Breakthrough
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
After a four month hiatus from clubbing, I'm now back SC'ing with a vengeance. Interestingly, it seems I've had some sort of breakthrough for enjoying the hobby.
I feel I now understand & accept the provider/client relationship at a much more clearer level. I no longer mix civilian type relationship banter into my SC experience.
I've become adroit at slicing thru the normal SS hustle. I no longer try to understand (or care) how these young sexy baby-dolls are able to let a middle aged fugly dude like me be intimate with them. Now, I merely immerse myself in their charms and if I sense any apprehension on their part I simply move on to the next honey.
I'm still very generous, respectful (relatively) and entertaining. The difference is, now, my personal enjoyment has a much higher precedence. If a honey makes me happy, she is rewarded very well. If she doesn't, we soon part ways.
This understanding and experience has increased my level of enjoyment while clubbing exponentially.
Let me tell you my TUSCL brothers that this has been one fucking expensive breakthrough :-).
Do you any of you vets remember having such a breakthrough?
I feel I now understand & accept the provider/client relationship at a much more clearer level. I no longer mix civilian type relationship banter into my SC experience.
I've become adroit at slicing thru the normal SS hustle. I no longer try to understand (or care) how these young sexy baby-dolls are able to let a middle aged fugly dude like me be intimate with them. Now, I merely immerse myself in their charms and if I sense any apprehension on their part I simply move on to the next honey.
I'm still very generous, respectful (relatively) and entertaining. The difference is, now, my personal enjoyment has a much higher precedence. If a honey makes me happy, she is rewarded very well. If she doesn't, we soon part ways.
This understanding and experience has increased my level of enjoyment while clubbing exponentially.
Let me tell you my TUSCL brothers that this has been one fucking expensive breakthrough :-).
Do you any of you vets remember having such a breakthrough?
6 comments
1) it was commented in a recent thread about having low expectations when one goes to a SC (I also read this same comment a few months ago). This has helped me personally in not getting too annoyed (or at least less often that I used to) when I go to a SC expecting/hoping for a great time and then receiving poor treatment from the dancers.
2) being more cognizant of whom I spend my $$$ on - i.e. spend my $$$ on whom I truly like/desire and not on what’s available – i.e. be content with going home w/ most of my $$$ if the particular club visit does not have what I am looking for