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19 years ago
Every time (and yes, I mean EVERY time) I have approached a girl about a dance, when she does get to me and give me the dance, she'll just grab her money and run when it's over. Sure, I know it's all about the money, but would it hurt to be nice about it? Lesson learned: If she's more interersted in talking to other strippers at the bar and not interested enough to work the floor, I don't bother.
As a side note, I'm not one of those guys who won't tip. If I watch the show, I will tip (I get plenty of attention from most girls, because I have a reputation for being a good tipper). Even if I have to chase her down when she gets off stage. But even then, I expect her to offer a lap/table dance--I shouldn't have to request it.
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19 years ago
SD, I'm glad you have spare cash. But no, I've not made the smartest of financial decisions, either. Something about alcohol and a nude girl doesn't get me to wondering about mutual funds. lol
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19 years ago
Turned down? Hell, I have a problem keeping them from giving me their numbers: "Here's my number. Call me." And no, I'm not looking for a g/f or any other relationship. *shrugs*
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19 years ago
I had a stripper ask for my email one time. I gave it to her and never heard from her. Oh, well.
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19 years ago
clubber,
*groans* Tell me about it. There's a topless club in Dayton, OH called "Cheeks". Really cool place, actually. Anyway, the cash went from the mechanical ATM to me to the girls. That was a painful trip. :( I blame it on the 2-for-1 couch dances. :D
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19 years ago
FONDL,
My experice (limited) has been the exact opposite. If I approace a girl, she usually doesn't really want to dance for me, hence my post above--when it's over she grabs the money and runs.
I much prefer a girl work the floor and come to me, that way I know she's interesting in actually dancing. If I sit at a club all night without getting approached by a girl, I will write a bad review. As far as I'm concerned, that's their job. Think about it this way: What if you wanted to buy a new car, went to the dealership, and no one approached you or offered you any assistance? Would you buy from this place? I wouldn't (I actually had this happen to me at a dealership two weeks ago). If they just want to sit on their asses at the bar, I'm gonna let them sit.
Usually, if I see a girl from whom I want a dance, I will tip her while she's on stage. Then she will usually as me for a dance after she done, or ask to come sit with me and then offer a dance. Works out fine. :)
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19 years ago
IMHO, it depends on how well you take care of your body. I've seen some great looking 45+ dancers, and some butt ugly 25 year-old dancers. I'm not talking about putting on a few pounds--that happens to everyone as they age. But as long as you still look good, put on a good show, and don't look like you were "rode hard and put up wet," I'll still tip ya. ;)
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19 years ago
I'm with Topless on this one, except that I prefer no hair at all. Or trimmed instead of a landing strip.
But of the choices offered, I say the breasts.
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19 years ago
Topless, I need to go to your club. In my (albeit, limited) club experience, I have NEVER enjoyed a dance when I approach a girl. Every time, I get treated like, "If I wanted to dance for you, I would have asked!" Lesson learned: I don't ask.
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19 years ago
Tiffany,
Don't be too hard on FONDL. I, too, have been to many clubs in the ATL area, and was overall unimpressed. I can fully understand why he takes the approach and attitude that he does.
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19 years ago
"Can you give me a ride home?"