Comments by K

"I just look for something different." different women isn't enough?

Both are known for what you are looking for. DDTR edges out Hazlet. Hazlet has the advantage of being near other clubs, both extra and non-extra.

yes, many of us are dicks. You have a new account and did not bother to learn our ways. Posting publicly about a specific dancer and extras violates our rules. I asked you to clarify who you meant, and you never bothered to answer. post a few reviews. get some credibility. learn our ways. some of us may have answered you in a PM. But only after we know you aren't LE or the dancer's SO and only after you earned it.

don't forget to post a full report.

go to a club. have your GF pick out a dancer she likes. tell the dancer what you want. I expect OTC would be a better option for this than ITC. Make sure you are prepared.

I am sure these new accounts asking about a specific dancer are a BF trying to find out if he can trust his GF. Some might be another man, or woman, in her life looking to embarrass her. I you have choices to make 1. trust her, put the jealousy aside and enjoy your relationship with her. 2. Break up with her 3. take her off the market. Support her so she doesn't need to dance. 4. be miserable. Number 3 isn't going to be a good option for someone insecure and jealous. Years from now you will hold it over her. it will eat away at you wondering if she did ITC or OTC. How many guys was it? did she enjoy it? Stick around and read the discussions. Search for posts and articles about dating a dancer. Want to build a life with her? Get some therapy. Work on yourself. Learn to be secure in yourself and to deal with jealousy. Come clean with her. Apologize. Work on your trust issues with her.

I'm not sure, which one is she?

She was there last week and is on the schedule for this weekend.

i think the heyday for EE women, for me at least, was about a decade earlier. . Take out has always been easy in my experience. Yes, i have dated some of them. Crazy stories? no. they are typical stories for a dedicated PL I explored Sheepshead bay and some of the other EE neighborhoods of Brooklyn with dancers. We would sometimes meet up or run into other dancers and their BF's and husbands. this wasn't unique to the time, place or them being EE. What sort of stories are you looking for?

In my experience, any that high is her saying "no" without saying "no"

That last comment is a suggestion for a new feature

Instead of bothering founder, if several vip members with some history down vote a published review, the review is removed

Berlin News agency ?

Why would i want to outgrow this hobby? I enjoy women. In every job I've had, the old men were going to strip clubs, chasing tail looking at porno magazines and visiting hookers. I started going to strip clubs and bikini bars in my teens half century ago. There were many old timers then and always have been.

ask her to bring her tits out? she either will or she will tell you what it will take. "part of me thinks she'd be down for OTC. how / when do I ask?" - now and "i'd want to meet up for (a date, BJ, over night, whatever it is you want)" make sure you specify what you want, be prepared with a number you feel comfortable with. Have an actual plan.

they closed down a long time ago. there was a brief opening two years ago. the dates on the Instagram posts for the october 27th grand opening are from two years ago. the last post on IG is from Early January 2023. IMO, there are too many in the area to support another. GGR, DD hazlet, Fantasies, Centerfolds, 516, Red Zebra - recently closed, Bourbon Street, Black betty, XXV, Visions

" they may very well provide extras, but it will be mechanical extras most of the time and theyll likely do Cbj instead of bbbj." Not in my experience. "the SO girl will be a strict clock watcher" Not in my experience. I have close to half a century in this hobby including OTC. I am meeting with four regularly. Two of those have a SO. One had an SO until recently. They are far from mechanical. I am more likely to watch the clock than they are. "Time for you to leave" As always, YMMV

Ok. makes sense. this shows how not being perfectly clear hurts your message. She gets these offers often and will not be offended. I hope this one says yes to you. if not, i hope the rejection helps you realize, there is no downside to asking. the worst that happens is she says no. You then continue as you were, or you move on to find someone else. Your choice.

"I just need to step my game up.." stop with game. Ask her. Clearly tell her you want to meet up OTC, why you want to meet up, when, where and how much you are offering. As for dancers with a SO not providing ITC or OTC extras, I've had dancers call me up for a meet up because they need some extra cash to buy their BF a present. the most common justification is that this isn't cheating, it is work. Second most common is she will do extras until he steps up and starts paying all of her bills.

" 20 dollars for 5 minutes is 400 hr" an hour is 60 minutes. 5 goes into 60 twelve times. 12x20 is 240, not 400. or is my math wrong?

1. Amber 2. Tara 3. Red. 4. Jenn, Lori, Ashley

Ashley or Marie. I've given up on trying to get a dance with Marie. Her regulars have her booked all night.

why not contact her directly through twitter or OF?

Sammy63 As always, ymmv. Several women have told me they will not let men with long or jagged or dirty fingernails go FIV. I am sure FIV is off the menu during a dancers period. As for kissing, I think once one or two do it, others need to offer it to compete. Years ago FS was so common here that kissing was pushing the boundaries.

"Female security " ? No