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13 years ago
Sounds like a real jerk.
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13 years ago
I would say a great regular knows my.stage name, my real first name, what I look like, my email address, my phone number, and my work schedule. That's about it.
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13 years ago
YES!
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13 years ago
I usually work in places that change $20 or $30 dollars per dance.The club has set these prices and they are posted. I will not negotiate under $20 dollars Ever. Usually my dances are $30. I believe I'm worth every penny and more. I do not, I repeat do not ever ask for tips. I don't believe in it. I also dance on the west coast though. I have found that prices can be higher out here. I also should mention, though, that in no circumstances do I blame someone for not wanting to pay high prices. Customers want the best deal and they should get it, I just am not the one to give it to them. It hasn't hurt my business and it won't.
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13 years ago
I never ask about someone's family. It's absolutely a taboo topic. Now if they bring it up and want to talk, I'm all ears.
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13 years ago
@govikings- yes yes it seems nuts
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13 years ago
I agree with farmerart. Everyone puts a different value on thing.
@jackslash- No the guy was extremely successful and "normal". I didn't give him pussy. Some guys have certain preferences and fetishes that get them off just like sex.
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13 years ago
I leave who I trust up to my better judgement. I'm a trusting person by nature. Dancing has definetly made me trust less but it hasn't broken me. I, of course, don't necessarily trust customers but, depending on the look in their eye or the vibe they give off, I can make pretty accurate judgements about them.
Example- A customer says "Let me go get the rest of the money from the Atm up the street that doesn't charge a surcharge. I'll be right back". The fact is that I can't trust him or anyone for that matter in the club when they say that. However, based on my experiences with him and with those customers that have similar traits as him, I can make an almost always accurate guess as to how he will behave.
I will also add that there are many trustworthy men that enter the stripclub. Unfortunately they dont leave that way. By the time they meet me, they have been ripped off, cheated, and put down by a number of girls, who no doubt have had the same thing happen to them by horrible customers. It's a cycle and everyday another one gets pulled in. Dancers like me have to fight for respect and trustworthy customers have to swim through all the jaded girls to find a good dancer and some just don't make it.
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13 years ago
@govikings- yes...but it took awhile for me to say yes to him because I was nervous to commit myself
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13 years ago
I think that the thrill of the chase is huge. Without sex involved, I do give quality dances and I will go the extra mile to please someone. That being said, I feel extremely lucky to be offered what I've been offered and I consider it an opportunity that I believe many overlook. The people that offered me this money are quality people. I only wish, at the time, I could've been smart enough to realize that and not be such an entitled bitch and piss it all away. But I learned and I haven't made the same mistake twice.
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13 years ago
I was offered $5000 to meet someone for an hour with no sex, intercourse or oral. I was paid $40,000 by one person in one night to guarantee my one night a week for a three month stretch. I usually don't do OTC so I've had high offers. I think sometimes, for the guys, its just the thrill of the chase
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13 years ago
Offer for sex? or just seeing a customer outside the club without sex? For just one night? Be more specific.
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13 years ago
I have worked with one girl who was completely unkempt. No bikini line, just really dark bushy long hair that traveled down onto her legs.
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13 years ago
Yes I like well groomed areas on men. Not completely bare but trimmed down.
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13 years ago
Because I dance, I prefer to shave it all. It eliminates sweat and odor that can build up underneath a non breathable thong during a lapdance session. It keeps me drier, along with summers eve spray.
If I didn't dance, I would probably give in to a request not to shave.
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13 years ago
@johnbuford- Wow! Okay..You're the reason I like older men...and if you're young, I'll still take you.
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13 years ago
@johnbuford- Wow! Okay..You're the reason I like older men...and if you're young, I'll still take you.
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13 years ago
@farmerart- I agree
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13 years ago
Gmd, I will let you know
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13 years ago
@GMD- we should go clubbing together
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13 years ago
I've been in two. Not very fun.
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13 years ago
@govikings- With the types of clubs I'm working in these days I would say once or twice a shift on average.
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13 years ago
Forty two dollars is the most I've spent on one girl.
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13 years ago
This is depressing
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13 years ago
I prefer a heads up if you are going to finish. I usually will ask a customer if they would like me to keep going after they finish. They usually say no and head to the bathroom. I don't assume that just because someone finishes that the dance is over unless they tell me they are done.