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2 years ago
Well if you ever see my ATF posting online about how much she hates me then let me know. That way I can fire her. I don't mind her resenting me, but would like the bad feelings to stay between us lol.
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2 years ago
BTW, Divas is BYOB. If you want flashy bottle service that's a different club. If you want a spacious area to let loose without the whole club seeing, that's Celebrity VIP at Divas.
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2 years ago
Do you care if the girls speak English? If not, the Divas Celebrity VIP room might be just the thing you're looking for. Except the one-on-one privacy if the bride's little brother will need it.
I'm sending you a PM with the rest of it.
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2 years ago
"Are you on Reddit ?"
Not really. Sometimes I run into articles on there in my web searches. I don't really set out to read there.
"Do you find it restrictive ?"
Maybe I would if I posted regularly. I've posted a few things in the stripclub forum in response to noobs, but most topics there aren't really ones I think about much. That's not a knock, because most threads on TUSCL aren't things that grab my attention enough to respond to. Every once in a while I look to see what's over there.
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2 years ago
The guys on TUSCL who posted ove there sounded way different. This guy wallanon included.
I didn't post much, because it got a little tiresome when there was always some militant one trying to grill me if I asked a question. Plus if I wanted to know what strippers thought about something I could just ask any of one of many strippers I talk with regularly about their take. Why deal with a bunch of posers causing problems when I didn't need to?
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Thanks for the heads up (and also in advance for the site update). It's cool that TUSCL continues to get new features.
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2 years ago
If the OP already had their mind made up why post the thread as a question? Nobody needs a thread with somebody countering everything people have offered. Even the we experienced TJ hounds are only speculating because we don't know anything about to you.
"However, we are both intrigued and may still check it, out if for anything, just to say we did."
To me this isn't a compelling reason to go. Just because two human beings who aren't you (and the missus) go there regularly and have a good time doesn't mean you will. Maybe one of the tusclers here who knows couples that TJ will be kind enough to float your questions by them and share the response with you.
And whoever said your wife might have a hard time wasn't wrong. If she's any kind of hot, in that environment shit could go sideways with people who'd have zero fear of you. It's 50/50 if the club helps you because you're foreign and they don't want the hassle.
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2 years ago
"Ideally, there’s a local club with several favorite dancers."
I used to think that, too. It only works if they're all making money. I try to have 2 or 3 clubs I'm cool with and a top girl at each one. Pre-COVID that was easy. Post-COVID the girls are still bouncing around too much.
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2 years ago
I prefer to club away from home, but I don't travel as much now. Plus when I do travel I'm too busy to write timely reviews anymore. If the choice is writing reviews or hooking up with hot chicks, you can look at my review drop off and know what I chose lol.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Now the whole site is redirecting to the shutdown message. I saw the SW forums earlier but got distracted and didn't log in until now. It had been years since I posted there, but would've at least said so long since I never got banned...
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2 years ago
"Drewcarey I completely disagree that it is up to the customer to keep count."
You're also wrong. If you don't know how many dances she did, you did the right thing by paying her for 3. Sometimes I'm in a club that's usually ok but the DJ on shift will go crazy and keep cutting songs off at 2 minutes. I'll let it go once, but if the next song is short I'll call it and tell the dancer why. If I know I got distracted and have to ask for the count, unless it sounds way higher I'll go with her number.
To your original "Do you think I was to harsh?"
Unless you yelled at her, it sounds like you just agreed to disagree. If you two just met she got her money and it's probably not a big deal. But you said her dances were "great", so maybe it's worth another go where you're on top of the song count.
"Should I try again and make it very clear she has to ask for another dance or was I right?"
Try talking about it like it's not a big deal and see if she'll go for it. But if you make it seem like you're high maintenance it could affect the quality of your dances.
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2 years ago
"It'd be PL if there werent any hot bodies there and you stuck around waiting for one to show up."
Is it PL to go to the club where you want to spend money and not see talent you want, then drive to a second club and ask one of those dancers to go the first club?
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2 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I actually felt bad for the guy after about the third time the cameras showed him crying his eyes out on the sideline. His page on Wikipedia already has that play written on it. Obviously that shove out of bounds was a huge fuck up, but nobody knows how overtime was going to go (and maybe the Chief still get the yards to move into field goal range).
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2 years ago
Hey Doc. Check your messages. Based on what you asked for...
1. Men's Club
2. Perfect 10
3. Sugar's
4. Palace
5. Tiffany's
Others to try: Scarlett's, All Stars
Avoid: Diamonds, Babes, Playboy
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2 years ago
"Oh...and by the way....do not EVER touch an AA girl's hair....you only make that mistake once"
Mostly true if you mess it up. Definitely don't do that. But a lot of the girls with those styles have their hair pulled tight and like getting their scalps massaged...if you know how to do it right. One time I think a couple of dancers had planned to try and rob me, but changed their mind after I gave one of them a good massage through their wig.
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2 years ago
"kinda angry to find out I look better with somewhat darker hair."
Is this a case where you haven't seen your natural hair color in a long while? It's cool that you're changing up your look and liking it.
Last few years the girls I've dug the most (like repeated horizontal time) have jet black hair.
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2 years ago
Ok. I am going to type really slowly. TUSCL is being a little twitchy right now. Or my phone is. Lol
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2 years ago
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2 years ago
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Have fun dcpnw! Saw your comment about how she might perceive the arrangement from an emotional perspective. Every girl is different, which is old news to a hound like you.
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2 years ago
The last time I bought a dancer an outfit (the other day) it was from the store inside the club. I almost never buy outfits, but it was a weird situation that I was partly responsible for.
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2 years ago
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mogul1985I have 3 lives: Work, Dog Shows and Strip Clubs
Why are all my inner voices groaning at that joke, shadowcat?
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
"They'll literally sit with me for 2-3 hours. If I push the issue and try to get them in a room without the chitchat they seem offended and some have literally said 'not yet, can we hang for a while first' which is shocking in and of itself, doubly so for a girl who charges like an escort."
Let's get the ego saving out of the way first. Yes, some dancers want to hang with you because they prefer your company to some other wallet's. Other dancers want to tie you up so it's less likely you'll meet another girl you like. If they know you're a potential source of dollars outside the club this increases their interest, because they can cash in on you OTC and make other people's money on shift because you're taken care of. Example, a dancer sees you on the way to work, gets your money, and starts the day ahead. Even better, you got your nut already so are less likely to wander into a club and meet a girl you like better. Everybody wins.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Better hide the Cheerios or herbtcat is going to piss in them lol.
I was going to post something about sugar daddies being a thing before Seeking Arrangement. And the internet for that matter. But his post covered all that. There's lots of names for sugar babies. We use a lot of them here on TUSCL when we feel like being rude.
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2 years ago
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mogul1985I have 3 lives: Work, Dog Shows and Strip Clubs
TheeOSU might be onto something...