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18 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
BookGuy, I am so in agreement with no one should touch your money, or feel they have the right to grab at pockets or wallets..I have worked with girls who are like this and find it just low class and disrespectful to someone..It would cause me to leave immediately..
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18 years ago
Book Guy, If I have a day where I want to do something different with my hair, do it, and it looks good, I am so much happier and smiley, it is about a dancer feeling good about herself, witch in turns means I am a better entertainment for you ....Somedays I am good with nothing or days I want to look like a princess, it just all depends, and if I go with my mood, my day is uasually more productive..
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18 years ago
I would think that some like myself, that sexuality is part of the personality ..... I am just very sexual in nature, but also love getting into great conversations about out of club topics..
Isn't kinda something that is a pre req for dancing, without sexuality can ya give a good dance??
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18 years ago
I dance in the cleveland area. I have only danced in topless clubs.. I have been dancing 10 years, and at my current place for going on 5 years...
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18 years ago
As for thee action question, It will be about the same for all who follow the rules, with ATF's, I may just spend more time being as close as I can without getting the evil manager look...
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18 years ago
With girls I work with, My best friend of 5 years also works with me, her and I always have our tongue's down one anothers throats...
With customers, no, girls I don't know or haven't worked with long, no...I am talking with people I know, yes I think it is a very intimate thing, and would not just share that with anyone, it means nothing and is not a turn on at all if everyone gets it...
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18 years ago
When dancing for an ATF, its an enjoyment of the chemisrty, and feeling very comfortable with some one... There have been ones that it has turned me on incredibly to dance for..
Its knowing partly, how much I am the one he wants most, how much he enjoys my dances, it is a very stimulating to me when I get to dance for an ATF...
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18 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
DougS, rejection is part of your work day as a dancer...
So is going on stage, dancing your heart out, and your ass off and not getting one tip, it happens...Oh well I am there to do my job and sometimes its better then others..
Not asking for a dance though, I can't even imagine not doing that..
Some days I don't want to talk to anyone, or be all happy and smiley, but still do it, still go talk and ask for dances, if I don't make money and didn't ask for dances its my own fault..
If I don't make money and was asking for dances it must be a feed the fat chicks night , and just wasn't my turn to make money..
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18 years ago
DougS, I agree whole that when things click, you can get a nice build up and rise, and slow down, and then it time for beer..LOL
The more you have danced for someone you can feel the best way to dance for them, I like when someone has time for multi dances in a row, as you can go into your own little world for a while..I have caught myself when I have been with an (ATF)
(yes as a dancer we have some that we just love to dance for and are so comfortable with I guess the term ATF would fit..
Anyway, I have caught myself not even knowing any of the last songs played, or who and where stage rotation is from being so wrapped up in that little corner of another world...
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18 years ago
I have danced for girls and couples sitting right next to each other..
Alot of times if girls are not use to being in s stripclub, they are to uptight to enjoy themsevles.
Woman who have been there, and get into going can be alot of fun to dance for.. If it is a female customer I don't know, no she gets no more freedom then anyone else.... I don't feel thats fair to anyother paying person in there...
Now if it happens to be a hot chick I know ( dancer or x-dancer that I met or a freind) yea they may get a little more, but not a whole lot more then maybe me sticking my tongue down their throat...
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18 years ago
do you define action, as, extra's?? or normal full contact dance???
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18 years ago
As a dancer, I like it better with not a whole lot of talking..
If a guy shows he wants to talk, then yes, I will.
Over all, I would rather concentrate on giving you a good dance, then conversation, that can be done while we have a beer...LOL
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18 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
HappyLapper, thanks, and yes, we were both pleased in thee end..
Dancing is a great job to me, and guys can take it for what its worth.. My goal is to make money and you happy all within the rules and boundries of entertainment...
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18 years ago
Yes, by all means there are times that you just have a chemistry with someone....Its not maybe that he is all that "hot" by normal standards its just that things just seem to click between the two...
We are sexual creatures and yes some guys have really turned me on to dance for them.
We will talk about some one who has turned us on when we are in the dressing room, it makes our night more fun, and sometimes you'll see a girl get like highschool silly about it, we are only human, minaswell enjoy that sexual energy..
Yea, we do talk about the ones hung like a donkey, we can't help but realize its there.... We have a few regulars who know we have discussed how BIG they are ...
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18 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Book Guy, thats all it is, fantasy and entertainment... I don't lead anyone on to think its more then that, and love to dance for someone who enjoys it for what it is.....
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18 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Yes the job its self is about money...That does not mean we lie and or cheat, manipulate to take your money... Some yes are as dishonest as you could get...Some like me, enjoy the job, and don't mind doing thier job to make moeny, I'll rock your cock all day in the corner ding a lap dance, do I want you to feel relaxed, and will I be smiling, YES, I will be, thats my job..
Please realize there are dancers out there like myself who enjoy the job, and I only want to dance and entertain you, and expect to get paid for that job, not just trying to take whatever you may have in your walet.. You worked for that to come in and spend, so lieing and or manipulating someone to get their money is not for me...
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18 years ago
For me depends on the day, what I would like to do with hair and makeup..
I would say average is a half and hour, to an hour is there if there is like major hair stuff going on..
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18 years ago
I have to say as a dancer, I love hearing all of this. I am one of those dancers who have watched all the stupid things other girls do, and have learned greatly from it..
The credit card line was the best, I can only hope I have never done anything worth a story here...
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18 years ago
Ok, Guys, I am thee older hard body, no sags, type girl...
I do carry myself with more class then others I work with I think..
When it comes to giving a dance though, I don't think I would come off as because I am experienced you'll like it no matter what..
I like the challenge of figuring out what each guys likes..
Every dance is and should be different..
Then benefit to being older is being able to pick up on what a guy is looking for in a dance and company..
I would like to think that my experience helps me adapt to whatever someone is looking for, and if I realize I am not what your looking for , I will gladly go away, and or find you who and or what you want...
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18 years ago
Attitude is everything..In work and life, life to short to be miserable ...
I am in the cleveland area,don't know if thats anywhere you ever make it too... and thanks for asking..
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18 years ago
Every dancer is going to want to hear different things..
I don't want to be buttered up though..
If there is something you truely like about one, just tell her..
Regardless of what it is..
Do I like to hear I have a nice ass, hell yea, nice eyes, smile ect..
Yes we like to hear it all at one time or another...Some guys like how little and flexable I am.
For some its the seductiveness I dance with...
One guy might legs, and the next 10 like something else..
Just concentrate on what caught you eye, or got your attention in the first place..It also gives us an idea of what your tastes are, and can cater to you better..
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18 years ago
Oh yes please do !!!
I worked at Chrstie's in Brunswick.. I had fun when I was there.
It was a great club...
Let me know when you'll be up here !!!
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18 years ago
I don't see it as wicked, I would just like to think that someone is telling me what honestly turns them on about me, and or what it is that caught thier eye..
All dancers love to hear compliments and such, I just like the truth, even if I am not what ya want (just be nice if I am not..LOL)
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18 years ago
What do Blondes and airplanes have in common??
They both have black boxes!!
I love to hear a few jokes..
We do have one guy that has so many, I can't see how he remembers them all...
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18 years ago
I love Helen Hunt, she is so hot in twister... Ok I'm done sorry..LOL