Why would anyone help you stalk a woman you saw online?
If you want to see her in person just send her a message and tell her you want to get some dances from her and ask her where she works. If she wants to sell you some dances she will tell you. If she doesn't want people that found her online to know where she works in real life she won't tell you and you should respect her privacy.
It's not "triggering", but it's also true that we don't know you or your motives (good, bad, or otherwise). So, the smart move is to not assist a potential stalker or ex whatever. Because we've seen that on this site before.
It's your responsibility to ask for a dancer's contact info to stay in touch with her. And if you reached out to her on X and she didn't reply, then maybe she doesn't want randos following her from club to club.
Yes, strippers are known for their propensity to not want new clients to dance for. Most of them actually hate money and dance to give back to the community.
Dancers love new clients and money, but many dancers are also fearful for the safety. Many dancers have been stalked (or worse) by customers over the years so they tend to be protective of their information, especially the ones who also have other revenue streams online that could attract creeps.
I hate that you have to fill out new strip club visitor paperwork every time you step into a strip club and interview with each dancer before any lap dances are given out. It's all Kamala's fault!!!
In all honest though, I'm glad you guys are looking out for the dancers. That's actually kinda cool and no I'm not looking to stalk anyone, but yes I would like to see her naked at her work where she strips for money.
What about the other revenue streams is it that attracts creeps? Are all onlyfans subscribers or internet porn watchers creeps?
Anyway, if this dancer doesnt want to give out her workplace info online, it has nothing to do with stalking concerns. On the contrary, she simply doesnt want her online profile linked to her stripper job. The dancers worried about stalkers arent worried about them coming to their club- they’re worried about people finding or following them outside the club.
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If you want to see her in person just send her a message and tell her you want to get some dances from her and ask her where she works. If she wants to sell you some dances she will tell you. If she doesn't want people that found her online to know where she works in real life she won't tell you and you should respect her privacy.
You'll get further than with cyber stalking
It's your responsibility to ask for a dancer's contact info to stay in touch with her. And if you reached out to her on X and she didn't reply, then maybe she doesn't want randos following her from club to club.
It's all Kamala's fault!!!
Anyway, if this dancer doesnt want to give out her workplace info online, it has nothing to do with stalking concerns. On the contrary, she simply doesnt want her online profile linked to her stripper job. The dancers worried about stalkers arent worried about them coming to their club- they’re worried about people finding or following them outside the club.