talk about it, but the $$$ they had in mind was beyond my budget.
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I enjoy going to the strip club, relaxing, and sampling the wares. It's fun decoding which chick is down to do what. Strip clubs remind me of Tapas Bars. You eat lots of small plates of appetizers. Some clubs are no extras so you're game or whatever you wanna call it had to be sharp. You wanna set up some OTC.
Escorts are great. From my experience, both Craigslist and Backpage started off promising but went downhill fast. I've had better luck on Cityvibe. The problem with escorts is that the ones really worth it also cost more. It's just the price of doing business.
I prefer strippers becaus did the "try before you buy" aspect. Irrespective of OTC possibilities (I've met a number of dancers what would do anything ITC, but won't go out), if I can spend an hour or so perusing the talent, talking to them, getting a feel (fuliguratively *and* literally) for them, and then get to take one of them back for more fun, I'll take that over calling an escort and maybe or maybe not getting as advertised.
As for cost, the most reliable, best reviewed escorts in this town tend to be in the $250+ per hour range. For another $100, I can spend some time in a club copping a feel from a bunch of girls, then get roughly the same time and service from a dancer. And if I *can* get one out of the club, the per session cost tends to go down over time. At least it has for me.
There's no right or wrong answer, of course. If escorts end up working for you, then they do. Do your research though, so you can avoid the most egregious scammers and poor performers. Use naughtyreviews.com, usasexguide.info, theeroticreview and other sites. Which one of those works best for you depends on your area and what you're looking for. Participation varies from area to area; in one area NR may be the place to go, while USASG is dead, and 200 miles away, the exact opposite might be true.
Good luck.
Don't get naked (which should be easier for you, as a woman, even if you're being fully serviced) and make sure that whatever state of undress you do achieve can be fixed quickly.
Above all, if the worst does occur, keep your mouth shut. In many places, prostitution can only be *proven* by your admission or direct observation by a cop or surveillance system. Even the prostitute's admission isn't sufficient to *prove* that *you* committed a crime. The worst they can usually get you on if you clam up is public indecency or something like that.
The only one I fear getting busted from nowadays is the wifey.